Do you guys have sex exclusively with SPs or mix SPs with "normal" hookups from Tinder / bars / etc.?

[Isildur123]

literally so many also lots of escorts are on there to get their fix outside of seeing clients. I have met a lot of easy 7+/10 or even 10/10

often they have a husband or something that wants to watch or join but that’s fine with me.

Kinda interesting that escorts would be there to get their fix. You'd think getting paid for sex is better than not getting paid.

I'm just worried that I'd end up hacked into pieces in a ditch somewhere. FetLife does attract quite a strange crowd.

 

[Okanaganguy1985]

Kinda interesting that escorts would be there to get their fix. You'd think getting paid for sex is better than not getting paid.

I'm just worried that I'd end up hacked into pieces in a ditch somewhere. FetLife does attract quite a strange crowd.

I mean if you’re into that there is probably a group for it

 

[SoulfulJourney_Social]

its effectively cheaper to just see a escort then it is to take a women out on a date.

i guess this would be the truth, but it all depends on how you approach things.

spending too much in short periods on SPs is a definite path towards financial ruin.

you can make spreadsheets about all the money you spent on SPs. i've done this in the past.

i would do the same thing if i went on dates though. not interested in losing money really.

if its a matter of having a control on your finances, i would go with SPs anyday. you don't know exactly what type of predicament you can put yourself in by trusting the wrong person on tinder. however, each category has its pros and cons imo.

 

[Okanaganguy1985]

i guess this would be the truth, but it all depends on how you approach things.

spending too much in short periods on SPs is a definite path towards financial ruin.

you can make spreadsheets about all the money you spent on SPs. i've done this in the past.

i would do the same thing if i went on dates though. not interested in losing money really.

if its a matter of having a control on your finances, i would go with SPs anyday. you don't know exactly what type of predicament you can put yourself in by trusting the wrong person on tinder. however, each category has its pros and cons imo.

You need to do dates to sex ratio as well, I guess it depends if you’re seeing a 250/hr escort or a 800/hr escort

 

[SoulfulJourney_Social]

You need to do dates to sex ratio as well, I guess it depends if you’re seeing a 250/hr escort or a 800/hr escort

this is true if you want to only compare dollar spent to sex received. i don't think everyone will measure it this way however.

there's definitely more to it.

in other words, each experience offers something unique. so i wouldn't only look at the numbers to justify how happy i am.

but i think you're on the right track.

 

[Bang4thebuck]

its effectively cheaper to just see a escort then it is to take a women out on a date.

100% this. Last year my income worked out to me earning about $300/hr pre tax. Business is booming, I have no shortage of work to do. I could give up evenings and weekends and make money the whole time, but I don't.

Going on apps, messaging girls, going out on dates, just to get laid, doesn't make financial sense. It would make more sense to see the most expensive escort in the city and I'd still save money by comparison, except now I get to bed a 10/10 who is amazing in bed with no strings attached. Probably cleaner than some of the girls you'd find on Tinder or Fetlife too.

Look at your earnings. Break it down per hour. Do the math. Horny? See an escort or beat your own meat, use the rest of the time to build a business, skills, side hustle, whatever you can do, to bump your income. Don't go broke chasing pussy, whether it be escorts or chicks on Tinder.

 

[Okanaganguy1985]

100% this. Last year my income worked out to me earning about $300/hr pre tax. Business is booming, I have no shortage of work to do. I could give up evenings and weekends and make money the whole time, but I don't.

Going on apps, messaging girls, going out on dates, just to get laid, doesn't make financial sense. It would make more sense to see the most expensive escort in the city and I'd still save money by comparison, except now I get to bed a 10/10 who is amazing in bed with no strings attached. Probably cleaner than some of the girls you'd find on Tinder or Fetlife too.

Look at your earnings. Break it down per hour. Do the math. Horny? See an escort or beat your own meat, use the rest of the time to build a business, skills, side hustle, whatever you can do, to bump your income. Don't go broke chasing pussy, whether it be escorts or chicks on Tinder.

i agree completely, if you have your own business and great income its exponentially easier, although i have known a lot of very wealthy guys who just cant talk to women at all and thats why they see escorts its just easier

 

[Harmony-bc]

100% this. Last year my income worked out to me earning about $300/hr pre tax. Business is booming, I have no shortage of work to do. I could give up evenings and weekends and make money the whole time, but I don't.

Going on apps, messaging girls, going out on dates, just to get laid, doesn't make financial sense. It would make more sense to see the most expensive escort in the city and I'd still save money by comparison, except now I get to bed a 10/10 who is amazing in bed with no strings attached. Probably cleaner than some of the girls you'd find on Tinder or Fetlife too.

Look at your earnings. Break it down per hour. Do the math. Horny? See an escort or beat your own meat, use the rest of the time to build a business, skills, side hustle, whatever you can do, to bump your income. Don't go broke chasing pussy, whether it be escorts or chicks on Tinder.

This is exactly how I feel about dating but on the other side of the equation. It’s so much time and effort, that I could spend making drama free money. I used to be a serial dater but now I’d rather serial date you guys for money 💕. Haven’t been on a civie date in about 7 years.