Huge appologies from Saraphina

[littlejimbigher]

I can understand being sick with no benifits having experienced it.
It's not like your profession is unionized with great sick leave.
I'm sure most guys understand and you bonus offer to them is more than fair.

 

[visiting]

PPS: Visiting sorry your $500,000 cheque bounced LOL .
Saraphina

Dam dam dam,

Again??????

So Sorry Saraphina, I got the check as an advance from my new Nigeria business partner.....

I am going to have a chat with da prince.....

 

[MissingOne]

It's hard to imagine the intrepid heroine of "Saraphina's Cross Canada Journal" being brought down by anything. I'm sure you'll recover your full superheroine powers soon!

 

[Robertdice]

Now I have always liked saraphina but I am going to play Devils advocate here. Saraphina you and all sp’s know that your job doesn’t have any income if you stop working so most smart people put money away for emergencies that may arise. Being off work happens to everyone sooner or later and if you have taken for granted that you can spend however you want because you make good money then you have lived foolishly. Now with all the money you have made in this industry as you are certainly not new being off work 1 month shouldn’t hurt you and if it does then you have been careless with your money. You are working on people’s sympathy here and this is pretty low if you ask me. I am sorry that you are out of commission but maybe instead of buying a bottle of booze and smokes all the time you should have put some money aside every week for when there came a time such as now that you aren’t able to work. This is what most people in the other working world do. One of my favorite sp’s just had 3 months off of work because of an injury yet no one even knew as she went away quietly. Now I may be wrong here and I hope that I am but I can’t help but wonder if this is a cry for attention?


After being involved in some drama saraphina had tried a MP which didn’t work out and a few other things which I have noticed that raise my curiosity about what was really going on but the kick off was recently announcing a GB when she has not even ever tried greek! Going from a virgin ass to 5 or more cocks in there for several hrs is quite a jump. That is was what really put doubt and suspicion in mind. These all sound like cries of desperation for attention and money.

 

[tianna]

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Now I have always liked saraphina but I am going to play Devils advocate here. Saraphina you and all sp’s know that your job doesn’t have any income if you stop working so most smart people put money away for emergencies that may arise. Being off work happens to everyone sooner or later and if you have taken for granted that you can spend however you want because you make good money then you have lived foolishly. Now with all the money you have made in this industry as you are certainly not new being off work 1 month shouldn’t hurt you and if it does then you have been careless with your money. You are working on people’s sympathy here and this is pretty low if you ask me. I am sorry that you are out of commission but maybe instead of buying a bottle of booze and smokes all the time you should have put some money aside every week for when there came a time such as now that you aren’t able to work. This is what most people in the other working world do. One of my favorite sp’s just had 3 months off of work because of an injury yet no one even knew as she went away quietly. Now I may be wrong here and I hope that I am but I can’t help but wonder if this is a cry for attention?


After being involved in some drama saraphina had tried a MP which didn’t work out and a few other things which I have noticed that raise my curiosity about what was really going on but the kick off was recently announcing a GB when she has not even ever tried greek! Going from a virgin ass to 5 or more cocks in there for several hrs is quite a jump. That is was what really put doubt and suspicion in mind. These all sound like cries of desperation for attention and money.

First of all.. who are you to say that she was spending all her money foolishly.. booze and smokes.. ?????

Do you even know what happened to her??? I personally do not.. nor did I ask.. clearly its private. and I dont think she would make up posts just for attention


You dont even know her fiancial information.. as its also a private matter. If you are one of the people who she owes money to.. perhaps you are a bit bitter ????? or upset by a missed appointment???


I find your post to be a personal attack.. and uncalled for
but this is just my opinion

T

 

[Bobo The Rabbit]

Its a big problem in North america that people live paycheck to paycheck, which is stupid but its a result of consumer society.
There are people feeding and clothing themselfs with a income of 20-30k a year and not going into debt, yet there are people who make 100,000 a year and are deep in debt.

To be honest I dont think saraphina should of spent money that was not hers, but hey its not my money so unless we see guys she owes money to complaining, its none of our buissness.

Its hard for guys on these forums who blow maybe 10-20k a year cash on a hobby that dosent give them anything material to show for it to understand the pains of someone who dosent have enough in the bank to last them even a month with out income.

