Attractive fit white male

[GeeBeeP]

I have a question about this phrase, and I’m hoping to get the ladies' opinions as well as guys.

Many SP's ads and websites specifically ask for a potential client to tell her their ethnicity up front, and others want an introduction and “tell me a bit about yourself” I’ve always assumed that they wanted a potential client to include general things like my age, hight, weight etc… including my ethnicity, because they have personal preferences about who they see.

But I’ve also seen ladies on social media, and in a recent thread about contacting SP's, disparage the phrase “fit white male” like it's some kind of red flag for them when they see it from a potential client. What is it about the phrase that strikes a wrong chord? I know claiming to be attractive is in the eye of the beholder.

So should a guy include that kind of thing in an introductory communication or not?

 

[rinamood]

I think a smoother way to talk about fitness would be briefly going over what they're into that has them so fit (ie. "I like to spend my time being active with cycling, rock climbing, and playing volleyball"). Personally, I don't mind someone using "fit white male" to be concise. I mind it if they expect it to be the secret password to exceptional access from that descriptor 👀

I usually see "fit white male" complained about when potential clients say that to highlight fitness and whiteness as reasons to give them special treatment like a FREE DATE, special rate, and even services the SP doesn't offer.

 

[Pornholio]

I think a smoother way to talk about fitness would be briefly going over what they're into that has them so fit (ie. "I like to spend my time being active with cycling, rock climbing, and playing volleyball"). Personally, I don't mind someone using "fit white male" to be concise. I mind it if they expect it to be the secret password to exceptional access from that descriptor 👀

I usually see "fit white male" complained about when potential clients say that to highlight fitness and whiteness as reasons to give them special treatment like a FREE DATE, special rate, and even services the SP doesn't offer.

Would never have inferred that, or even gave it a thought. I usually just say age and ethnicity if it’s asked on booking instructions. I guess people will try anything, to benefit them selves.
The other is what hook up apps are for. Just imho.

 

[VanCityNewb]

Lmao, as soon as I saw this title come up, I imagined it must trigger a lot of providers. As said already, expectations that someone is so attractive and good looking, that they should get discounts, special treatments and such.

That said, I really dislike being asked for ethnicity. I think it's pretty tacky and starts to reflect poorly on the provider.

 

[grusse]

on the other hand it'll give some perbites the green light to brag about their wonderful levels of fitness, gargantuan girth, etc.
SP will be overwhelmed with responses,lol.
win/win situation?

 

[rinamood]

on the other hand it'll give some perbites the green light to brag about their wonderful levels of fitness, gargantuan girth, etc.
SP will be overwhelmed with responses,lol.
win/win situation?

I miss reading the Chronicles of Girthquake (I think?) - what a gent 😋 Don't think I've ever met him, but sounded like fun!

 

[SolidSnake]

I'm sure "big tipper" works way better than "fit, attractive" or whatever physical attribute you can't help but to mention.

 

[MRGREEN]

I once asked what machine would help me look more sttractive and was told an ATM

I'm here all week

 

[LADY-LYRAH]

I have a question about this phrase, and I’m hoping to get the ladies' opinions as well as guys.

Many SP's ads and websites specifically ask for a potential client to tell her their ethnicity up front, and others want an introduction and “tell me a bit about yourself” I’ve always assumed that they wanted a potential client to include general things like my age, hight, weight etc… including my ethnicity, because they have personal preferences about who they see.

But I’ve also seen ladies on social media, and in a recent thread about contacting SP's, disparage the phrase “fit white male” like it's some kind of red flag for them when they see it from a potential client. What is it about the phrase that strikes a wrong chord? I know claiming to be attractive is in the eye of the beholder.

So should a guy include that kind of thing in an introductory communication or not?

I personally don’t care about someone’s nationality & I don’t screen by means of physical form.

I think a smoother way to talk about fitness would be briefly going over what they're into that has them so fit (ie. "I like to spend my time being active with cycling, rock climbing, and playing volleyball"). Personally, I don't mind someone using "fit white male" to be concise. I mind it if they expect it to be the secret password to exceptional access from that descriptor 👀

I usually see "fit white male" complained about when potential clients say that to highlight fitness and whiteness as reasons to give them special treatment like a FREE DATE, special rate, and even services the SP doesn't offer.

