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[Sowman79]

Hi rubintugger it's been long I noticed you teamed up with snowman & WinnipegJ.
my session wasn't spiced up with you might be; so it became a sin for me!! Don't repeat it's that simple.

But what's wrong with my choice?
Suppose, Idw to see you or you don't want to see me, what bothers here anyone?
I am not selling products, it's my body my choice.
And some of my restricted guys are really great to understand my restriction & some proofs me why they're in.

I faced the worst experiences and never found you or anyone who mocks (on my restriction)by my side right the way.

I never wanted to disclose(just few my regulars knows)had more than 5 pushed sessions where we agreed only hj & massage but they ended up penetration where I said them 'no' at least 10 times.
that unwanted penetration wasn't in my menu for them nor I charged. Multiple threats from September when I started.
After I Simply blocked my door for all of them, again saying some are really great but I don't know who bad apple here.

(Still I have one EI & few ME,the respect they offers that's beyond my restriction.)
& it was always same ethnicity whom I added, once a ME stalking me couple hours outside from my place and texting me( don't wanna go more in detail).

Don't judge anyone from how you are, not all gentlemen are gentlemen inside the room.
Ask the providers how many animals we handle a month if we allow anyone without any restrictions. It's my security I have to secure.


But if you're the person who carry poison like a snake & whenever they open the mouth have negativity than don't mind go ahead.

Idk which session you purchased but come to my door will tip you little more with that, go to a good car wash for few hours and wash your poisonous mind if that helps.
Take snowman & winnipegJ too with you.

The summery - it's my body my choice with no explanations.

Sorry, I can't see where I mentioned you.Actually this thread is about @Your friendly neighbour query. Certainly, some members hickjacked this thread by bringing your name over here. Please, allow us to come back to the topic before the Mod close the thread, as it's usual with any one where you're involved.

 

[abcabc]

Sorry, I can't see where I mentioned you.Actually this thread is about @Your friendly neighbour query. Certainly, some members hickjacked this thread by bringing your name over here. Please, allow us to come back to the topic before the Mod close the thread, as it's usual with any one where you're involved.

Hi sorry recheck, I would have added 'SOWMAN79' not 'snowman' if I meant you.
There was a hell spoken guy's handle under "Snowman", who never visited me( in my restriction or block list probably).

If that kicked out shoe doesn't fit you than you're not the Cinderella, nothing to react don't worry.

 

[Sowman79]

Hi I don't know your id. I would have added your digits too if I meant you.
There was a good for nothing but spreading negativity guy's handle under "Snowman".

If that kicked out shoe doesn't fit you than it's not you.

Anyways, my point is: sorry, this thread is not about you. Since it seems that you're very sensitive to criticism, definitely you can save your energy by ignoring those comments which bring you in this conversation.

 

[abcabc]

Anyways, my point is: sorry, this thread is not about you.

I had no attention unless my topic started here from specific people i mentioned.
So if it's about me, I will definitely speak up.
Just do a search on these 3 names I mentioned & check I didn't even consider their existences.
Check my last review, if something doesn't spice up between clients and me I simply apologize. But if someone with intentions always jumping, no I am not taking that.

 

[Coldwinter]

If you read the response to ChromeGasCap, and his response, it should be plain what my intent was in posting about the restrictions.

I have repeatedly explained that i understand your restrictions, and agree that is 100% your option.

You intimate that I have some vendetta against you, but if you review my posts, you will realize that my concern has always been that it seems that early on your knowledge of the business and history of how it is generally conducted seemed limited, and your offerings have been confusing to many, and I had attempted to assist you in clarifying a menu based system, which you seem to have embraced, although again, not in a conventional way. But again, it's your business how you conduct your business, and I'm sorry if you have taken my suggestions as criticism or attacks, when all I have been trying to do is clarify things about you for my fellow perbites.

As to sharing anything about a particular encounter without permission, that is not good form for someone in your profession. While customers pushing boundaries is something that will plague service providers, there are also situations where miscommunication can cause the parties to have different ideas of what actually is on the menu. Like advertising on both the massage section and the escort section of a website, with neither stating whether full service is offered. I think that everyone on this website wants to, at least, know that much, and for a long time and for many of my early posts, that issue was unclear, with clients expressing both sides.

All my post was intended for was to make sure that, in a thread that was not about you, that the original poster, who by his interest in an EI providers may well be in your restricted group, doesn't waste your time by attempting to contact you.

Your restrictions are not secret, they are expressed at the very top of every ad you place, so I am not sure why you are upset with them being shared. You don't need to explain your reasons for restrictions either, as you say, your body your choice.

There was no malicious intent, this is a board to exchange information to make it better for both clients and service providers.

Another eloquently crafted response …congratulations!

However I was a little taken aback at this part of your dissertation.

“While customers pushing boundaries is something that will plague service providers, there are also situations where miscommunication can cause the parties to have different ideas of what actually is on the menu. Like advertising on both the massage section and the escort section of a website, with neither stating whether full service is offered.”

I hope this comment is not about the 5 guys she referenced in her post. If it is it sure sounds like victim blaming and a minimization of what happened to her.

No means no in all circumstances. Plain and simple full stop.

 

[rubintugger]

Another eloquently crafted response …congratulations!

However I was a little taken aback at this part of your dissertation.

“While customers pushing boundaries is something that will plague service providers, there are also situations where miscommunication can cause the parties to have different ideas of what actually is on the menu. Like advertising on both the massage section and the escort section of a website, with neither stating whether full service is offered.”

