Opening up the floor for genuine questions from gentlemen.

[Harmony-bc]

Do you ever get any hassles or questions when you deposit cash into your bank?
I sold a big item for cash on kijiji a while ago and the bank asked about it when I went in to deposit it. Maybe the teller was just making conversation, but it felt intrusive and like someone had instructed her to inquire about large cash deposits. It got me thinking about SP’s who do it all the time, and you could be waking in with a pretty hefty amount of cash. Much more than me.

I once tried to buy a car with cash rolled up in amounts of $1000. Years ago. I didn’t even have a bank account lol. They made me go get a cashiers check hahaha.

I’m legit these days. I lie a bit tho cause I’m not into being stigmatized. And most banks aren’t quite on the sex worker friendly level yet.

How often do you 'freestyle' (I think that's what it's called, when you go to a public spot - lobby bar, club, coffee shop, airport lounge, whatever - and hit on, or get hit on, and then pivot to a transactional invite to spend sexytime together)? An sp I see regularly told me about it and since I'm in sales I think the whole thing is fascinating.

I used to freestyle a few times a month. It was fun. Usually before going out clubbing. I couldn’t be bothered now.

 

[beachjunky]

Any questions the men are looking to have answered regarding working in the industry? The floor is yours. Well-intentioned questions only please. The point is to make the industry better by starting intentional conversations.

I hope you’re all having a great day.

Thank you for this opportunity! Feel free to answer or not answer any of the questions, feel free to be vague with answers, feel free to DM me if you still want to answer but not in the open.

Admins - Feel free to delete any question that you want to.

Q1 - What is your dream client? (Besides one who pays a lot)

Q2 - If you were a client, how would you approach yourself and what things would you do to yourself in a session? (A very paradoxical question)

Q3 - If I send you back in time on your first day, what are some pointers you would tell yourself?

Q4 - Would you ever open an agency? Clarify for yes or no.

Q5 - What is the absolute worst thing, that you hate to do, on a normal day at work?

Q6 - If I give you the opportunity to teach other sex workers on how to filter out good clients, what would you say?

Q7 - Besides the financial aspects, what else keeps you working as a sex worker? What oils your engine?

Let me know if you want more lol

 

[Harmony-bc]

Q1 - What is your dream client? (Besides one who pays a lot)

Smells nice, thoughtful, communicates what they’re looking for and availability in their first text before we even meet. Allows me to be myself.

Q2 - If you were a client, how would you approach yourself and what things would you do to yourself in a session? (A very paradoxical question)

I really wish I had a penis for like a week!! I would be the biggest slut ever. And I’d have so much fun!!

I would approach myself with respect, directness and patience. That’s how I treat anybody and that wouldn’t change if I was a client.

Q3 - If I send you back in time on your first day, what are some pointers you would tell yourself?

There is always some place else to work. You are boss of your body and your time, always. Not all money is good money. Just because a place is busy doesn’t mean you have to stay and make assholes money. So grateful and blessed to be able to be independent.

Q4 - Would you ever open an agency? Clarify for yes or no.

I’ve thought about it. But this business has a lot of competition and I’ve met a lot of flakey people. Probably way less headache to just pimp myself and not pimp other women. lol.

Q5 - What is the absolute worst thing, that you hate to do, on a normal day at work?

Anything to do with advertising. There’s a few things I miss about working at a busy high end agency. My only responsibility was buying new outfits to get picked in and I love to shop. I wish I could make money off a little word ad

Q6 - If I give you the opportunity to teach other sex workers on how to filter out good clients, what would you say?

Never give your address without making them jump through a few hoops. Always have a phone conversation before you give the address too. I don’t understand ladies that only book off texting apps. I need to hear tone of voice and get a vibe feel. A detailed website that isn’t explicit attracts decent clientele too.

Q7 - Besides the financial aspects, what else keeps you working as a sex worker? What oils your engine?

I like that I can live a decadent lifestyle. I can make my own hours. I can impulse shop. I meet interesting people. Some of my best friends have been found here in this business. I’m not sure where I’d be if I lived in a country where this is illegal. I’d probably be really unhappy in a soul crushing office job. Or maybe I would have gone to school to be a nurse or a therapist. I have some education in counseling. I have tried on other careers in my life and this one suits me. But who knows if I had no choice 😘

 

[MikeyLikey99]

I love that you ladies give your time and thoughts on these kind of “ask me anything” threads. Thank you!

Further back in that thread, someone had asked about cash and bank deposits. Any cash transaction of $10,000 or higher gets reported automatically to the financial intelligence unit and anti-money laundering and anti-terrorist financing unit of the government (FINTRAC). They aren’t concerned with escorts but that is the threshold where you’ll be flagged. Banks have their own policies too, usually more focussed on unusual cash withdrawals but they will ask about deposits too if they are suspicious.

 

[Equity Market investor]

I love that you ladies give your time and thoughts on these kind of “ask me anything” threads. Thank you!

Further back in that thread, someone had asked about cash and bank deposits. Any cash transaction of $10,000 or higher gets reported automatically to the financial intelligence unit and anti-money laundering and anti-terrorist financing unit of the government (FINTRAC). They aren’t concerned with escorts but that is the threshold where you’ll be flagged. Banks have their own policies too, usually more focussed on unusual cash withdrawals but they will ask about deposits too if they are suspicious.

I'm late to this party here. Reading through this got me thinking about deposits. Yes, $10k will be trigger an alert for reasons Mikey described in the quote. However, ladies who request deposits, I'm guessing some could may have several per day, every day, so, what happens if Banks notice deposits occurring several times a day, weeks on end? IE 10 - 15 times a week or more?

