Common stereotypes and misconceptions [escort edition]

[vitaminD]

I’m actually pretty receptive so thanks for sharing! I’m not interested in proof I’ll take your word for it

Although you claim to be open-minded, your previous statement referring to our viewpoint as "unfortunate" doesn't appear to align with your supposed receptiveness.

The fact is, what we are expressing is not even contentious; it is a reflection of reality and aligns with the viewpoint of the overwhelming majority of men.

Feel free to start a new thread and inquire about the men's perspective on having a long-term relationship with an escort. Based on the probability, I would anticipate that a majority of men who are members here would respond with a "no" and this is a small fringe community of guys who would be some of the most likely members of society to say "yes" to that question. If you were to take that question to the broader public and ask them, I honestly think around 99% of men would say no.

 

[apl16]

Although you claim to be open-minded, your previous statement referring to our viewpoint as "unfortunate" doesn't appear to align with your supposed receptiveness.

The fact is, what we are expressing is not even contentious; it is a reflection of reality and aligns with the viewpoint of the overwhelming majority of men.

Feel free to start a new thread and inquire about the men's perspective on having a long-term relationship with an escort. Based on the probability, I would anticipate that a majority of men who are members here would respond with a "no" and this is a small fringe community of guys who would be some of the most likely members of society to say "yes" to that question. If you were to take that question to the broader public and ask them, I honestly think around 99% of men would say no.

I don't care if a woman is/has been a service provider.

As long as she's a good kind person and treats me with respect it's all good.

 

[white Ninja]

I wouldn't say drug use is a stereotype; there are a lot of sober providers. I will say that providers I've known tend to have at one point had a substance abuse problem at one point in their lives compared to the people I know on a personal level. There are a lot of sober anniversaries. Not to take away from their accomplishments, congratulations to them for staying strong, and I'm cheering for everyone that working towards it.

One stereotype that isn't talked about often is that there seems to be a large percentage of providers who are neurodivergent. Most are self diagnosed, but through interactions you can tell there's just something. This is more than just saying someone is on the spectrum, we're talking about learning disabilities, medical disorders, etc. Being a providers gives them the ability to be financially independent while dealing with their struggles. Being neurotypical seems to be pretty atypical.

That being said to be a good provider you would still need to possess certain qualities that are less valued in the traditional sense as far as the education system goes .
Qualities such as high social intelligence & social skills , such as being able to read people and connecting w people .
Emotional intelligence and I’m guessing in some cases understanding branding and marketing such as creating an image of yourself around your brand .
Etc etc etc .

 

[westwoody]

the viewpoint of the overwhelming majority of men.

Widely held opinions are not necessarily facts.