After discovering an SP you are interested in, assuming that you are already comfortable with her screening/deposit/location/etc, how long does it take before you book your first session with them?
Booking The First Session
- Thread starter rinamood
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Personally it's just a matter of affordability and scheduling, then I'll go for it straight away. For example, I've just had a very expensive June so it'll take me a min to get myself steady again, but I will be looking to visit you as soon as it's financially viable without negatively affecting my day to day.
I also don't tend to get the urge to visit people very often but when someone has me interested the urge hits pretty hard and I don't really see the value in waiting, so long as I've done my research.
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usually within a week or less. ideally, same day.
Rina i think there is rarely a delay longer than 1 month, so i would probably rule that out. unless someone can tell me that they waited 6 months before actually seeing a provider in this thread i will be surprised.
i doubt people would wait that long if they're interested. however, if someone is legit not trying to follow up, then even a wait time of 6 months is too short.
like most things that need to be done, the quicker it gets done the better you feel about it. waiting too long would be a little impulsive imo.
Like some of the guys here I have a budget for this, and while I do repeat with a few ladies that I particularly enjoy, I often find myself with a list of beauties that I want to see. So between repeats with my favs, and the occasional session with someone new, I find it takes a few months unless there is something special that moves them to the top of the lust list 😉
You’d be surprised. I had a client tell me they’ve been looking at my ads for years in an unhappy marriage and then finally decided to take the plunge. And I’ve had several window shop for months before taking the plunge.
I went long because I get guys privately and publicly talking about how long they've waited to book me (even years like my entire active time), and I wondered about the real norm rather than my little sample size 🤣
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Thats a long time to be edging yourself
What can I say - I must be gooner-friendly 😜 (pls degens just come over I WELCOME YOU)
I have a regular gentleman who told me who was checking everything about me and a year later contacted me.
And another gentleman who thought I was way over his league he was scared to contact me finally a year later he did and now he is a regular.
i agree that this happens, although its a very odd ball scenario.
i recall being reluctant to meet a girl in 2020, despite showing a large amount of interest in her services.
in short, i was hesitant on meeting her since i was somewhat new to this whole thing. it took me four full years, or spring of 2024 specifically, to finally meet her. all i can say is she was worth it -- great experience overall.
you can't bank on these scenarios however. they're very rare.
if someone is serious they will see you as soon as they can. this works out to be a few days at the most i would guess.
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For me it depends on schedule and funding. Sometimes getting her schedule and mine plus the money together at the same time takes a while up to a few months occasionally.
Surprise!!
I have.
It depends on where the lady is based and her tour schedule.
I think the amazing kelcaine called me out on this in a way. 😂
I lost a lovely lady I was seeing as much as I could and started looking for options. I kept putting it off and putting it off until I finally contacted her. I got lucky in that it has been good so far and hopefully as I/we get accustomed to each other it can only get better. I know I waited too long and should have been more proactive and not waited months to make that first text.
thanks for mentioning this. yeah, i was going to say that the girls who tour around the country are an exception, in that you can't meet them on the same day you book them. but for every other SP in your city i don't know why someone would wait.
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