WTF is the deal with women and attached men???

[smackyo]

Most girls like being attached to someone right? So Girls can look at a guy and see that he is single and one thought comes to mind...Why?,There must be something wrong? But a guy that is married or has a girlfriend just means that there is something right with him!He must have some type of charm or he is fun to be around or just a great person...Not sure but it is just a thought!!

so then how in the hell is a man supposed to get a woman to begin with? oh yeah by this logic i guess they just cheat on the woman they are with to be with the woman that go by this "logic" and then eventually cheat on that women cause there is another woman out there that goes by this "logic" as well.

but yeah i guess seeing as how i don't have a woman right now cause i work 7 days a week and often 10 plus hours a day to pay my bills off, make good on things and help out my family means that there is something wrong with me.

not that i have compassion, empathy, character or integrity.

 

[Krustee]

Help? Who is Rico Suave??? (LOL)..

LOL...

The ever-erudite VeeVee is refering to what is more of a definitive personality type.

Rico Suave is what every man wants to be, but 99.7% of men never live up to (wherein lies the point of VeeVee's intended witticism).

Here is the Urban Dictionary definitions on Rico Suave.

1. rico suave 162 up, 41 down

Rico Suave is basically a man who is for all intended purposes the following: Good Looking, muscular, "macho"-being totally cool toward everyone and everything, very clean and neat in appearance, a man who is 100% man: almost every lady is attracted to him because of his great charismatic ability, and when need be, he can be a real bad guy to mess with. Rico Suave is more of a definitive personality type, go to the beach in the summer and you will see several who fit the above, in addition to wearing sunglasses and jewelry, he is a ladies man, enjoying fast cars, hot woman, and good at hustling people in pool. Rico Suave is what every man wants to be, but 99.7% of men never live up to.
"Man, that guy has it going on, he's a real Rico Suave"....

2. rico suave 132 up, 53 down

Latin lover type with greesed hair, gold chains, flowing shirt, the whole bit. Said person usually has largely inflated ego and a slight lisp.
Hey, check out rico suave over there...

Personally I think #2 is the more accurate of the definitions.

Thanks for the edification and a forum on Rico S.

Anyway, to keep it simple, it is sort of Joe Sixpack with style ??? But then why can't men be contented with who they really are?
Keep wanting to be someone else and pretending what they are not.
Can a man be dishonest with himself and then be a better person in the end ???
Here are two interesting quotes:

"This above all:
To thine own self be true,
for it must follow as dost the night the day,
that canst not then be false to any man."

You raise some good points here & cause for reflection NOS.
Of particular value is your statements I hi-lited.

Why can't we just be happy with the skin we're in?

Why the fretting & fussing with trying to be "cool" in other peoples eyes?

FUCK - "cool"

Be yourself, if that is cool with you then you are - cool!
Dig it?

So, what would be the woman equivalent to Rico Suave???

I'm gonna go out on a limb here:

Veronico Suave'




Interesting read:
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[aznboi9]

"..now cause i work 7 days a week and often 10 plus hours a day to pay my bills off, make good on things and help out my family means that there is something wrong with me."

doing honest work, helping out your family means you are doing something way better than cheating on GFs and wives alike...

I think you're missing his point.

 

[Cosmo]

It's marketing. Women sell the suit..with or without the man.

Hmmm.... maybe in some cases. I don't believe so in my experiences. There's more to it than that.

 

[Cosmo]

Veronico Suave'

Nope... not a chance. You miss the whole essence of the personna she has created here.

 

[Krustee]

Nope... not a chance. You miss the whole essence of the personna she has created here.

OK I'll bite ...
what is the essence of her personna master Cosmo?