Respect, kind goes a long way

[Yourlovedone]

Hi,

This is not directed to all of us but, may be one person but, also for us to reflect on as humans. I have been doing this for a while and I have learned that respect and kindness goes a long way. As a local member who lives here I would like to encourage us all to please practice some kindness, patience and respect for the SWs we see.

They are human and would like to be treated like one. I often see them on and off and they share stories that are heart breaking. I don’t wanna know the other side, I don’t know what true or not but, I know that much that these women are not making shit up and they go through a lot of hardships.

I wanna point out that if you want to offer $45 to SWs for a blowjob, you should consider watching a porno and rubbing it out because that’s just plain ignorance and I must say, you should be ashamed of yourself.

Either way I am sorry if this offended you or someone else out here. I just wanted to come from a side of some education and awareness but, most importantly respecting our community and the people of our community.

Admin I hope I am not breaking any rules here. I am just coming from a place where it break my heart and tears me up when I hear these stories. These women are someone’s mother, daughter or sister that are trying to make ends meet and have just fallen through bad times.

Just he nice to them and uphold our Canadian values of taking care of each others. I think I have said enough.
I am really sorry again administration if this violates any rules that I am unaware of.
Please consider texting me if you have any concerns.

 

[Big_Guy_Rye]

First off,.... who's offering $45 BJs? Where are these SWs, that I can never find myself?

Second, of course respect is paramount, speaking only for myself. If people are haggling prices, you're a moron.... the market speaks, vote with your wallet, pay or don't... just don't haggle.

 

[Yourlovedone]

Someone on this forum offered a SWs $45 for a bbbj. And, that’s really messed up. Look at the inflation and cost of living.
It’s absolutely disgusting to hear that there are people out there trying to pay this little.

 

[ModSquad]

I moved this from Kamloops reviews to the Lounge because it deserves a wider audience.

 

[VanCityNewb]

I know a lot of people doing it for free. What's the problem?

🤦‍♂️

 

[B0rat]

I once have girl on street down town who say to me, "You give me A&W burger, and I give you nice blowjob!" Very nice deal, yes-yes! She come to me, she solicited me, true story!


(I actually did not accept her offer, but it is a true story)

 

[vitaminD]

I once have girl on street down town who say to me, "You give me A&W burger, and I give you nice blowjob!" Very nice deal, yes-yes! She come to me, she solicited me, true story!


(I actually did not accept her offer, but it is a true story)

I had a college girl say she'd give me a blowjob if I payed for her uber home a couple years back.

Sometimes I think guys on here live in some alternate reality where only men are interested in sex and sexual acts for money.
It says alot about their sexual market value.

That being said, haggling bartering and asking for discounts from providers in pathetic, low value behaviour which should not be tolerated.

 

[grusse]

I had a college girl say she'd give me a blowjob if I payed for her uber home a couple years back.

Sometimes I think guys on here live in some alternate reality where only men are interested in sex and sexual acts for money.
It says alot about their sexual market value.

That being said, haggling bartering and asking for discounts from providers in pathetic, low value behaviour which should not be tolerated.

The haggling,bartering,wanting discounts,extras and general arsehole behavior is why several ladies have told me they have exclusions in their ads.

 

[vitaminD]

The haggling,bartering,wanting discounts,extras and general arsehole behavior is why several ladies have told me they have exclusions in their ads.

Exclusions in what way?
I dont see many exclusions in ads.
unless you mean screening?

 

[VanCityNewb]

I once have girl on street down town who say to me, "You give me A&W burger, and I give you nice blowjob!" Very nice deal, yes-yes! She come to me, she solicited me, true story!


(I actually did not accept her offer, but it is a true story)

Lol, that reminds me of one night in Hollywood. I was going to a party, and as I was slowing down and pulling over to turn right on the street ahead, some girl waved me down from the sidewalk and thought I was pulling over for her, and ended up just basically jumping into my car, if I remember correctly. She explained that she had just gotten into a huge fight with her boyfriend, and asked if I could give her a ride to some club. She was a cute enough little Mexican girl, so I'm like what the hell. It's not as if I've got to be anywhere by any specific time. We got there, and she explained that she had no money, and said that she'd blow me for twenty bucks to use to get in. She finished up, spit it out onto the sidewalk, and bailed.

