Ask us anything part 2

[LC18]

Respectfully ask us questions about the industry that you’ve always wanted to have an answer for. I and the swer that want to join will try to answer as honestly as possible.

Please no questions about abuse or our worst experience.

To make sure you are not asking a question that’s already been asked, here’s the first thread: Ask us anything part 1

 

[dare.devil]

Respectfully ask us questions about the industry that you’ve always wanted to have an answer for. I and the swer that want to join will try to answer as honestly as possible.

Please no questions about abuse or our worst experience.

To make sure you are not asking a question that’s already been asked, here’s the first thread: Ask Us Anything Part 1

Thanks, Lena for another wonderful thread for sharing thoughts.
I was always wondering what the optimal break SPs look like between two back-to-back bookings.

And second, what are the things in general providers do in between appointments. Curiosity towards hygiene perspective.

 

[rinamood]

Thanks, Lena for another wonderful thread for sharing thoughts.
I was always wondering what the optimal break SPs look like between two back-to-back bookings.

And second, what are the things in general providers do in between appointments. Curiosity towards hygiene perspective.

15min minimum. 30min ideally as it gives buffer time in case there's ever buzzer issues or line-up, which is not the client's fault.

Washing and tidying up, changing all towels and sheets, laundry duties, emptying the bin, putting on a new set of lingerie or a costume, rehydrating, snack if needed. It should be reset like when you are playing a video game and you re-enter a puzzle room after fucking up 😂

Or did you meant back-to-back as in basically zero minutes between? That's probably taboo to talk about on public forum haha

 

[MikeyLikey99]

How common are roleplay requests?

What sort of role play scenarios are fun for you (any providers that care to answer)?

What are some common role play requests, if you get them?

 

[wincity23]

How large a role does daily volume play in your enjoyment of services received, or ability to be at your best? I sometimes wonder if am appointments with a sp would be better in this regard.

 

[dare.devil]

15min minimum. 30min ideally as it gives buffer time in case there's ever buzzer issues or line-up, which is not the client's fault.

Washing and tidying up, changing all towels and sheets, laundry duties, emptying the bin, putting on a new set of lingerie or a costume, rehydrating, snack if needed. It should be reset like when you are playing a video game and you re-enter a puzzle room after fucking up 😂

Or did you meant back-to-back as in basically zero minutes between? That's probably taboo to talk about on public forum haha

Thanks Rina, I meant appointment with break, And I agree that zero minutes between two appointments would be certianly a taboo

 

[apl16]

Respectfully ask us questions about the industry that you’ve always wanted to have an answer for. I and the swer that want to join will try to answer as honestly as possible.

Please no questions about abuse or our worst experience.

To make sure you are not asking a question that’s already been asked, here’s the first thread: Ask us anything part 1

I'm curious as to when things are the the busiest and the slowest. Are stat holidays busy? lunchtime or dinner hours?
I'm curious due to having flexible hours and would prefer to visit when things are quiet.
I generally prefer later in the evening as I tend to usually have all the stresses behind me for the day.
I'd like it for any ladies that are independent, amps, micros, etc. reply.

Thank you 😊

 

[rinamood]

I'm curious as to when things are the the busiest and the slowest. Are stat holidays busy? lunchtime or dinner hours?
I'm curious due to having flexible hours and would prefer to visit when things are quiet.
I generally prefer later in the evening as I tend to usually have all the stresses behind me for the day.
I'd like it for any ladies that are independent, amps, micros, etc. reply.

Thank you 😊

For me, 6pm and 1pm are the most commonly requested times.
If you are pre-booking, it doesn't matter what time as long as it's agreed upon 🍀

 

[rlock]

(assuming incall in this situation)

If someone wants to be with you in the bed rather than on the bed, is that ruled out or permissible ?

 

[LC18]

I was always wondering what the optimal break SPs look like between two back-to-back bookings.

And second, what are the things in general providers do in between appointments. Curiosity towards hygiene perspective.

I dont see back to back clients unless 2+ hours break in between is considered back to back. But that would only be when I’m touring. At home I see no more than 2 people a day.

 

[LC18]

How common are roleplay requests?

What sort of role play scenarios are fun for you (any providers that care to answer)?

What are some common role play requests, if you get them?

Not common for me but I have a regular who really likes them. He always has great idea, the last one we’ve did was that I was a dr*g dealer and he was coming to search my place while I was supposed to be away. However when he got there, I was there and said we could make a deal. He would reduce the charges if I have sex with him.

 

[Harmony-bc]

I'm curious as to when things are the the busiest and the slowest. Are stat holidays busy? lunchtime or dinner hours?
I'm curious due to having flexible hours and would prefer to visit when things are quiet.
I generally prefer later in the evening as I tend to usually have all the stresses behind me for the day.
I'd like it for any ladies that are independent, amps, micros, etc. reply.