 

[Robertdice]

Its a big problem in North america that people live paycheck to paycheck, which is stupid but its a result of consumer society.
There are people feeding and clothing themselfs with a income of 20-30k a year and not going into debt, yet there are people who make 100,000 a year and are deep in debt.

To be honest I dont think saraphina should of spent money that was not hers, but hey its not my money

Bobo The Rabbit got it!

Tianna you obviously missed my point. Re read my post and then comment but I still would bet that you wouldn’t understand as your posts also reflect your immatureity and it shows that you have much still left to learn. With that said it is not a personal attack just the way it is babes. There are no attacks here just my opinion like everyone else. You have a hot body and are a great fuck but very green when it comes to the most important disciplines of life. Hopefully in time you will mature into a fine lady and not make mistakes like Saraphina has.

Avarice you also missed the boat on this one honey the difference between my pooning money and saraphina’s situation is that I am set up finically therefore I can spend however I want as if I lost my job I have money in the bank set aside to cover my expenses and much more such as RSP’s and property investments . I wouldn’t keep spending money on the hobby or anything else for that matter without first keeping something aside for the necessities in life incase something ever did happen. Saraphina has been in this industry long enough that if she spent wisely she wouldn’t be in this position now. With all the money she has made over the years why is she living pay day to pay or month to month something is obviously wrong. In stead of attacking me you can all learn from this. Avarice this has probably triggered something in you only because you keep coming back to the business after many attempts to leave. If you want one day we can sit down and I can show you some financial books that I was once shown which changed my financial life.

 

[Danika]

I can relate....

First of all Sarah I can relate to your hard times...I too have been ill and have had to stay in the hospital. The first time for almost 3 months last year and again for a month and a half quite recently.

I know its a hard and confusing time and especially frustrating. I don't know your exact details but for myself I am bipolar...I have experienced my first and hopefully my last manic episode. I was totally unprepared for my world to stop and have to be forced to come back to reality in a hospital in victoria....thats three months of rent, all those bills adding up...not only that the depressing thought of not dancing because of medication that made me fat.
But the point is when I walked out of the hospital I wasn't worried financially...I had savings that I had given to a friend I truly trusted he would hold onto it and not let me spend just in case.
Well that just in case day came in handy when I realized I couldn't work or dance for a while.
I waitressed until they found the meds that work for me, I started working again as an sp.
I believed I would be fine and not have to go into the hospital ever again but I did save a bit of money because I do find working as an sp very rewarding and easy to save...knowing the fact that by body won't allow me to do this forever and just to think what if that friend didn't give me my 3000 I would have been fucked the first time...
so yeah anyways the second time I was in the ubc mood disorder centre I was only in for a month. Even after a month of not working I can congrats to myself for having the money to keep my apartment and my lifestyle in check
Now I can say Ive felt the high and lows of bipolar and I have read alot about my illness to help myself...Stay grounded

Sarah don't get me wrong I am not saying you are an idiot for not having savings but I am saying you could get sick again so its something to think about to have savings. About pissing off clients....
Well I know I gave a bunch of lame excuses why I flaked out to my clients, I was just too embarassed to say I was in the hospital...because of you I have strength to not be shy that I got sick, I know Im not alone
I believe you have to take time to know what you want and believe inyourself set goals and just do it...paying off debts isn't that hard if you focuss, and the people you owe money too are probably more worried about seeing your beautiful smile again then rushing you to pay them back!

So after all this rambling I just want to say we all have our own battles, goals, motivations, but we should all have compassion for sarah for writing her honest sincere worries and help her to feel strong again!

Sarah I wish for you to know your inner strength and beauty and use it the best way you know how!

hugs and kisses
Danika

 

[Umeletsmake3]

i've seen Saraphina and she has a good head on her shoulders. Her chosen profession is nothing if not volatile. Though, I'm a bit confused as to why she wrote this two months ago:

"Thank you! (my looming retirement)

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Well I have been close to retirement a few times (some of my clients have heard me throw around idea), but never really followed through. I have never posted it because I wanted to be sure. At any rate, I have hit a point with smart investments, that I shortly I will be permenantly finicially secure for the rest of my life. LOL"

and now something happened that should have protected her in any crisis and suddenly she is not. perhaps she can shed some light keeping in mind its really none of our business and certainly there are details that are being kept and should be kept private.

