The Sexy

[VinVan]

I seem to be in the groove right now as far as a few of the SPs I’m seeing on the regular. I find them all sexy in their own way and I’ve surmised that this is the magic string that keeps drawing me back to them. There are about 5 or 6 whom I find irresistible and they’re all different in age, body and culture (Asian, white, black, spinner, curves, early 20s to early 50s). It got me to thinking about the one thread that links them to each other, and, in turn, to me.

And I think, it’s The Sexy; which itself is a vague, nebulous term. But I would define it this way: a unique quality that links their personality to their body and makes them irresistible.

For those of you who have met her at Swan Lake, I find the owner Tina incredibly sexy. She runs an amazing business but is a little shy and demurring which belies the fact she is tough as nails. The Sexy. There’s one SP who is newish to the industry but is on a voyage of discovery; when we’re going at it, if we’re doing something that is turning her on, she’ll bite her lower lip. The Sexy. Another seemingly quiet woman will just have the pottiest mouth during fun time belying her gentle nature. The Sexy. And yet another will envelop me in love and be unafraid to express that while staring straight into my eyes. The Sexy.

Other examples of The Sexy to me? I’ve never met Charlie Beckett, but her brains and sass are The Sexy. And ditto Rina Mood for the playful way she lays out complex ideas - The Sexy.

And even with guys I meet, I can see The Sexy in them. The one quality that gets me with guys is kindness. Not just to women. Or children. Or animals. But to other men. The Sexy. Cuz come on bros, we are waaaaay to hard on one another.

How about y’all? What’s The Sexy to you?

 

[rinamood]

And ditto Rina Mood for the playful way she lays out complex ideas - The Sexy.

I've definitely reined back on posting responses compared to last year, even typing things out and deleting them, because I often don't want the stress of people picking apart my words 🫣 I do continue to try to share my enthusiasm and good memories when the opportunity comes up though!

The sexy — I will admit that I've had moments when I've read someone's care, consideration, and absolute sexual voracity in describing how he handles a lady (more often in lounge or 411 discussions rather than review), and I want them to fuck me so bad 😂 Like dang put those words into ACTION and get to it 👏 I don't need every snapshot of every move. I want that HOT HOT mindset, that grind set, that push for being the finest and most respectful client to look forward to seeing again. Please do raise my standards in both men and pleasure, dear sir 😍

 

[Pumped]

Smart is sexy.

Stimulate my mind and my body will follow you anywhere.

 

[Langleydude]

I seem to be in the groove right now as far as a few of the SPs I’m seeing on the regular. I find them all sexy in their own way and I’ve surmised that this is the magic string that keeps drawing me back to them. There are about 5 or 6 whom I find irresistible and they’re all different in age, body and culture (Asian, white, black, spinner, curves, early 20s to early 50s). It got me to thinking about the one thread that links them to each other, and, in turn, to me.

And I think, it’s The Sexy; which itself is a vague, nebulous term. But I would define it this way: a unique quality that links their personality to their body and makes them irresistible.

For those of you who have met her at Swan Lake, I find the owner Tina incredibly sexy. She runs an amazing business but is a little shy and demurring which belies the fact she is tough as nails. The Sexy. There’s one SP who is newish to the industry but is on a voyage of discovery; when we’re going at it, if we’re doing something that is turning her on, she’ll bite her lower lip. The Sexy. Another seemingly quiet woman will just have the pottiest mouth during fun time belying her gentle nature. The Sexy. And yet another will envelop me in love and be unafraid to express that while staring straight into my eyes. The Sexy.

Other examples of The Sexy to me? I’ve never met Charlie Beckett, but I her brains and courage are The Sexy. And ditto Rina Mood for the playful way she lays out complex ideas - The Sexy.

And even with guys I meet, I can see The Sexy in them. The one quality that gets me with guys is kindness. Not just to women. Or children. Or animals. But to other men. The Sexy.

How about y’all? What’s The Sexy to you?

I'm a lot like you. I like all kinds of women and the biggest thing for me is confidence in a woman. You give me a run of the mill every day soccer mom who has the confidence to be herself and let go and that gets me every time. A woman who is insecure but may look like a Super model has nothing on her in my books. And like you say it's the quiet shy ones that will really surprise you if you connect.

 

[PuntMeister]

The Sexy for me is spending time with a woman who is authentic and loves to spend time with me too. These are not ticks in the box or one-offs.