I've been chasing that high ever since, lol.

 

[grusse]

Exclusions in what way?
I dont see many exclusions in ads.
unless you mean screening?

When the ad says no _____ clients

 

[Big_Guy_Rye]

I once have girl on street down town who say to me, "You give me A&W burger, and I give you nice blowjob!" Very nice deal, yes-yes! She come to me, she solicited me, true story!


(I actually did not accept her offer, but it is a true story)

I believe it, same happened to me, except it was for a Big Mac at the Granville St. McD's..... and I didn't take her up on the offer since she wasn't a 'clean' person to begin with.

 

[atrepious]

I think its ok to haggle in some scenarios so to speak.. however it should always be done up front. if you agree over text/email ect to a price and then show up and try to change your offer or know their prices and wait until you are in person to try and lowball something as insane as $45 that is pathetic. but I've had providers who when we first met I paid full price, and later agreed to more regular encounters at a deep discount. wont get into details but I was well taken care of. and she had a weekly guarantee with someone she was comfortable with.

 

[80watts]

Still trying to fiqure out what this thread is about??

The golden rule: Treat others as you expect to be treated.

Just remember the Aztec though it was a great privilege for the captured warrior to have his beating heart ripped out of his chest...

As for bartering, its been a age long fact that human's barter over the price of everything, including the price of a BJ.

Then there are the "assholes" who just for fun, try to barter down the asking price of a BJ. The more desperate the individual, the more fun the asshole has. Fucken sad.

 

[grusse]

I know a lot of people doing it for free. What's the problem?

Took me 1 second to read this..so you must have typed the whole thing in less than 1 second?

 

[angry anderson]

 

[annievilleneuve26]

Exclusions in what way?
I dont see many exclusions in ads.
unless you mean screening?

Mean certain ethnicity not welcome

 

[westwoody]

Mean certain ethnicity not welcome

Or over/under certain age.

 

[ChromeGasCap]

When a persons sole purpose is to make money (regardless of what it is they do to make it), it can be construed as disrespectful when anyone tries to barter down the arranged compensation.
Yet in some cultures this is normal behaviour.
If it is allowable to view this as disrespectful, then in kind it should be allowable for a client to find it disrespectful when a woman denies certain services that were reasonably expected to be offered or included.
YMMV is really just a way of allowing SPs to disrespect certain clients by calling it something different than what it is (YMMV).
YMMV is valid in the dating world, but this is not dating.
I am a businessman I deal with bartering from time to time. Any good business person would not be able to view it as disrespectful.
As far as YMMV, if I were doing this as a business, this would be unacceptable.
I am not trying to disrespect any of the SPs or their clients, but some of this rhetoric should be dialed back.
There are people who do this solely as a means to disrespect however.

Personally I am on the outside on this, as an SPs views on this is their own decision and does not affect me, as I am not one of those barterers, and the YMMV issue has never been problematic for me (for the most part).
I am just trying to be truthful in an attempt to inform that exceptions exist for this business because mostly our male monkey brains still registers this as natural mating behaviour when it is, in fact, not at all.

 

[Pumped]

YMMV is really just a way of allowing SPs to disrespect certain clients by calling it something different than what it is (YMMV).
YMMV is valid in the dating world, but this is not dating.

How is a personal preference 'disrespect'?

We're not talking about building a shed here. Sex is very personal even when it's someone's profession.

I would assume most instances of YMMV are related to things like hygiene, sobriety, and attitude more than simply age, ethnicity or attractiveness.

And even if it was about building a shed, someone acting like an entitled asshole who started off by trying to get a discount on your services would probably result in a whole lot of YMMV regarding when and how that shed was built.

A sense of entitlement doesn't entitle anyone to anything except an ass-kicking or banishment.