Shes right on the money here about how “ fit white male “ has been coined into an irritating phrase to many of us. Also I’d say 90% if not more of the unsolicited dick pics I’ve received over the years has been from these types of inquiries from. “ fit white men “

I’ll. tell them I’m not available or I’m done for the night & then I’ll get some sort of smart ass response about their physic & then a selfie & then a dong show.

“ Fit white male “ translates to “ I deserve special treatment. “ but only if it’s delivered a certain way.

Deliverance being the key word here.

I have no personal preference as to a persons nationality. It’s not necessary to include it in your introductory text or email. All nationality’s of men are welcome. Specifically men as I don’t see women or couples,

To describe yourself

You can use words like. Middle aged, tattooed, dad bod, chunky. Active. Young man, youthful, heavy set, well endowed- if you are because that’s good to know in advance,…. health conscious, clean cut, business man, rough round the edges, .cleans up good, decent looking. ect …. & if you feel inclined Caucasian sounds just fine.

 

[LADY-LYRAH]

I'm sure "big tipper" works way better than "fit, attractive" or whatever physical attribute you can't help but to mention.

Those are nice sounding words. 😊

 

[PuntMeister]

So, I am a generous gentleman (big-ish tipper), middle-aged (60+ is the new 40+), aspring to be fit but settling for lean dad-bod (going for acceptably honest points), a whiter than bleach working class guy (caucasian but not feeling like a self-absorbed priviledged snot), modestly pointy down there but GAF (a bit short but girthy as fuk), into kittens and gardening (not an unbalanced psycho killer), Impeccable hygeine (into soap and showers), Respectful and really hoping we can connect (not a negotiator or judge judy client; please accept my booking request).

Hey, we are all trying to figure this stuff out.

 

[LADY-LYRAH]

If something like that fell into my inbox, I’d book you immediately! 😂😂😂 always bonus points for making me laugh.

 

[Pornholio]

So, I am a generous gentleman (big-ish tipper), middle-aged (60+ is the new 40+), aspring to be fit but settling for lean dad-bod (going for acceptably honest points), a whiter than bleach working class guy (caucasian but not feeling like a self-absorbed priviledged snot), modestly pointy down there but GAF (a bit short but girthy as fuk), into kittens and gardening (not an unbalanced psycho killer), Impeccable hygeine (into soap and showers), Respectful and really hoping we can connect (not a negotiator or judge judy client; please accept my booking request).

Hey, we are all trying to figure this stuff out.

Brilliant

 

[jgg]

Attractive, fit white male means you should probably pay me, or at least you should do me for free.

 

[Harmony-bc]

So, I am a generous gentleman (big-ish tipper), middle-aged (60+ is the new 40+), aspring to be fit but settling for lean dad-bod (going for acceptably honest points), a whiter than bleach working class guy (caucasian but not feeling like a self-absorbed priviledged snot), modestly pointy down there but GAF (a bit short but girthy as fuk), into kittens and gardening (not an unbalanced psycho killer), Impeccable hygeine (into soap and showers), Respectful and really hoping we can connect (not a negotiator or judge judy client; please accept my booking request).

Hey, we are all trying to figure this stuff out.

When I say tell me about yourself, this is exactly what I’m looking for in spades!

 

[Harmony-bc]

When I’m asking somebody to tell me about themself, I’m not looking for an actual physical description. I don’t care what people look like. I love muscles, I love cuddly soft bodies and everything in between. I can learn interesting things from different cultures and back grounds.

Basically the question is asked when I get a request from somebody I’m not sure if I want to meet them. “Hi. You avail”. Or similar. Please give me more to go on lol. I’ll reply with
“Hi 😘. Can you please tell me your name, service and time/ date you’re thinking of, where you saw my ad, and a little bit about yourself?” So many reply with the bare minimum and then I usually decide to not see the person.

Fit white male is a little cringe due to what the other ladies say.

 

[LADY-LYRAH]

When I say tell me about yourself, this is exactly what I’m looking for in spades!

Right !!!

 

[Mr. J]

I don't worry about exercise and fitness given my line of work, which is carpentry (exterior siding). You got a job? You got a gym, essentially.

 

[golferjohn]

Deliverance being the key word here.

talk about 'triggering', lol

 

[Crookedmember]

"Fit white male," except for the 'fit' part, you might as well tell them you're a Trump supporter.

I usually charm the pants off 'em with stories of my glass eye. "It's just like Sammy Davis Jr's," I'll gush.