Question for Providers.

[Just4fun00]

Question for providers: What can I do as a Spooner to make your job more enjoyable? Is it an attitude, something I could say or do? Or what is the worst thing I could do? What is your biggest turn-off? I know this is a contractual thing, but you are human, and I would like to do it right.

 

[Harmony-bc]

Question for providers: What can I do as a Spooner to make your job more enjoyable? Is it an attitude, something I could say or do? Or what is the worst thing I could do? What is your biggest turn-off? I know this is a contractual thing, but you are human, and I would like to do it right.

Best. Show up on time. Don’t be early. Try to not be late. Be chill if she runs a bit late. Have the money ready before she asks. Shower if she asks. Respect boundaries. No means no. Tip if you had a good time.

Worst. Be early and give attitude if she’s not ready. Refuse to shower when you clearly need one. Try to negotiate. Boundary pushing. Any of these can lead to my black listing someone

 

[mckennalee]

but you are human, and I would like to do it right.

You already got it right here! Be kind, be courteous, interact with us like humans.

Harmony has a good list of basic manners, and anything beyond that you can always just ask the SP in the moment. We are used to guys being a little 😵‍💫while we are bouncing around naked 😉

 

[Just4fun00]

Best. Show up on time. Don’t be early. Try to not be late. Be chill if she runs a bit late. Have the money ready before she asks. Shower if she asks. Respect boundaries. No means no. Tip if you had a good time.

Worst. Be early and give attitude if she’s not ready. Refuse to shower when you clearly need one. Try to negotiate. Boundary pushing. Any of these can lead to my black listing someone

Thank you. I appreciate you taking the time to answer. Your reply has been helpful.

 

[Just4fun00]

We are used to guys being a little 😵‍💫while we are bouncing around naked 😉

Haha you got that right. Lol

 

[rinamood]

Question for providers: What can I do as a Spooner to make your job more enjoyable? Is it an attitude, something I could say or do?

• Express your consent and enjoyment 😍 Be clear on your limitations and comforts.
• Hygiene - at least a thorough pre-wash, and trimmed and filed nails (no pointy edges) 🧼
• Focus on the fun things that everyone is excited to do, and be happy to receive an honest "no" rather than an unwilling "I guess"!
• Have the rate ready to be handed over 💸
• Listen, learn, and enjoy the fruits of your observational skills as you adapt to each individual's pleasures 💦 Personally, I'm a "more is more" type of pleasure-based playmate 😜

Or what is the worst thing I could do? What is your biggest turn-off?

• Not being told about someone's discomforts or limitations (ie. some people don't eat pussy, and that's okay, but I definitely don't want to push anyone into it when I intend to simply offer)
• Rate/screening complaints to my face would probably result in me going admin mode 😂 It's not the worst, but probably wouldn't have any positive results for anyone involved.
• Spitting on me or licking my face. I strongly prefer lube down there which was designed for our natural pH 💙
• Pressing forehead/face onto my face. Other peoples' sweat makes my fussy face skin break out! 😱

I genuinely believe that the points listed in this whole thread are all very reasonable and easy to maneuver! Let your best attitude and mutual joy lead the way 💫

 

[80watts]

Don't fart.....

 

[mckennalee]

Don't fart.....

Believe it or not girls fart sometimes too 🤭

 

[jgg]

Believe it or not girls fart sometimes too 🤭

Queefing, too.

 

[blondeluver]

Last but not least... make sure you bring extra cash for tips!

 

[carvesg]

Believe it or not girls fart sometimes too 🤭

IMPOSSIBLE ! 😳🤯

 

[Harmony-bc]

IMPOSSIBLE ! 😳🤯

Ladies don’t fart!! 😡

Its actually a fetish for some. I’m willing to eat some beans and cabbage 😝