 

[JustCallMeR]

I just can't believe it.

What on earth motivates someone who, when they know someone has been through a tough time, to take a thread of support and turn it into an attack?

Wasn't the murder in the west end thread debacle a lesson to everyone?

 

[Lady Companion]

Possible reasons for not having cash flow - even if you are finacially set for life.

Possible reasons for not having cash flow.

Now, I don't know Saraphina beyond her board persona, but I do believe she mentioned a few months ago that she could retire shortly because she was set for life. Now, that is a goal I would hope all of us ladies are working towards in a practical manner, and we really have no reason to believe she has not reached that.

My take on her current financial predicament was not that she didn't have the equity, but that she didn't have the cash flow at the moment to repay the deposits. (I'll leave whether or not she should have spent the deposits prior to completing the engagement alone) It doesn't make sense to have a lot of money sitting in a low interest baring account (or even the pathetic 3.5-4% high interest savings accounts). If she has a good business sense, she likely has the vast majority of her money tied up in investments, and only enough money to cover a few months of expenses in her high interest savings account. If the cause for her taking a month off was sudden, it is quite feasible that she had very little in easily liquid assets figuring that she would make more than enough throughout the month to cover her needs and bump her easy access cash up.

With this thought in mind, she likely has the financial capability to repay the deposits, but it really isn't economically advantageous to do so. Anybody following the overall stock market the last couple of months would agree it is buying time, and not selling time. All the fundamentally strong stocks are severely under priced right now due to margins being called in and strong stocks sold to cover the hedging on mortgage companies that are going belly up. Selling right now would cause real losses and not do anybody good in the long run.

The other possibility is that her medical bills may have far surpassed her usual living expenses. We are all assuming that she received care in Canada with our socialized medicine. It is entirely feasible that she traveled to the US or another country to get better and quicker medical attention. This is certainly a viable option for those of us who are fortunate enough to be able to afford it. However, it adds up very quickly - especially if she was actually staying in the hospital. For reference, I have had some diagnostic and OUTPATIENT treatment done in the US this year which has already surpassed the six figure mark on what I have paid out of my pocket (and I have a kick ass medical plan by most standards).

I suppose what I am saying is that none of us knows the whole story. Maybe she is bad with money (she certainly wouldn't be the first companion who was), maybe she is crying wolf, or maybe she is trying to play of sympathies. I don't know. I do know that I would rather give her the benefit of the doubt and not berate her at a time when she is already down. She has agreed to pay back the deposits, and I am sure we will all hear about it if she doesn't.

Let's not speculate as to why she wasn't able to cover a couple of months living expenses. There could very well be extenuating circumstances as I have endeavored to point out above. It could be for any or none of the reasons listed in this thread. It really isn't our business how she manages her money - and while it would be ideal to have been able to repay the deposits immediately, she has agreed to do so as soon as possible. Let's not rake her over the coals for possible financial indiscretions when she needs to focus on getting well. A little positivity never killed anyone. ;-)

 

[Saraphina]

Am I a little frivilous with my money????

Yes! I like pretty things........ and I am sure that the gentlemen I see enjoy them too!!!

But do I blow all my money on pretty things and booze?

HELL NO!!!!


- I have business expenses that need to get paid regardless.
- I support a single parent home better than many 2 parent homes.
- Assets and investments are not always easily liquidable (especially not from a hospital bed).
- I have also been committing myself to projects that pay singnificantly less than being an SP but are just plain cool and fun. (Or in terms of polishing up my condo for sale no immediate income for the the time invested)

Sorry the money got spent. Sorry that cashing in my RRSPs, Bonds, GIC's isn't flowing as fluidly as I would like right now. What more can I say???

Sorry

I am doing my best to get these things done and honor my obligations. But I need to preserve my own sanity. Sure I can go work round the clock for a week and pay everyone off and have my bills paid and then have some. But quite frankly, after that week, I would crash. I would be done with the biz with a bad taste in my mouth at the end of that very week. So I am trying to this as healthy as I possibly can. I can openly admit that I my current state is fragile, flakey, and a very airheaded. But my confidence is getting more and more strong everyday.


