Familiarity vs Surprise

[strider65]

I'm curious how others hzve balanced this, especially those who have been in the field for more than a year or two. I've visited about 15 different ladies since November, and I'm finding that I'm beginning to prefer a level of familiarity and comfort over variety and surprise.

In other words, I'm going with more repeats and not looking for new sp's.

It seems to mean something to a lot of sp's also.. the welcoming smile and the ease is nice. It's probably hugely individual, but how have others worked out the balance?

 

[GeeBeeP]

The balance for me is similar to many guys on here. I like repeating with the ladies I’ve enjoyed the most and getting that sense of familiarity and ease. However the thrill of the new is just as appealing sometimes, so when I get a chance to see an incredibly hot new SP I sometimes do.

The trick for me is moderation and will power. Sticking to my pooning budget is not easy but it’s necessary if I’m going to have enough to splurge now and again.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

yup Familiarity is nice, comfortable, knowing the small of the back of your gal like you know your own hands that kind of thing.
But even at my now, ahem, older age, I still dig meeting someone new, the exploration, the setting off of pheromones, how this person handles my unit, how she squirms under my mouth ....
Getting a chubby just thinking about it.

 

[girth-brooks]

I like both and have seen about 8 new ones and 1 regular since May. One disadvantage of seeing new SPs is that they're not always what you expect. I also prefer pics with faces. That being said, nothing lasts forever and once a good regular is gone, they're gone. What I wouldn't give to have some of my favorites that I have met over the years, some which were legendary.

 

[Goldj]

I am glad you brought this subject out. I was pondering about this too. As I get older and have to be careful of my spending, I am going to the same SPs. I tell myself I need to try something different. It's like going to your favorite restaurant and spend 10 minutes looking at the menu and order the same thing! Where is the adventure! Why am I so afraid of disappointment?

 

[vanperb]

Why am I so afraid of disappointment?

Because it's has become very costly to be wrong.

 

[strider65]

Because it's has become very costly to be wrong.

Costly and frustrating to put 300 or 350 on the table and get less than expected or someone who should have quit when it was still fun.

 

[Once you go black]

The balance for me is similar to many guys on here. I like repeating with the ladies I’ve enjoyed the most and getting that sense of familiarity and ease. However the thrill of the new is just as appealing sometimes, so when I get a chance to see an incredibly hot new SP I sometimes do.

The trick for me is moderation and will power. Sticking to my pooning budget is not easy but it’s necessary if I’m going to have enough to splurge now and again.

Well said ! I am like yourself in that I have to intentionally set aside money every month I just for the hobby so I am also on a pooning budget .

I have made this mistake in the past twice now so hopefully it’s finally hit home . For me I would say it’s the difference between thinking about your needs & desires in the near future as opposed to being short sighted and just thinking about now .

 

[Once you go black]

When I first started the hobby I was thrilled at the idea of not having to go through all the usual dating games & instead just pay to sleep w who you want , no strings , no drama , no hurt feelings plus the ability to try someone new everytime . This lasted not too long , at once every couple months I would say it was roughly one yr and half dozen .

At this point I mostly repeat ( about 80% of the time ) .
How ever I only repeat if the experience and connection is above average . Anyone I have an average or less than average experience with first time seeing them does not make it to the repeat list .
Usually with repeats I find both people start to relax in the good kind of way and chemistry keeps getting better . The trick I’ve found is to have enough repeats ( depending on your frequency) to avoid the coolage effect .

That being said every once in a while one of three things happens .
1 I get that itch to see someone new , this is still rare for me however .
2 I pass someone in a massage parlour either entering on my way to an appt or leaving, who’s look or vibe instantly makes me interested and afterwards I almost always end up booking to see them
3 Someone who I know has similar taste as me DM’s me about someone or someone who I can tell by their reviews has similar taste to myself posts an outstanding review about someone & my curiosity is peaked .

 

[Once you go black]

Because it's has become very costly to be wrong.

Last time this happened to me it was an incall , upon meeting the provider after walking through the door , she really wasn’t my type at all , but I decided to make the most of it and her over all demeanour + service made up for it .
So far I have only had one experience where the level of false marketing was so blatantly deceiving that after walking in I paid half and left immediately.
This was when I was pretty green and only my third attempt at pooning . Now a days I would just walk if it happened again.