Etiquette for walking out?

[GaaM]

I went to half moon and was bait & switched so decided to just leave. Normally I’d stay as for some reason I have it in my head that leaving will lead to some bullshit down the line lol as obviously I wanna keep this hobby under wraps.

wondering if anyone has had a negative experience walking out or if this is
something commonly practised?

i assume I’m just being paranoid but would appreciate any wisdom when it comes to walking out after you’ve been bait and switched as the constant fake ads is getting annoying so I can see myself doing this more

 

[empacher0801]

I went to half moon and was bait & switched so decided to just leave. Normally I’d stay as for some reason I have it in my head that leaving will lead to some bullshit down the line lol as obviously I wanna keep this hobby under wraps.

wondering if anyone has had a negative experience walking out or if this is
something commonly practised?

i assume I’m just being paranoid but would appreciate any wisdom when it comes to walking out after you’ve been bait and switched as the constant fake ads is getting annoying so I can see myself doing this more

I almost walked out of hush the other day. I'm around 20 years older than the SPs listed age and would comfortably say the SP was my age, maybe older. I get it, it's common to lie about one's age but at some point it gets ridiculous and ultimately just not what I wanted to pay for. I really wish I did leave as the service was awful too. Should have trusted my gut.

I think it can be done respectfully. Just be polite, calm and firm, don't cause a scene there or get in to an argument, just let them know you're leaving and won't be paying because *insert reason here* then let yourself out and maybe follow up via text or email to explain yourself if you feel the need to or still want to go to the establishment later (if they'll allow it).

Ultimately we are the customer and really shouldn't have to accept a bait and switch or excessive deceptive advertising. If we just pay and accept such behavior we encourage it. My 0.02c.

 

[Robert Audley]

I went to half moon and was bait & switched so decided to just leave. Normally I’d stay as for some reason I have it in my head that leaving will lead to some bullshit down the line lol as obviously I wanna keep this hobby under wraps.

wondering if anyone has had a negative experience walking out or if this is
something commonly practised?

i assume I’m just being paranoid but would appreciate any wisdom when it comes to walking out after you’ve been bait and switched as the constant fake ads is getting annoying so I can see myself doing this more

Great question!

I think I've only done it once, but I should've done it many, many, many times! I just felt the same way you do: if it's an agency, I'll get blacklisted; and if it's an indy, I risk either a scene or some sort of violence if she has a pimp or something (sorry if I'm not using the PC term. Is there a PC term for "pimp"? 😅 I mean, there shouldn't be pimps in this day and age, should there?!)

I know when it's not going to work in the first two minutes of an interaction. And if it's physical appearance, I know immediately. I know, I sound like an asshole. I can be flexible but I also have expectations (based on the ad and the pictures.) It really shouldn't be hard to walk out, especially if one is lied to, but it is. The time I did it, I got really nervous but I just said: "I don't think this is going to work out, I'm sorry." I was actually willing to pay some sort of penalty fee (even though I had been lied to), but she didn't say anything; she just said "okay" and let me out.

 

[Joe36blow]

Great question!

I think I've only done it once, but I should've done it many, many, many times! I just felt the same way you do: if it's an agency, I'll get blacklisted; and if it's an indy, I risk either a scene or some sort of violence if she has a pimp or something (sorry if I'm not using the PC term. Is there a PC term for "pimp"? 😅 I mean, there shouldn't be pimps in this day and age, should there?!)

I know when it's not going to work in the first two minutes of an interaction. And if it's physical appearance, I know immediately. I know, I sound like an asshole. I can be flexible but I also have expectations (based on the ad and the pictures.) It really shouldn't be hard to walk out, especially if one is lied to, but it is. The time I did it, I got really nervous but I just said: "I don't think this is going to work out, I'm sorry." I was actually willing to pay some sort of penalty fee (even though I had been lied to), but she didn't say anything; she just said "okay" and let me out.

the PG term for pimp here is handler.

One to many time I should have left, regretted not leaving, regretted paying and regretted bailing a few min into a session. Considering how much it costs to enjoy this hobby. I wish I had more balls when it came to turning and leaving.

I once asked an SP to have a shower when I got there (she smelled horrid) she did and I used that time to leave. The smell was only rhe smell cling on the cake.

 

[RobBC]

I've only ever walked out once. Was a SP who had an ad on Leolist where the pictures where a 20-something caucasian lady, and upon arriving at the hotel room and being let in was a 40-something asian woman. I indicated they were not the same person as in the pictures, they said "yes I am", then I opened my phone and showed the ad, they said "huh a white girl" and then I turned around and walked out the door. 🤷‍♂️

I think if there is extreme misrepresentation like that, there is no reason you should feel bad about walking out. Some of the AMPs even state in their ad similar (Bamboo has long had "If you are not satisfied, you can leave" in their ads).

 

[Dundas]

When you notice it’s not a good fit, reach for your back pocket, then say “damn I left my wallet in the car”, then split, high tail it out of there, no sense being polite when you’ve been lied to…send a text afterwards if you want….say you are on-call and will re-book at another time….

 

[shivs1]

When you notice it’s not a good fit, reach for your back pocket, then say “damn I left my wallet in the car”, then split, high tail it out of there, no sense being polite when you’ve been lied to…send a text afterwards if you want….say you are on-call and will re-book at another time….

ooo this is good

 

[Doglover250]

When you notice it’s not a good fit, reach for your back pocket, then say “damn I left my wallet in the car”, then split, high tail it out of there, no sense being polite when you’ve been lied to…send a text afterwards if you want….say you are on-call and will re-book at another time….

