This is one of the more private options - the only thing connecting you to her is your text or email conversation, which you'll be doing either way.
I really dislike Amazon cards though - one has to be careful to avoid the counterfeit/bullshit products these days, and my Amazon balance has been building up because I'm not quite sure what to spend it on, lol.
not that I want to support or promote an evil company like Amazon, but:
I buy compostable poopy bags, bulk bamboobaby wipes, Shea butter, and cocoa butter on a regular basis. I just bought an electric massager that is amazing at getting knots out of my back. Better than most lovers.
I would love to get rid of Amazon cause f bozo but they are the most convenient for taking deposits. My real name isn’t attached to the deposit. It’s easy to load on my Amazon account.
I feel visa gift cards would be too easy to scam me in some way. Plus I’d have to spend it on the spot otherwise you have the number, you can spend it before I do but I think it’s safe and see you. Amazon, crypto, or email transfer. With Amazon being the best option.
I don’t take deposits for incall as if I get stood up, I just chalk it up to the cost of doing business. It happens rarely so I don’t worry about it. My place just gets cleaner as I clean while I’m waiting haha.
I charge a deposit for outcalls tho. If I’m gonna get in my car and drive somewhere, I want it to be a sure thing. If I paid for an in call space, I most definitely would ask for deposits. I never used to take deposits for nice hotels but recently I got canceled on right as I got in my car so now I ask for a deposit there too. It’s easier to get a deposit than it is a cancellation fee.
Deposits are just another factor of doing business in this day and age. Be smart about it tho. Don’t send to sketchy girls on leolist. Research a little and you’ll be fine.