Thank you 😊

I find Tuesdays and Fridays to be slower. Fridays can be slow just because I don't drink or do drugs. But those days can also be crazy busy. It's a little unpredicatable. Close to the end of the month is really slow. Lots of ladies come on line trying to make rent.

 

[VanCityNewb]

Is it okay to bring flowers and such? Sometimes I'll bring a little gift that fits into my pocket. Most of the girls I see are alternating sharing a space, so I assume that if different random guys are showing up with large items like flowers at their door regularly, it starts to raise suspicions.

Maybe it doesn't happen often enough to be a big deal, but I read reviews on here of it happening enough that it makes me want to be a bit more cautious.

 

[Harmony-bc]

Is it okay to bring flowers and such? Sometimes I'll bring a little gift that fits into my pocket. Most of the girls I see are alternating sharing a space, so I assume that if different random guys are showing up with large items like flowers at their door regularly, it starts to raise suspicions.

Maybe it doesn't happen often enough to be a big deal, but I read reviews on here of it happening enough that it makes me want to be a bit more cautious.

I love getting flowers. 💘

But yes, flowers can be quite noticeable. Probably not the most discrete gift. I still love getting them tho. Maybe ask before hand?

 

[rinamood]

Is it okay to bring flowers and such? Sometimes I'll bring a little gift that fits into my pocket. Most of the girls I see are alternating sharing a space, so I assume that if different random guys are showing up with large items like flowers at their door regularly, it starts to raise suspicions.

Maybe it doesn't happen often enough to be a big deal, but I read reviews on here of it happening enough that it makes me want to be a bit more cautious.

I'd recommend bringing any presents in a gift bag or something that makes it easy to take home after 🎁 Some incalls have a closet or storage space where gifts can be tucked away between clients if anything 💐

For flowers in particular, it doesn't hurt to ask first.

 

[apl16]

I find Tuesdays and Fridays to be slower. Fridays can be slow just because I don't drink or do drugs. But those days can also be crazy busy. It's a little unpredicatable. Close to the end of the month is really slow. Lots of ladies come on line trying to make rent.

Thank you for your response. It's very kind of you and Rina!

 

[LC18]

Is it okay to bring flowers and such? Sometimes I'll bring a little gift that fits into my pocket. Most of the girls I see are alternating sharing a space, so I assume that if different random guys are showing up with large items like flowers at their door regularly, it starts to raise suspicions.

Maybe it doesn't happen often enough to be a big deal, but I read reviews on here of it happening enough that it makes me want to be a bit more cautious.

I love flower but only when I’m home, if I’m touring it’s a waste of money because I won’t be able to bring them with me. Some of us have a wishlist on our website with ideas from more modest to expensive that you could buy. Or simply as the person

 

[rinamood]

How large a role does daily volume play in your enjoyment of services received, or ability to be at your best? I sometimes wonder if am appointments with a sp would be better in this regard.

Book what time is best for you. It's up to us SPs to work around it if we've agreed to it! I handle what I've agreed to and speak up if anything.

I didn't think I'd be great at AM bookings but I've been waking up at 7am the last few months and found that I can manage a perfectly happy and fun 10am booking after all 🫣 Clients have commented on my energy even in the morning haha ⚡

 

[Dick Ford]

For all the benefits regulars bring to a provider's life, is it inevitable that they will eventually become too needy and demanding, as well as boundary-crossing, for it to be worth having them as clients? Or is it more likely that most providers will keep quiet and tolerate the bad behaviour to keep the money flowing in?

 

[rinamood]

For all the benefits regulars bring to a provider's life, is it inevitable that they will eventually become too needy and demanding, as well as boundary-crossing, for it to be worth having them as clients? Or is it more likely that most providers will keep quiet and tolerate the bad behaviour to keep the money flowing in?

Tolerance depends on the SP's goals and needs; It would be a case-by-case basis for each SP. Some clients will purposefully try to slip through the cracks when we have made clear that we will not be seeing them again. It's important for SPs to speak up for sure, but sometimes, it can be risky in a situation that feels too unsafe to say anything. I wouldn't blame SPs for their silence and distancing from clients they no longer want to see, but I also personally don't blame people who are dating and end up ghosting on messages because that distance is their answer.

My answer is that it will be inevitable for certain clients who don't care about our boundaries as individual humans. I think it'd be cool if there wasn't some inevitable risk of people becoming too needy/demanding/boundary-crossing. I really appreciate clients who check in with me, take my discomfort seriously, are graceful in accepting my "no" rather than taking it personally, and strive to create a safe space for the two of us together. I hope that people who are seeking beyond what I am able to offer understand and find what they need elsewhere.