Do you think if you shower right before you come and it has been literally been like 10 minutes, should you still shower just to appease your lady?
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Should you always shower no matter what if a lady suggests it? I am a clean guy(clean looking too), well dressed, and had just showered, flossed, brushed, shaved, everything, and the sp offered me a shower and I declined. Did I screw up? Do you unofficially get less of a GFE if you don't accept the shower at the beginning?
I wouldn't recommend shaving, brushing teeth, or flossing less than 2 hours before a session. These activities may cause micro cuts or abrasions and slight bleeding in the gum or skin. Of course, a respirator mask can always be worn over the face at the expense of reduced GFE.
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That's my method. I'm out of my own shower 30 minutes before the appointment. And it's a 'date' shower, not a 'going to work' shower. I get so sudsy you can barely see me for the bubbles. I dry with a new towel and get into freshly washed cloths. A little baby powder where the sun don't shine is a good tip too. Keeps everything perfectly fresh for the drive over. So I treat it just like it's a date.
If an escort insisted I take a shower before we start, I would leave and go see someone else. It cuts into my time so I'm not going to do it. Having said that, I've been reading a lot of posts by escorts telling us about some of the nasty, disgusting pooners that show up at the door. So I can certainly understand why some would insist on it.
Oh. And appease her all you want as long as you're not compromising any of your own boundaries.
Imagine you are the 1st patient at your doctor's office (man not woman) about to receive a lengthy & intimate exam & you notice doc has a dusting of baby powder on his hands, you ask what's with the talc & he says he didn't want to cut into your app't time by 'rewashing' and heck..
Be a champ, not a cheapskate. In the words of Nike, just do it.
Nah, don't do it. Show up clean and do what you came there to do. Wash on your own time. She does (hopefully), so take her lead and do the same. If there is time, shower after, and invite her to join you. This is for people that know how to take a shower. Those who don't, shouldn't even visit escorts. Stick to porn.
So you're a prick if you don't accept the option of a shower (regardless of whether you showered 30 minutes ago or not)? Why not just say that a shower is mandatory/an expected courtesy then?
maybe I'm crazy but...
a gentleman's time in the shower is not part of the allocated time for our session...I consider that to be part of the time I refer to as "the grace period" - the extra time I build into the blocked appointment time for things like showering and initial conversation...but hey, that's just how I do things...
I like to use baby powder for massages when my clients don't like/want me to use oil or lotion...as far as "unit"
butt - I use cornstarch dusted on with a big poofy puff post shower 
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If all Sp's offered a shower with them joining in, I for one would think it would be part of all the fun and of course the time both individuals are giving/paying for. Nothing better than getting squeaky clean with a hot women lathering your body and vice versa. Restrictions can be determined as to what is appropriate touching, but a good soaping of the body with slippery bubbles all over is truly a turn on for me.
Licking off the trail of water beads could be the next step to heightening the sexual pleasure of the session too.
Keeping the hair dry is likely the biggest concern of the ladies as drying and conditioning the hair all day long could be a concern. But I bet most men can take as shower and hardly get a hair on their head wet. Same consideration for the ladies should be practiced.
Now let's all go for some good clean fun!
G.A.
If all Sp's offered a shower with them joining in, I for one would think it would be part of all the fun and of course the time both individuals are giving/paying for. Nothing better than getting squeaky clean with a hot women lathering your body and vice versa. Restrictions can be determined as to what is appropriate touching, but a good soaping of the body with slippery bubbles all over is truly a turn on for me.
Licking off the trail of water beads could be the next step to heightening the sexual pleasure of the session too.
Keeping the hair dry is likely the biggest concern of the ladies as drying and conditioning the hair all day long could be a concern. But I bet most men can take as shower and hardly get a hair on their head wet. Same consideration for the ladies should be practiced.
Now let's all go for some good clean fun!
G.A.
LOL - Hubba, I do believe I'm blushing.
oh and, re: BP- don't go slapping it into your butt like you're trying to smuggle a kilo of cocain over some central american border. Just one light sprinkle on your hand and a quick pat on your butt does the trick. No, you won't smell like a baby. You won't smell anything, which is the point.
I've read all kinds of opinions on showers from escorts and my fellow perbites. But ya know what, no escort has ever asked me to take a shower beforehand. I can barely remember one or two may have suggested they have a shower if I want to use it, but that was in email or over the phone. I'm sure we can all agree that it's best for everyone if you just show up as clean as possible. If a guy can't get himself clean in his own shower I'm not sure what 5 minutes in her shower is going to do. If you show up funky, your just going to be moist n' funky. So do it right the first time and then you don't have to mess up her bathroom/towels etc.. I'm sure she'd prefer that too, unless she likes to use that time to count the money.
Bottom line, when I go see an escort I'm anxious to see HER, not her bathroom.
I was just wondering about that. What do the married guys do? Of course they can't go wandering around the house from shower to bedroom getting ready to see their SP's with the wife and kids running around.
Wife "Why are you shaving your balls and whistling 'I'm feeling lucky'? It's not Thursday!"
No no, that would never do.
Ladies...
Both of you have said that you build shower time in, that's fine for me if it's a quick rinse, but do you never get the clients who take a 15 min shower before and after? I always offer the shower, most take me up on it, some don't, I am okay with both as long as they have just showered.
I have on regular client, who spends about 20 minutes after the appt taking a shower, doing his hair and so on. Don't you think that is taking a little bit advantage of my easy-goingness?
Both of you have said that you build shower time in, that's fine for me if it's a quick rinse, but do you never get the clients who take a 15 min shower before and after? I always offer the shower, most take me up on it, some don't, I am okay with both as long as they have just showered.
I have on regular client, who spends about 20 minutes after the appt taking a shower, doing his hair and so on. Don't you think that is taking a little bit advantage of my easy-goingness?
well...since you're asking...
you know I'll luv ya regardless of whether we agree or agree to disagree
Well sasha personally I don't think its taking advantage if it's a regular client...I think its just a one of those "take the good with the bad" kinda things...if you average it out it probably doesn't take up that much extra time....but hey, that's me
you know I'll luv ya regardless of whether we agree or agree to disagree I should really take a closer look at who's posting
wow...sorry sarah...being oh so slightly dyslexic, I looked at your post and thought it was written bi my friend sasha passion...big oops!!!!Well sasha personally I don't think its taking advantage if it's a regular client...I think its just a one of those "take the good with the bad" kinda things...if you average it out it probably doesn't take up that much extra time....but hey, that's me