I hope this comment is not about the 5 guys she referenced in her post. If it is it sure sounds like victim blaming and a minimization of what happened to her.

No means no in all circumstances. Plain and simple full stop.

Of course no means no, full stop. That is not in dispute, and was not the point.

The idiots that push boundaries that they are very conscious of are despicable and do not deserve the company of the fine women who we review here.

My point was that many new service providers do not adequately communicate the services they offer, and allow clients to be honestly mistaken about what is actually on the menu. This either ends up with a client not getting what he expects he paid for, or the client might proceed with activities they thought were included and be rebuked. It is important when a service provider has a very specific set of rules in her head that those rules are communicated well before the encounter has a chance to go off the rails.

We read reviews all the time about how a client was promised many things, but things changed when the encounter started, either they were not offered, or additional costs were requested. These are scammers, and again, not what I am referring to.

When an SP does not specifically state that full service is part of the encounter, yet advertises on both the massage and escort sections, and multiple reviews get posted claiming that full service is and is not on the menu, that confusion means there is a communication issue that is not healthy for either SP or client.

I have no idea why any SP would be ambiguous about what services they provide. Its not like its hidden what they are doing for a living, and it can't help with client satisfaction or repeats.

Just my opinion, this is a business and many do it with amazing professionalism.

 

[Sowman79]

Of course no means no, full stop. That is not in dispute, and was not the point.

The idiots that push boundaries that they are very conscious of are despicable and do not deserve the company of the fine women who we review here.

My point was that many new service providers do not adequately communicate the services they offer, and allow clients to be honestly mistaken about what is actually on the menu. This either ends up with a client not getting what he expects he paid for, or the client might proceed with activities they thought were included and be rebuked. It is important when a service provider has a very specific set of rules in her head that those rules are communicated well before the encounter has a chance to go off the rails.

We read reviews all the time about how a client was promised many things, but things changed when the encounter started, either they were not offered, or additional costs were requested. These are scammers, and again, not what I am referring to.

When an SP does not specifically state that full service is part of the encounter, yet advertises on both the massage and escort sections, and multiple reviews get posted claiming that full service is and is not on the menu, that confusion means there is a communication issue that is not healthy for either SP or client.

I have no idea why any SP would be ambiguous about what services they provide. Its not like its hidden what they are doing for a living, and it can't help with client satisfaction or repeats.

Just my opinion, this is a business and many do it with amazing professionalism.

"Another eloquently crafted response, too 😉. There is a new thread now where you guys can continue the seamless debate about this lady. It could be easy if she states clearly what she offers and what not, in a similar way as she rightly details her ethical restrictions . Certainly, posting in both escorts and massage section while defending a strange definition of those services doesn't help to reach a consensus. Also, in my opinion, feeling offended for it and giving names to those who criticised it is a useless and unrespectful way to make a point, . Meanwhile, let's stay in the original topic,please.

 

[Coldwinter]

Of course no means no, full stop. That is not in dispute, and was not the point.

The idiots that push boundaries that they are very conscious of are despicable and do not deserve the company of the fine women who we review here.

My point was that many new service providers do not adequately communicate the services they offer, and allow clients to be honestly mistaken about what is actually on the menu. This either ends up with a client not getting what he expects he paid for, or the client might proceed with activities they thought were included and be rebuked. It is important when a service provider has a very specific set of rules in her head that those rules are communicated well before the encounter has a chance to go off the rails.

We read reviews all the time about how a client was promised many things, but things changed when the encounter started, either they were not offered, or additional costs were requested. These are scammers, and again, not what I am referring to.

When an SP does not specifically state that full service is part of the encounter, yet advertises on both the massage and escort sections, and multiple reviews get posted claiming that full service is and is not on the menu, that confusion means there is a communication issue that is not healthy for either SP or client.

I have no idea why any SP would be ambiguous about what services they provide. Its not like its hidden what they are doing for a living, and it can't help with client satisfaction or repeats.

Just my opinion, this is a business and many do it with amazing professionalism.

Thanks for clarifying but reading her post that is obviously not what happened in her particular case.

 

[slimdaddy]

The ad is fake!!

 

[Grishnak]

Here's a suggestion that'll chap a few asses, Het MBMOD, why not turn off all discussions about "the Jess" and her services, preferences for clientele etc. for a couple of days or a week? Let everybody cool off a little. Everybody can stop debating about what services, what races blah, blah blah, and get back to what this forum is, a REVIEW board. This was originally a question about someone named Amrita and it's devolved into .... I don't even know what to call this.

 

[westwoody]

I don't even know what to call this.

Random word salad? 🤔

 

[Trafy]

I am an EI too and thought so many time to text Jess after reading the reviews here but never texted her just because it’s her choice that she doesn’t want to see us guys and I respect her decision that’s not for us to decide for her. We see many providers put no black men and we never question them so why should we question her just let her work and give her some privacy and let her do her work. If she wishes to see us EI guys she will eventually remove her restrictions in future.

 

[abcabc]

@Trafy Appreciated

 

[nearandfar]

Lol, yes it has. 37 posts deep now. I imagine the mod just looking at his/her screen, shaking his/her head and thinking...

 

[wpgman69]

What in the holy just had a stroke is happening in this thread.

 

[MB Mod]

Lol, yes it has. 37 posts deep now. I imagine the mod just looking at his/her screen, shaking his/her head and thinking...

No I just sit back and say the mod prayer 🙏
Oh (insert name of your invisible friend in the sky here) if these people drive me crazy please let me be the crazy guy with 25 cats in the basement and not the crazy guy assembling the physics package in the basement amen.