With a great regular, we laugh, we giggle, we do foody like nobody’s business. We ROFL at corny videos. We hold hands and smile because we are happy and stoked to be enjoying part of our lives together. We kind of feel like teenagers dating—getting both nervous and excited for the date, but as knowing adults.

Oh ya, and then there is the body chemistry—touch, taste, rhythm, mood, intimacy. And a seriously good fuk.

For me THE SEXY is the mindset and the relationship that feels better before and after the deed. Got a million options for intercourse. But THE SEXY for me is the relationship.

 

[luvsdaty]

Amazon tall and an ass like Jessica Biel fill my boner with blood,no viagra needed

 

[sybian]

finding and focusing on her g-spot….making her back arch… and her eyes rolling back…hearing her moans….that’s sexy to this cowboy

 

[Boogeryyc]

Th Sexy for me is confidence, intelligence, and being sexually aggressive. Have great legs, wear stockings and cusp with me and you become THE SEXY

 

[MRGREEN]

Confidence and a sense of humour are pretty darn sexy to me. In the end it's all about chemistry.

 

[Bridge]

Also when you’re met with unadulterated lust after the door closes. Knickers and Vivian spring to mind!

 

[VinVan]

I've definitely reined back on posting responses compared to last year, even typing things out and deleting them, because I often don't want the stress of people picking apart my words 🫣 I do continue to try to share my enthusiasm and good memories when the opportunity comes up though!

The sexy — I will admit that I've had moments when I've read someone's care, consideration, and absolute sexual voracity in describing how he handles a lady (more often in lounge or 411 discussions rather than review), and I want them to fuck me so bad 😂 Like dang put those words into ACTION and get to it 👏 I don't need every snapshot of every move. I want that HOT HOT mindset, that grind set, that push for being the finest and most respectful client to look forward to seeing again. Please do raise my standards in both men and pleasure, dear sir 😍

This is exactly what I’m talking about!!!

It seems you can take a perfectly pedestrian thread and turbo-charge it with The Sexy:

“I will admit that I've had moments when I've read someone's care, consideration, and absolute sexual voracity in describing how he handles a lady (more often in lounge or 411 discussions rather than review), and I want them to fuck me so bad ”

In a single sentence you stuff honesty, seduction, and desire into a sexual Molotov and casually toss it aflame into a room full of horn dogs. Soooooo diabolical.

I’ll admit that your price point is a little north or my usual budget, but given your considerable charms I will start to put aside my Loonies into the Rina Jar.

 

[VinVan]

The Sexy for me is spending time with a woman who is authentic and loves to spend time with me too. These are not ticks in the box or one-offs.

With a great regular, we laugh, we giggle, we do foody like nobody’s business. We ROFL at corny videos. We hold hands and smile because we are happy and stoked to be enjoying part of our lives together. We kind of feel like teenagers dating—getting both nervous and excited for the date, but as knowing adults.

Oh ya, and then there is the body chemistry—touch, taste, rhythm, mood, intimacy. And a seriously good fuk.

For me THE SEXY is the mindset and the relationship that feels better before and after the deed. Got a million options for intercourse. But THE SEXY for me is the relationship.

This is totally, the best. When you ride in on a high and when you leave on a different high. Lucky are those who have found an SP who can work this magic.

 

[gianni lotus]

Love this stuff. I always read your posts VinVan because your writing is interesting and thoughtful. You bring a fun but reflective vibe to this forum.

To me The Sexy is realness. When a woman knows herself well enough to be comfortable in her own skin. She is unafraid to express herself and is a skilled communicator who makes her desires known through words or actions. People who are phony or just going through the motions are easy to spot and encounters with providers like this are usually disappointing.

Another contributor to The Sexy for me is being skilled at sex. A woman who can call upon a deep repertoire of sexual techniques combined with being perceptive is fucking sexy to me. These skilled, experienced providers are the women who seem to be able to play me like a fiddle during an encounter. This provider knows exactly what she is doing as she seamlessly moves from one position to the next and seems to know what I want to do next before I do. She observes what is turning me on and builds on that and sometimes shows me something new or introduces me to something I didn't know I liked. These magical providers sometimes leave me speechless. I walk away thinking "holy fuck what happened in there? That was amazing." It can feel like being under a spell. I recall a few times dumping my wallet upside down and happily giving enormous tips when in this state of incredulous intoxication.