How about you left your wallet or lost it at the bank machine and acted like you were panicking, swearing, screaming, and yelling? They will panic more than you if you don’t want any drama. If you don’t care, tell them to their face and leave confidently, but I do understand that every situation is different.
I personally will leave with no problem.

 

[dattyspecialist]

I have walked out of SVIP, CCE, IF, Bamboo, Cz, HS, Amanda's and many Indy's, without being black listed by the agency. If girl doesn't meet description or pictures, or services offered and price didn't match add I walk. I usually just say "I'm sorry but you're not what I expected" or I'm sorry but I don't think this will work".

Cz after I walked out texted me to offer me to show me other girls. I didn't stay with the other girl, but on another day saw someone else.

In CCE a girl said I had to pay anyways, and I gave her some money so she didn't make a scene. I complained to CCE about it and they offered me a free session with another girl. I had assumed CCE was going to pay the girl, and them take the hit. But I imagine they didn't pay her fully, as she later blackmailed me. But I was able still able to see oher girls there.

I have also ended session earlier when it just wasn't working. I don't ask for my money back when that happens, but I've had a couple of girls offer me partial refund. Recently girl at Bamboo gave me $50 back from the $160. I then saw a different girl there and had a good time.

 

[Dadb0d]

I've walked out before and wish I did it on a few other occasions. Just tell them the girls aren't what I was looking for. Been back to the places I've walked out of since with zero issues.

 

[TriedandTide]

I went to half moon and was bait & switched so decided to just leave. Normally I’d stay as for some reason I have it in my head that leaving will lead to some bullshit down the line lol as obviously I wanna keep this hobby under wraps.

wondering if anyone has had a negative experience walking out or if this is
something commonly practised?

i assume I’m just being paranoid but would appreciate any wisdom when it comes to walking out after you’ve been bait and switched as the constant fake ads is getting annoying so I can see myself doing this more

walking out is totally fine. Always read the situtation, but if someone isnt who they say, you will feel better about yourself if you leave than if you stay. Ive walked out a few times, and the times i didnt walk out, i regretted as some of you may remember from a couple days ago. ive also had an experience where i just wasn't feeling her, nothing wrong with her, i could smell smoke in her hair and thats a huge turn off. I got her to stop, and i got up and left.

but if you haven't paid, you can tell them , hey you aren't who you said you are and leave.

 

[Seamac49]

Let me put this in another perspective.

Your shopping for a car and cruising the AutoTrader or whatever platform you know. You have the budget for a Ferrari and find one you like. You show up at the dealership and its a Prius with 400,000 kms on it.

What do you do?

 

[shivs1]

Let me put this in another perspective.

Your shopping for a car and cruising the AutoTrader or whatever platform you know. You have the budget for a Ferrari and find one you like. You show up at the dealership and its a Prius with 400,000 kms on it.

What do you do?

Take er for a spin anyway 🤣

 

[empacher0801]

Take er for a spin anyway 🤣

Lol. Well played.

I think the key is to be prepared to walk before you step foot in the door. It can be nerve wracking going to an appt. You don't want to run in to someone you know, your heart is pounding, you're excited etc. giving yourself a brief gut check before you get in the door and remind yourself that until you hand over your money you have the power in the situation and can walk if you're not comfortable might make it easier to do so and not feel so caught up in the uncertainty of the moment.

 

[dattyspecialist]

Take er for a spin anyway 🤣

Unlike used car dealerships, the agencies don't let you test drive without paying.

 

[Seamac49]

Unlike used car dealerships, the agencies don't let you test drive without paying.

I really think he was being facetious.

 

[Dabbles]

I walked out one time at IF about 5 minutes after the session started. The provider was extremely restrictive despite her menu. Kissing? No. Touching her hair? No. She had very nicely done augmented breasts which were prominently displayed and described as part of her profile. But alas no touching or kissing let alone sucking. At that point I knew for sure this was not going to work and got dressed. She did agree to return the extra payment for bbbj as that did not happen (neither did anything else). I did complain to the agency that she did not provide what was on her menu and they immediately offered me a credit for the full amount. In fact they contacted me shortly afterwards and said they fired her.

Great customer service and they kept my business.

 

[80watts]

Ahh the timid girl escort, cant touch anything... The problem with these girls are that they are germaphobics, no fluid anywhere touching their body. A Finger might introduce bacteria into their private parts (never heard of a condom or a medical glove)...
The really good providers provide kissing, touching, fingering (with glove in front), BLS, an awesome BJ, and fucking.
They are also good at telling men what is crossing their line of comfort. Attitude, Looks, Service are all arguable/debateable.

If you have a SP you see on the regular, ask her sometime about her bad customers/engagements she had. Some guys are complete assholes with SPs, and they push boundaries.

I think one of the things with guys walking out is the presentation/Advertisement of the SP. At the bear minimum, height, Boob size, weight, body type. Photos including a stand up view, showing body shape.
Do your homework first....

 

[jimmysandsy]

There must be 50 ways to leave your SP, I'd recommend any of them.

 

[Bunghole1]

Walk out or get your cock out?

What are you going to do?

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