My husband runs his own business and makes good coin doing it. Any money I make is mine. Not once has he ever asked me for a dime, nor has he hinted, applied or clued me for any money. It's not a matter of him seeing "easy money". Actually, before this, we were swingers. Nothing is "broken" in our relationship. We both treat each other with respect, honesty, and dignity. We love and care for each other. I am involvedin a relationship where honesty is #1. In my past, I had relationships where I didn't feel I could be honest 100% because the guy I was with couldn't handle the full truth at times. NOW, I have a relationship with omebody who can handle the truth, and vice-versa.
Saying something is wrong with an SP who is involved is like saying all pooners relationships with their S/O's are damaged. Which isn't true. A lot of pooners have great relationships. I have a few wives who call me and say
"Can you blow my husband? It would be a turn on to have another woman blow him." Does that mean that their relationship is warped or damaged? Nope. It means they are an open minded couple who like play. Maybe something a little naughtier than the norm.
I have a fantastic relationship. Nothing is damaged. I'm sure if you were able to find out, you would be amazed at how many SP's have husbands, boyfriends, life partners or S/O's, and their relationships are just fine.