Why is it that so many adds describe the Best BBBJ but never say the best GFE or FS you’ll ever have? Just curious I do like a good BBBJ but get disappointed when the rest is a 5/10.
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Because bbbj isn’t necessarily included in gfe. Some people add bbbj to gfe. Some people offer bbbj without any kind of gfe. Gfe is cuddling, kissing, conversation etc.
I think some real life gfs hate blowjobs. kissing cuddling definitely yes. I think telling a working girl what she has to include when one of the activities involves ingesting strangers sperm, isn't fair to do. bbbj is a very recent phenomenon and was never automatically included in gfe. Let people charge and offer the services they want to
I'm not telling anyone what they do or don't have to do, or what they have to charge. But that's what that term means. I can remember discussions going back almost two decades about exactly this, so I wouldn't agree that's it's anything remotely recent. And I never said anything about cim, as I wouldn't say that's necessarily included. But when a guy asks about GFE, he's definitely not asking if he can lay in bed cuddling with you and talking. Because that's not what it means and that's not what's being paid for by like 99% of guys looking for GFE.
I think it doesn't hurt at all to find women that advertise bbbj and if they don't, then ask them and make sure before you book an appointment. Some people have a lot of precum and it just seems to me to be an activity that is a bit more risky. Especially sight unseen. I also think it might attract meaner men.
All my regulars are sweet wonderful men that love to cuddle and chat. Which doesn't mean that we also don't have sweaty passionate sex. I've never advertised bbbj and people have never expected that from me. Your mileage might vary with everything. Anyways not trying to argue here. Have a nice day xoxx
Agreed I would say it is included maybe 20-25 % time max so many do not offer it whatsoever but still give a really great GFE expereince.
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As the world turns and changes the "customer is always right" is not the same anymore. Safety is the issue.
Not all money is good money or fun money. I turn down way more than I make xo
My take is pretty much “different words for different deeds”. For instance “best GFE” draws better as “unforgettable experience”, “never rushed”, etc.
Best FS draws better as “Rock your world”, “I do what your GF doesn’t”, etc.
But best BBBJ means “Best BBBJ”! Eg: gobbling cock like a hungry hungry hippo. A creative variation is “Throat Goat”.
Perhaps the industry could do with few more explatives for man-muscle-munching. Maybe this could be the Start of Something Mr. Big! Snake Charmer Extraordinaire! Willy Wolfer! Gug-Gug-Gug-Greatness!
…and for the CIM-ers, “I’ll gargle you name” (or Perb Handle).
Hope you got a visual.
The golden rule is not thinking you are more important than anyone else.
Using words like “the best”, “top rated”, “number one” “your favourite” is completely subjective. Theres no official committee or panel of judges assessing our skills and rating who is the best at what, so it often reads like baseless bragging, pick-me marketing. There are better ways to describe giving excellent service without making unsubstantiated claims. For example: I specialize in providing an {amazing, unforgettable, excellent, wonderful, spectacular, knee wobbling, jaw dropping, mind blowing} “insert service” These words are also subjective, but qualitive rather than quantative.
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Since PERB as a board already exists, maybe the powers that be should consider setting up a panel of judges to assess the skills of advertisers before posting their ads. I would be prepared to volunteer for such a panel, or maybe it could be a sideline for the Mods to participate in......just a thought.😛😛😛
Well I use those terms when I text to a new provider who advertises all this.
You know, to let them know that I am pretty special too.
It is baseless advertising, all part of the joy of the sifting out process I guess.
Thats a really tough question, so many variables! What day is it? What time of day is it? What time of year is it? Is it a prebooking or last minute request?
Volume of enquiries ebbs and flows daily, as does the number of enquirers who are serious about booking. I think it would be too tricky to accurately gauge and give a general answer.
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I never used to like BBJ, I kind of felt like it wasn't something my partner would want to do, and i wanted her to enjoy the entire experience not just parts of it. I really enjoy DATY, because I felt like she really enjoyed it, and that really turned me on. After starting this hobby I basically leave it up to the SP whether BBJ will be a thing and at the Lake it typically is. I currently enjoy a great BBJ, and DATY is still one of my favorite pastimes but if I get an indication that she isn't enjoying an activity, I'd rather change to something else. It's a much better experience for me if she is having a great time. YMMV
I’m not gate keeping activities.
I’m just saying gfe is a term that leaves it open to all kinds of interpretation. It’s absolutely impossible to make every person around the world include activities in a term such as gfe.
I say I’m gfe because I genuinely enjoy my partners, I have fun, I’m super cuddly, every inch of me is kissable, and I’m authentic. Everything is ymmv and it has to be because we’re all human beings here. We’re not robots with no feelings, sense of smell or bad eyesight. Although I’ve always had a knack for getting along with almost anybody. Especially since I don’t drink any more.
I’m pretty sure I was in all those perb arguments back then too, saying exactly what I’m saying now lol. I’ve come and gone from this site a few times.
I'm loving the new softer perb tho. I love the way the board is moderated now. I don’t log on and leave mad from the misogyny anymore. 💕
I’m just saying gfe is a term that leaves it open to all kinds of interpretation. It’s absolutely impossible to make every person around the world include activities in a term such as gfe.
I say I’m gfe because I genuinely enjoy my partners, I have fun, I’m super cuddly, every inch of me is kissable, and I’m authentic. Everything is ymmv and it has to be because we’re all human beings here. We’re not robots with no feelings, sense of smell or bad eyesight. Although I’ve always had a knack for getting along with almost anybody. Especially since I don’t drink any more.
I’m pretty sure I was in all those perb arguments back then too, saying exactly what I’m saying now lol. I’ve come and gone from this site a few times.
I'm loving the new softer perb tho. I love the way the board is moderated now. I don’t log on and leave mad from the misogyny anymore. 💕
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Well, that’s good to hear; I’ve discussed Perb with a number of SPs who hold a different opinion…. 😬
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