I've had an account on plenty of fish for a while now, and its been fun...but while thinking about sp'ing again...I'm not thinking that perhaps a site like sugardaddy.com or something would be more appropriate. I mean, if I'm going to think about starting this up as a part time job again...why not just have a mutual arrangement with aggreements set monthly with only one particular person? Has anyone else had experience with these sites? Any advice or recommendations?
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hmm..i wonder why they didnt' reply unless they had already found their "daddy's" BUt out of curtousy they definately should have still at least replied! There is also www.seekingarrangement.com .....hmm....
Thats exactly it. They're more dating sites BUT, most of the men are A.) married and B.) seeking out a woman they're attracted to for intimacy and companionship in exchange for monies or gifts. So in essence it is sort of like sp'ing..except you would most likely be more exclusive to either one or two men.
I am looking at it from the guys perspective.
Not a lot of the girls on there would have sex just for money. A lot of the same girls on there are on sites like Lava Life etc.
I wanted it to be that way but it isn't
The women I was with wanted a guy to have money. Not to give them money for sex. They wanted a commitment over 90% of the time.
I don't want a commitment.
"If you want flings, try Ashley Madison (website). Don't waste your time with Sugar Daddies. Why would a man with money bother ? U simply don't need the assistance of a website unless you are fat & disgusting."
Of course I'd want assistance with a website. I dont know how else i would just walk up to some man and start arranging this business transaction. This way, if you are both on the site, you know exactly what the other is wanting or needing and there are no hidden expectations etc. ANd i'm sorry BUT if you are fat and disgusting NOT EVEN A WEBSITE will help you.
Of course I'd want assistance with a website. I dont know how else i would just walk up to some man and start arranging this business transaction. This way, if you are both on the site, you know exactly what the other is wanting or needing and there are no hidden expectations etc. ANd i'm sorry BUT if you are fat and disgusting NOT EVEN A WEBSITE will help you.
intimacy
i believe a lot of the guys who join websites want to meet a woman for intimacy without the clock ticking, the menu flashing, and the hurried goodbye when time is up. i think they want a woman for sex but they also want the cuddling, the holding, and someone who stays the nite...because she wants to not because she is being paid to.
i may be naive, but i believe that can be had, with the right woman, without the complications...the head games, jealousies, and committments... of a girl friend, boy friend relationship.
the hard part is finding the right woman.
i believe a lot of the guys who join websites want to meet a woman for intimacy without the clock ticking, the menu flashing, and the hurried goodbye when time is up. i think they want a woman for sex but they also want the cuddling, the holding, and someone who stays the nite...because she wants to not because she is being paid to.
i may be naive, but i believe that can be had, with the right woman, without the complications...the head games, jealousies, and committments... of a girl friend, boy friend relationship.
the hard part is finding the right woman.
dood
i have to disagree with you on how easy this will be to find. a lot of women want the long term relationship..even when they say they do not. many women think a married man who wants this type of relationship is just a cheating asshole and will have nothing to do with him.
that is why an SP is so refreshing sometimes. she does not judge, she does not ask for a committment, and all is up front right from the get go. the only thing missing is the true intimacy. that is the part that is hard to find,...without the long term drama and complications.
the only problem with the SP is the price creeping. but that is a topic for another posting...lol
i have to disagree with you on how easy this will be to find. a lot of women want the long term relationship..even when they say they do not. many women think a married man who wants this type of relationship is just a cheating asshole and will have nothing to do with him.
that is why an SP is so refreshing sometimes. she does not judge, she does not ask for a committment, and all is up front right from the get go. the only thing missing is the true intimacy. that is the part that is hard to find,...without the long term drama and complications.
the only problem with the SP is the price creeping. but that is a topic for another posting...lol
Some good points made there. If I only had a money tree in my backyard, life would be good
I thought you were talking about a website helping a WOMAN who was deemed fat and disgusting. That is why I said even a website would not be able to help you!