 

[rinamood]

I'm late to this party here. Reading through this got me thinking about deposits. Yes, $10k will be trigger an alert for reasons Mikey described in the quote. However, ladies who request deposits, I'm guessing some could may have several per day, every day, so, what happens if Banks notice deposits occurring several times a day, weeks on end? IE 10 - 15 times a week or more?

Have had no issues with my business banking while taking substantial deposits every week 💫 Some of my repeats/regulars even send in the full rate so they don't have to carry cash the day of.

 

[moneybagzz]

Would it be correct to assume that any Canadian provider touring in the US or other countries isn't paying taxes on their earnings? I find it hard to believe they’d get a work visa for that kind of work, unless I’m mistaken?

 

[Fiona]

How many ladies put aside money into TFSAs, RRSPs, RESPs, etc. Taking care of the future is important or do most of the ladies concentrate on 'living for today'?

Real estate & RRSPS 😘

 

[Equity Market investor]

Real estate & RRSPS 😘

Not to derail this but you might want to consider a TFSA too. RRSP's are taxable when withdrawn whereas, TFSA are not.

 

[Fiona]

Not to derail this but you might want to consider a TFSA too. RRSP's are taxable when withdrawn whereas, TFSA are not.

I think the most important thing is having someone advise you on the best things to do for you , I’ve had an amazing advisor for many years 👍🏽
But nothing brings me comfort like owning land .

 

[Harmony-bc]

Would it be correct to assume that any Canadian provider touring in the US or other countries isn't paying taxes on their earnings? I find it hard to believe they’d get a work visa for that kind of work, unless I’m mistaken?

Sex work is 100% illegal in the USA and will get you a 10 year ban if you try to cross the border and they recognize your tattoos or face with their technology that scans websites for this kind of thing. It’s been years since I’ve been to the states but I’m flagged at the border. I had a ban. Now I’m just flagged. Now that a passport is required, and the USA is going through some weird growing pains, I have zero desire to attempt crossing at this moment.

 

[Harmony-bc]

Would it be correct to assume that any Canadian provider touring in the US or other countries isn't paying taxes on their earnings? I find it hard to believe they’d get a work visa for that kind of work, unless I’m mistaken?

Getting arrested in the USA is a big risk. Cops do big stings and will arrest 300 escorts in one night. They also raid massage parlors on a regular basis. And they have under cover cops in all the casinos looking out for rebellious girls like me.

It’s a good idea to pay a bail bondsman before you get arrested so that you have somebody to call who can help you get your things from the hotel. They will keep you in jail and deport you. No chance to go past go and collect $200

This never happened to me. But this has happened to so many ladies that I used to know.

 

[dchoye]

How do you feel about Vibrators, Dildos, and Anal plugs. Do you ever used one for your clients? Or for yourself ?

 

[mckennalee]

How do you feel about Vibrators, Dildos, and Anal plugs. Do you ever used one for your clients? Or for yourself ?

Yes all the time! Toys are just another layer of fun that can be added ☺😉

 

[Fiona]

Have you ever had to stop and kick out a client who keeps violating your boundaries? How do you do this safely? Especially since they are horny, angry and both of you are naked.

Yes , in an oral session over a decade ago . on my knees
Smacked hard across the face , at that time it wasn’t that long I had gotten out of an abusive boyfriend situation & this just sent me , stood up , went into the bathroom without a word , gathered myself and just said
“ you have to leave right now “
There was a lot of apologies & trying to explain himself but I didn’t hear anything , just rage . He was a perfect example of young men desensitizing themselves watching extreme porn , its poison for a developing brain , and men definitely aren’t completely “ done “ maturing till their well into their 20s , if not 30s , that’s why I’ve always preferred more “ seasoned clients “ . They get how porn works & how it’s very fun but very “unrealistic”

Oh ya and another for coming absolutely “hammered” , hated working evenings for that . I don’t play with drunks . Men or woman . Felt bad that I was sending him out the door & back on the road but I can only help myself in that situation.

 

[Newuser505]

Yes , in an oral session over a decade ago . on my knees
Smacked hard across the face , at that time it wasn’t that long I had gotten out of an abusive boyfriend situation & this just sent me , stood up , went into the bathroom without a word , gathered myself and just said
“ you have to leave right now “
There was a lot of apologies & trying to explain himself but I didn’t hear anything , just rage . He was a perfect example of young men desensitizing themselves watching extreme porn , its poison for a developing brain , and men definitely aren’t completely “ done “ maturing till their well into their 20s , if not 30s , that’s why I’ve always preferred more “ seasoned clients “ . They get how porn works & how it’s very fun but very “unrealistic”

Oh ya and another for coming absolutely “hammered” , hated working evenings for that . I don’t play with drunks . Men or woman . Felt bad that I was sending him out the door & back on the road but I can only help myself in that situation.

Im sorry that happened. Now that i think about it. I dont really want to dig this up.

 

[John Aston]

The only thing I'm curious about are the accounting books and how you manage to get your money into the system so you can make those big purchase like vehicles, houses, and vacations.

Better Call Saul!

 

[Fiona]

How do you feel about Vibrators, Dildos, and Anal plugs. Do you ever used one for your clients? Or for yourself ?

Much happier topic , I love toys , by myself and with friends , I have many , even a Sybian 🤓💋 very noisy ! 💦💦💦

 

[Wakeup]

I saw can’t remember who but a well know star and she rode the sybian on the howard stern show, it was awesome.

 

[Fiona]

I saw can’t remember who but a well know star and she rode the sybian on the howard stern show, it was awesome.

https://www.xvideos.com/video.utodebc64/howard_stern_-_tera_patrick_and_siobahn_ride_the_sybian 🤓💦