Whoever wants to mad at me. It's fair. I will accept it. Your right the money shouldn't have been spent. But it was. I will honor whatever debts are outstanding. You can still be mad and never want to ever see me even after that. I can only do what I can do. Sorry.

 

[wildoats]

This is getting twisted

I will start off this with I was there in the hospital the morning after .
I was there once a day for the first week .
I watched as the time had past and seen slight signs of recovery.
It is hart breaking to see some one in a state of such hurt.
Saraphina cheers you are not there yet but your recovery is coming along well . Right now that is all that should really matter is getting to the point
of well being... I would like to tip my hat to Robertdice as far as the GB go's well I can say I tapped her ass and scince she could take me I am sure that five guys in two hours would not be a problem. hence you have
no idea what you write of

 

[Danika]

Sarah darling...

You do not have to appologize any more.

let this post die. You said you were sorry for something that may have needed the appology...but now just let it go.

Become who you want to be, take care of your health and get rid of the guilt, you're ok trust me. Your pics are beautiful and from what I can tell you are trying your best. That counts for a lot babe!

I had times when I wanted to quit working and times when I love working, I think every sp feels that way. Just pick your pride up off the floor and stand tall for what you want.

I just wanted to let you know I believe you will find your middle ground, I believe you are a strong woman and will overcome this bump in the road.

Follow your path that brings nothing but happiness and know that people do care about you even if they don't know you well!

hugs and kisses
Danika

 

[stryker]

I will start off this with I was there in the hospital the morning after .
I was there once a day for the first week .
I watched as the time had past and seen slight signs of recovery.
It is hart breaking to see some one in a state of such hurt.

K,,Now would some one enlighten us as to what happened to her?
Car accident/raped/fell off a building/hit by a car/woman problems/fell of her heals/robbed and beaten??

Me thinks for any one to show any compassion,a jist of what transpired would be in order.
And if anyone thinks I'm out of line for asking,,well,,fuck off

Inquiring minds would like to know.

 

[Jessikaxxx]

cries for attention and money!!!

hey rob,
I've wasted all my time and cash dp-ing saraphina, and buying booze and smokes.
I know, perhaps we can hook up and you can chastise and lecture me about financial discrepancies and responsibilities!!(riveting, such a turn on)
After that you can spank me, send me to my room and give it to me doggie-daddy style in the ass until ive learned my lesson.
p.s. Ill need you to bring some of that well invested $$$$ of yours for such debauchery.
xoxox,
jxxx

 

[Crazy_Janey]

And if anyone thinks I'm out of line for asking,,well,,fuck off

You are out of line, as is everyone else who thinks they should know.

Inquiring minds would like to know.

Inquiring minds can go fuck themselves...(sorry Sonny, but you are so quotable at times!)

 

[girlcrazy]

Can any guys recomend a condom brand that is very LARGE???

Saraphina get well soon!
In hopes to switch this topic since it strayed from genuine concern to sh^t disturbing: Can any perbs recomend a LARGE (to fit 9"-10" rods) fitting brand of condoms??? Larger than the green box Trojan Larges please!
What store/website/ can large condoms be bought at??? Tempted to pretend I'm inquiring for myself..... buuuuut it's actually for a buddy with a new girl

 

[stryker]

You are out of line, as is everyone else who thinks they should know.



Inquiring minds can go fuck themselves...(sorry Sonny, but you are so quotable at times!)

Crazy,,no ,I don't think I was out of line,,if I remember,this was posted on a public board,was it not

Now ,Crazy(fitting isn't it)all I did was ask a question that many others would like the answer to,pretty simple,don't ya think?
There is no need to take a swipe at me,as I've only asked a question,,or three
Now,,you just joined(brain fart,Crazy has been with us since 05),and only have 1 post here..so,whats your story and history??or shall I start picking history apart(ya don't want to go there,,trust me )
Any way Sara....hope yore doing better.

 

[Crazy_Janey]

Any way Sara....hope yore doing better.

Now why didn't you just say THAT?...but I agree, I hope she's doing well.