Some women use all their experience to become skilled providers of pleasure but there are the next level ones provide and derive pleasure simultaneously. I think the pleasure taken by the next level ones is not necessarily sexual but can be derived from the pleasure of giving, of making someone feel good, or from the power of melting a mans mind and having him enraptured in ecstasy. It is the rare encounters like this that keep me coming back.

 

[golferjohn]

The sexy — I will admit that I've had moments when I've read someone's care, consideration, and absolute sexual voracity in describing how he handles a lady (more often in lounge or 411 discussions rather than review), and I want them to fuck me so bad 😂 Like dang put those words into ACTION and get to it 👏

Uhoh, steer clear of this one VV...no telling what combustion will occur when two 'The Sexy' cum together (may need a Richter scale to measure it )

 

[gianni lotus]

Uhoh, steer clear of this one VV...no telling what combustion will occur when two 'The Sexy' cum together (may need a Richter scale to measure it )

Rina definitely gots The Sexy.

 

[VinVan]

Love this stuff. I always read your posts VinVan because your writing is interesting and thoughtful. You bring a fun but reflective vibe to this forum.

To me The Sexy is realness. When a woman knows herself well enough to be comfortable in her own skin. She is unafraid to express herself and is a skilled communicator who makes her desires known through words or actions. People who are phony or just going through the motions are easy to spot and encounters with providers like this are usually disappointing.

Another contributor to The Sexy for me is being skilled at sex. A woman who can call upon a deep repertoire of sexual techniques combined with being perceptive is fucking sexy to me. These skilled, experienced providers are the women who seem to be able to play me like a fiddle during an encounter. This provider knows exactly what she is doing as she seamlessly moves from one position to the next and seems to know what I want to do next before I do. She observes what is turning me on and builds on that and sometimes shows me something new or introduces me to something I didn't know I liked. These magical providers sometimes leave me speechless. I walk away thinking "holy fuck what happened in there? That was amazing." It can feel like being under a spell. I recall a few times dumping my wallet upside down and happily giving enormous tips when in this state of incredulous intoxication.


Some women use all their experience to become skilled providers of pleasure but there are the next level ones provide and derive pleasure simultaneously. I think the pleasure taken by the next level ones is not necessarily sexual but can be derived from the pleasure of giving, of making someone feel good, or from the power of melting a mans mind and having him enraptured in ecstasy. It is the rare encounters like this that keep me coming back.

100% agree.

I think there are SPs and there are courtesans. And the difference is that a courtesan has consciously chosen this vocation and has worked on her craft. She understands the art of seduction from the moment you set eyes upon her in her marketing materials; to the playfulness in her texts; to how she greets you at the door; to the surprises that arise during the deeds; to how she closes the session with a look, a touch, or a word, that leaves you wanting more. And if they weren’t in the companionship business they would be successful at something else. There are many SPs, and far fewer courtesans.

And thank you for the kind words, Gianni. I also appreciate your agreeable manner and civility in the Perbosphere.

 

[gianni lotus]

I think there are SPs and there are courtesans. And the difference is that a courtesan has consciously chosen this vocation and has worked on her craft.

You put that perfectly. I like your definition of courtesan because I feel the same way. When writing my reply I looked up the definition and it said "a prostitute with a courtly, wealthy, or upper-class clientele. " This may be the official definition but it doesn't give the provider enough credit. It should not be the clientele that separates a courtesan from an sp, but the skill level and taking pride in her craft. What sets these providers apart is that the effort, care, attention, and plain hard work they put into their profession.

In the remake of the tv series Shogun (shot in Vancouver) there is a side plot surrounding the "floating world." This is the realm of entertainment and sex that provide freedom from the strict austerity of fuedal Japan. With thoughtful intention, the atmosphere created in the floating world provides an intoxicating space dedicated to pleasure and escape. I have experienced an hour of abandon like this when with a true courtesan.

This ability to provide pleasure and escape, to the point where the rest of the world doesn't seem to exist in that hour, is a true skill that to me is The Sexy.

 

[PuntMeister]

When we are apart, it feels like we each engage with the world around us.

We we are together, it feels like the world revolves around us.

We literally see the cosmos in a different way when we are together. My courtesan can float me far away to magical astral places, and bring me safely back to earth again.

 

[Simarobay]

The sexy to me is enthusiasm. I don’t care if it’s real or fake as long as they are damn good at it