Hey everyone, what spa would you recommend for a first timer? I want to go to one of the spas, I've never touched another cock before but I've been wanting to experience one(hopefully lots) soon, i love the idea of walking around naked and seeing all the cocks big and small! I'll be going on a weekend, if that matters at all, and am very interested in glory holes, thanks!
Best Spa for First Timer
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I would go to Steam1 for your first time because it's smaller but still very busy on Sundays. Steamworks is bigger and busier on the weekend so it might be overwhelming or it might be what you want. Both have a pretty even mix of age and race with Steamworks having a few more younger guys. I felt Steam1 was a more friendly crowd and Steamworks I got more action. I haven't been to F212 so I can't say anything about that spa.
There are 3 gay/bi bathhouses/spas in the region. 4 FF sex shops with glory holes/theaters. I would first recommend you read the thread post here about these locations. You will read alot about Steam 1 in new west because it was reviewed. Which spa would be better depends upon your comfort level and confidence. Especially if this is your first time playing with cocks. Your age, looks, cock size and confidence will directly influence your success.
My first time going to one (Steam 1) was on a Saturday afternoon 3 - 6 pm. There were around 20 guys and a couple of women present. In that 3 hour window i played with 6 guys (oral only). I was happy with my experience. Sundays can be very busy with over 100 guys cycling thru the day. I am in my sixties average build and cock and i wasn't a wall flower waiting for someone to approach me. Walk around, don't cover your cock with the towel. Approach any group play in the public rooms, stop by any open door with the private rooms to see what is happening. I got invited in to play because i did that. Respect other's boundaries and realize that not every guy wants you. Shake it off and move on.
See what special events may be happening at the 3 spas so you know what you will be walking into considering your a very new to playing with cocks.
Happy to answer any other questions you have.
My first time going to one (Steam 1) was on a Saturday afternoon 3 - 6 pm. There were around 20 guys and a couple of women present. In that 3 hour window i played with 6 guys (oral only). I was happy with my experience. Sundays can be very busy with over 100 guys cycling thru the day. I am in my sixties average build and cock and i wasn't a wall flower waiting for someone to approach me. Walk around, don't cover your cock with the towel. Approach any group play in the public rooms, stop by any open door with the private rooms to see what is happening. I got invited in to play because i did that. Respect other's boundaries and realize that not every guy wants you. Shake it off and move on.
See what special events may be happening at the 3 spas so you know what you will be walking into considering your a very new to playing with cocks.
Happy to answer any other questions you have.
Thanks for the detailed experience description. Not sure how to word it correctly, so I'll just ask - you mentioned you played oral only - does it always assumes cum in mouth in these places ? Was everything covered or case by case ?
So most guys do bareback BJ's. I have had covered so some do use protection. Most guys I give head to don't always cum. Some like to edge themselves to cumming and wait till they're ready to leave the spa before cumming. Some just take too long and I or they get bored and go find someone else. Some have a hard time keeping it up or some you have second thoughts and change your mind. Most guys get themselves to the final stages of cumming by jacking themselves off. Some will cum on your face or chest of their towel. Cumming in the mouth happens but if you want it you got to put in the time effort to get it. I normally only get about 2 guys to cum for every 10 guys I blow so that gives you an idea of how that goes.
Went to F212 on all gender day around 6:00 PM and it was incredibly dead. Not sure what that was all about.
Tried Steam1 on a Thursday I think? Fucked one dude but he played a little too hard with boundaries and insisted on fucking me hard even when I told him to go slower. Had to push him off. Kinda ruined the vibe for me but everyone else was respectful if not shy.
Crowd was mostly guys 30+. It was all gender day as well but didn't see any women or het couples, maybe later in the night.
Been to FF on King George a couple times. First time I just watched porn with a guy until I came. He let me stroke him for a bit but he wasn't into oral so we just kept it mostly hands off.
I'm not sure how discerning the staff are on who they let in, and the admission price is quite cheap so I would advise some caution there. Area outside is sketchy.
That's not to say that everyone going in is weird...just...be aware.
Have never been to Steamworks but I'm not too interested at the moment in exploring more with men.
It would also be a good idea to check out Sniffies or some of the gay cruising subreddits. Helps with vetting people beforehand or coordinating visits to these spots as it can be an intimidating experience the first go around.
Have fun and be safe!
Tried Steam1 on a Thursday I think? Fucked one dude but he played a little too hard with boundaries and insisted on fucking me hard even when I told him to go slower. Had to push him off. Kinda ruined the vibe for me but everyone else was respectful if not shy.
Crowd was mostly guys 30+. It was all gender day as well but didn't see any women or het couples, maybe later in the night.
Been to FF on King George a couple times. First time I just watched porn with a guy until I came. He let me stroke him for a bit but he wasn't into oral so we just kept it mostly hands off.
I'm not sure how discerning the staff are on who they let in, and the admission price is quite cheap so I would advise some caution there. Area outside is sketchy.
That's not to say that everyone going in is weird...just...be aware.
Have never been to Steamworks but I'm not too interested at the moment in exploring more with men.
It would also be a good idea to check out Sniffies or some of the gay cruising subreddits. Helps with vetting people beforehand or coordinating visits to these spots as it can be an intimidating experience the first go around.
Have fun and be safe!
All the cocks that i sucked (6) were bare. Only once did a guy present a condom to put on his cock. Yes, you could swallow a load or two uncovered if you are willing. Sometimes the guy lets you suck him for awhile then pulls out and moves on. Everything is by choice, his and yours.
