Anybody seen Vienna 5388?

[AlbertaBill]

This is not the popular Vienna from Vogue Collective!

Really attractive in her ad, communication was perfect until she ghosted when I asked for final address and buzzer information. She is in Harris Green, apparently.

i think she worked briefly at bamboo, then went independent. Is she worth pursuing?.

 

[shivs1]

This is not the popular Vienna from Vogue Collective!

Really attractive in her ad, communication was perfect until she ghosted when I asked for final address and buzzer information. She is in Harris Green, apparently.

i think she worked briefly at bamboo, then went independent. Is she worth pursuing?.

She wasted my time & ghosted me several weeks ago too.

We set a time, I reached out shortly before the appointment to confirm and to get the address. I show up on time downstairs and she replies that she's running a bit late, will need a few mins and will text when she's ready. I wait 15min nearby on a bench in the cold. Text to see how much longer she might be and if I should just leave. Ghost.

 

[AlbertaBill]

She wasted my time & ghosted me several weeks ago too.

We set a time, I reached out shortly before the appointment to confirm and to get the address. I show up on time downstairs and she replies that she's running a bit late, will need a few mins and will text when she's ready. I wait 15min nearby on a bench in the cold. Text to see how much longer she might be and if I should just leave. Ghost.

She did the same to me on my second try. Waited downstairs and she said 4 minutes, then 3 minutes and then “i am on my way!”. I waited a total of 40 minutes before she went silent.

i can only suspect she was doing drugs and lost track of everything* then passed out. Anyway, not a go for me anymore. I was just wondering if I was the only one she ghosted.

 

[Robert Audley]

Any provider that ghosts you is not worth a second try, no matter how attractive she looks in her ad. My two cents.

 

[RobBC]

Any provider that ghosts you is not worth a second try, no matter how attractive she looks in her ad. My two cents.

I dunno about that, sometimes life happens. Partly depends too on if the SP makes an effort to apologize after the fact for the inconvenience, but regardless I tend to have a "two strike" policy, ie if they ghost more than once then forget it.

If you had to cancel last minute on a SP, would you expect them to blacklist you?

 

[AlbertaBill]

Any provider that ghosts you is not worth a second try, no matter how attractive she looks in her ad. My two cents.

Agree, except she could have misplaced her phone or the battery died or she was on the phine and did not see the text. Don’t want to hurt a girl’s livelihood in case of an innocent mistake.

But clearly now for Vienna she is simply a nut ghoster.

 

[Robert Audley]

I dunno about that, sometimes life happens. Partly depends too on if the SP makes an effort to apologize after the fact for the inconvenience, but regardless I tend to have a "two strike" policy, ie if they ghost more than once then forget it.

If you had to cancel last minute on a SP, would you expect them to blacklist you?

Cancelling ≠ Ghosting. Cancelling involves communication. I have been cancelled by great providers, no problem. I have never been ghosted by one (that is, by a good provider; in other words, good providers do not ghost clients.)

 

[Robert Audley]

Agree, except she could have misplaced her phone or the battery died or she was on the phine and did not see the text. Don’t want to hurt a girl’s livelihood in case of an innocent mistake.

This never happens to good providers. Or any responsible person, for that matter. Especially if the appointment has been confirmed. But now that I read the OP, I'm not sure that was even the case. Did she confirm the appointment? And if she did, and she needed to cancel, then there's no excuse for not reaching out and cancel instead of ghosting you.

As I said, this counts for everybody, in any line of work. I would never ghost one of my clients, not in my wildest dreams!

 

[AlbertaBill]

This never happens to good providers. Or any responsible person, for that matter. Especially if the appointment has been confirmed. But now that I read the OP, I'm not sure that was even the case. Did she confirm the appointment? And if she did, and she needed to cancel, then there's no excuse for not reaching out and cancel instead of ghosting you.

As I said, this counts for everybody, in any line of work. I would never ghost one my clients, not in my wildest dreams!

Both my appointments had been confirmed with agreed upon time for me to text to get apartment info, a time that was suggested by her, half hour before the agreed appointment time.

 

[Robert Audley]

Both my appointments had been confirmed with agreed upon time for me to text to get apartment info, a time that was suggested by her, half hour before the agreed appointment time.

No excuse then. I'm surprised you tried a second time. But that's just me. Part of my requirements when I want to see someone: reliability. It says a lot about a person.

 

[RobBC]

Cancelling ≠ Ghosting. Cancelling involves communication. I have been cancelled by great providers, no problem. I have never been ghosted by one (that is, by a good provider; in other words, good providers do not ghost clients.)

That's fair. I still go by the "two strike rule" even around ghosting specifically, and would have missed out on some great experiences if I had been less understanding, but to each their own.

 

[Canyon]

Well Vienna can read this thread and decide to make some changes or not ? She is getting free advertising but it will hurt her brand as she now know to ghost guys. Unreliable!!