Going to dive into this by starting out with my dream duo/threesome situation. "My beautiful partner, has a slightly less beautiful single bi best friend whom she played with before, and turns out she has a crush on me. For my birthday present they show up wearing nothing but a smile. There's nothing for a few hours but a blur of uncovered tongues, pussy, cock, and fingers, where at no point is there anyone not being pleasured by someone. Skin on skin on sweat on juices until we're a wet exhausted pulsating mess."
I'm guessing that's sort of every male fantasy, and if it was with a partner or responsible civilians this might be feasible. If you're planning on a duo with providers this will never be the case.
When people plan for a SP duo they're thinking 2 girls, when in truth you get 1.5, or more accurately 0.5+ of each girl. I've had duos with partners, girlfriends, and long term working duo partners, and it's always way less intense and satisfying than I thought it would be. There will mostly be one person sitting out while you're sucking or fucking the other. There might be some intimacy between the two ladies but it's pretty rare unless it's asked for. And yes this covers the providers who say they are fully interactive with their duo partner. Yes they "can" be, but voluntarily not so much. The worse thing you can possibly hear at during the session would be "I like to watch." And as others have said the condom switching, which is absolutely responsible and required, can be a mood killer even if done skillfully and quickly.
What other have said about having a game plan before hand I have to go one step further. Have the entire session mapped out, and communication is key. Like
beat for
beat. If you're thinking the passion will take over and providers will just lose themselves in the intensity... no.
Chemistry is not enough. You're going to be more a director than a participant at that point in which case it can be a mood killer too when you're telling them to do certain things, and you're thinking "I thought you guys were into this."
So are duos worth it. Depends.
- If your bucket list has "threesome" on it, and you want to check it off. Go for it.
- If you want to experience the fantasy of a porn scene type threesome/orgy. No.
- If you want "dollar value" for a paid sexual encounter. No. You're better of spending that money as two separate sessions with each provider.
- If you want to spend time in a situation where it's more like a sexual tag-team match. Yes.
- If you want to play director with two providers. Yes. Even "aggressive" providers tend to take a back seat during duos.
As an ending thought, I will say that my favorite
favourite things in the world are duo blowjobs and blowjob with rimming. You need a duo in that case.