Recommendations for Intoverts

[warning_blade]

Hello everyone,

I've been following almost every review from last year, although I didn’t interact with any posts earlier. I have had bad experiences with the first couple of interactions (I don't want to remember them). The only one I found so far was Blossom from XDS (on my fourth try, which was really good).

I have a TDL (inspired a lot by Bobert):
1. Sydney (XDS)
2. Dawn (YL)
3. Chaya (XDS)

I'm 164cm and an extremely introverted South Asian. Also, I consider myself a newbie (sometimes even noob than that). I would love to get recommendations of Chinese, Korean, and Indian slim figure sps shorter than me (other ethnicities are also welcome, I guess). Also, a very important question: is it okay to see taller girls (168+ cm)?

 

[rinamood]

I'm 155cm, slim, and very used to people on the introverted/shy side 🥰 I get what you mean by having your best session after several visits - this is not uncommon. Familiarity helps a lot for introverts and also for nervous people overall.

It is SUPER okay to see girls taller than you! Tall girls are so hot 😍

Edit: I thought you meant you had seen the last SP four times - that's why I said familiarity helps because repeat sessions is what helped my introvert clients 😋

 

[westcoastrider1982]

Understandable wanting to see ladies that won’t make you feel uncomfortable about being shy.

Not sure what you mean by “is it ok to see taller ladies?”

Don’t think any lady will turn you down if you’re willing to pay! lol

They usually list restrictions and guys they’d rather not see but I’ve never come across
“No short guys please!” Lol

 

[MrNeem]

Find a reputable provider. Explain to her in advance that you are shy. Your first couple of disappointments might’ve been due to the provider not knowing beforehand. Just a thought.

 

[white Ninja]

I always find transparency is best .
Don’t be passive aggressive, not saying you are or have , I have no idea , just throwing that out there .
If you’re shy or nervous or introverted , just let the provider know within the first 5 minutes.
Things will go much better for you .

I will share an example , all of my regulars I dfk with . I’ve read countless reviews on all of them that said no dfk or we didn’t dfk not sure if it was available.

For me my first time w any provider, as soon as things get going , within 5 minutes I just say Hey , I love to kiss , kissing is my kink .
Unless they have a strong rule against it , 9 times out of ten we end up French kissing .
Of course you have to be reasonable in your expectations as well .
Like you may need to give the other person a few minutes to process what you just said .
So in my case sometime we start lfk and I’m fine w that .
Because I’m fairly chill about it , towards the end of the session most times we are full on necking .

In your case , after you let the lady your with know , let her have a few minutes to process the information , in order to be mindful of the information you gave her to work with & adjust whatever behaviour she feels is best ..

 

[warning_blade]

Find a reputable provider. Explain to her in advance that you are shy. Your first couple of disappointments might’ve been due to the provider not knowing beforehand. Just a thought.

Thank you. I didn’t know it's for the betterment of the session. Also, the first couple was my lack of research I would say. Went for new providers, where the pics and information didn’t match with the website.

 

[warning_blade]

I always find transparency is best .
Don’t be passive aggressive, not saying you are or have , I have no idea , just throwing that out there .
If you’re shy or nervous or introverted , just let the provider know within the first 5 minutes.
Things will go much better for you .

I will share an example , all of my regulars I dfk with . I’ve read countless reviews on all of them that said no dfk or we didn’t dfk not sure if it was available.

For me my first time w any provider, as soon as things get going , within 5 minutes I just say Hey , I love to kiss , kissing is my kink .
Unless they have a strong rule against it , 9 times out of ten we end up French kissing .
Of course you have to be reasonable in your expectations as well .
Like you may need to give the other person a few minutes to process what you just said .
So in my case sometime we start lfk and I’m fine w that .
Because I’m fairly chill about it , towards the end of the session most times we are full on necking .

In your case , after you let the lady your with know , let her have a few minutes to process the information , in order to be mindful of the information you gave her to work with & adjust whatever behaviour she feels is best ..

Thank you. I was waiting for your response. I have been watching your reviews and posts, which are really well described. Thank you so much for the advice. I'll follow them from my next session (probably next week). Also, I wanted to post this a long time ago but couldn’t (introvert nature). I'm glad I did now, and it's always helpful to get advice from an experienced person like you. Thank you again. Also, if you have recommendations for me, I will be grateful.

 

[white Ninja]

Thank you. I was waiting for your response. I have been watching your reviews and posts, which are really well described. Thank you so much for the advice. I'll follow them from my next session (probably next week). Also, I wanted to post this a long time ago but couldn’t (introvert nature). I'm glad I did now, and it's always helpful to get advice from an experienced person like you. Thank you again. Also, if you have recommendations for me, I will be grateful.

I’’m not a therapist , but if you’re asking ,
one definite recommendation is Read the book ,
Quiet,
by Susan Cain.
If you’re not a reader than get the audio book on Itunes & listen to it .
You’ll realize how much power there is in being an introvert .


Also if there is any time left afterwards, fuck the massage .

Spend time talking with and getting to know the provider as a person & not just a provider.
Even if you never plan on seeing her again .

People are interesting & everyone has a story that is unique.
The more peoples stories you hear the more you’ll start to connect w people more easily .
Learn a little about light rapport & deep rapport. Practice breaking the ice w light rapport & steering the conversation more towards deeper rapport. Thats where real connections as opposed to surface ones happen . Even if its just for a moment . A real connection doesn’t have to be some lifelong friendship, it can be just a moment between two people .

 

[warning_blade]

I’’m not a therapist , but if you’re asking ,
one definite recommendation is Read the book ,
Quiet,
by Susan Cain.
If you’re not a reader than get the audio book on Itunes & listen to it .
You’ll realize how much power there is in being an introvert .


Also if there is any time left afterwards, fuck the massage .

Spend time talking with and getting to know the provider as a person & not just a provider.
Even if you never plan on seeing her again .

People are interesting & everyone has a story that is unique.
The more peoples stories you hear the more you’ll start to connect w people more easily .
Learn a little about light rapport & deep rapport. Practice breaking the ice w light rapport & steering the conversation more towards deeper rapport. Thats where real connections as opposed to surface ones happen . Even if its just for a moment . A real connection doesn’t have to be some lifelong friendship, it can be just a moment between two people .

I'll definitely read the book. Also, thank you for explaining this much just for me. I posted this to find a solution, which you gave in a pretty awesome way. I will take your advice word for word, for sure.

 

[Uwuboi]

As a fellow introvert recently new to pooning - first few sessions omg so nerve racking.

Always choose WELL reviewed SPs - as they tend to have the experience to cater to whatever you’re struggling with, and take the lead.

The less experienced SPs or the ones that solely are just warm starfishes you’ll need to put extra effort in yourself to get the most out of your poon - which I’m sure you feel you won’t be able to do at the moment.

Ask your SPs a lot of questions during the session, you’ll enjoy it 😀