Dinner dates and overnights

[LC18]

I have several questions to ask (yes again).

I am starting to receive more and more requests for dinner dates which is very pleasant. I’ve grown to realize that I really enjoy it. It makes it more fun to get to know someone or to spend quality time with someone you already know. I love overnights because I usually don’t look at the time, I arrive at a set time obviously but will leave when we feel like it’s the right time. Usually around 9:00-10:00 AM. I’m thinking of restructuring my rates and packages.

Dinner dates
What do you prefer? Dinner first or dinner last?
Would you book it more if the rate was cheaper?
What is a good duration for a dinner date?

Overnight
What is a good duration for an overnight?
Would you prefer if it was incall or outcall?

 

[204fun]

My overall thoughts...

Dinner Dates:
A dinner date pretty much can't be any shorter than about 4-hours. You need at least 2-hours for the dinner portion and then another 2-hours for the intimate portion of the date.
My ideal is to arrive at the incall and start with a little bit of fooling around and knock out a shot via some oral, few minutes for the lady to do any quick touch-ups and then head to the restaurant. Have dinner and then head back to the incall for more extended fun.
I would only ever book this kind of session with an SP I have an established relationship with so cost isn't something that would sway my decision making.

Overnights:
Preference would pretty much always be incall if it's available, but if it's outcall it would be at a hotel with separate rooms booked for each of us.
Duration for an overnight is probably going to be about 12 hours so get together around 7-8pm and then depart around 8am. This can range as again I would only book this kind of session with an SP I have an established relationship with and it's possible that that 12 hours could extend to maybe 14 if we go for brunch in the morning.
During that time frame I would think probably two sessions of fun in the evening and then a quick session in the morning.

 

[stressless123]

Dinner dates
What do you prefer? Dinner first or dinner last?
To me it doesn't make a big deal. If I were to pick tho then it would be dinner first but this isn't a deal breaker. Most dinner dates I have done are actually having dinner in middle of a longer meeting for example for extended 8hr meets, I like to have some social time first just chat and have drinks/snacks followed by some playtime and then go have dinner and come back to end the night with some more fun.

Would you book it more if the rate was cheaper?
I would definitely book it more if there is a clear distinction between social rate and regular rate but that's just how I feel about it. I only book dinner dates with few regulars and it has worked out well.

What is a good duration for a dinner date?
4hr packages seem more common where you have 2hr for dinner and 2hr fun time. But as I stated above if you have separate rates you get the flexibility to add more social or fun hours if needed.

Overnight
What is a good duration for an overnight?
I haven't indulged in an overnight before but I would say 14-16hrs and this is what I think would interest me personally- 1hr fun, 2hrs dinner, 2hrs fun, 7-8hrs sleep, 2hrs fun, maybe end with 1hr breakfast/brunch.

Would you prefer if it was incall or outcall?
Indifferent about this but if its in my home city then I prefer incalls that are apartments rather than hotels. If its an outcall, I am booking a hotel or airbnb regardless. If I am traveling then doesn't matter really.

 

[LC18]

My ideal is to arrive at the incall and start with a little bit of fooling around and knock out a shot via some oral, few minutes for the lady to do any quick touch-ups and then head to the restaurant. Have dinner and then head back to the incall for more extended fun.
I would only ever book this kind of session with an SP I have an established relationship with so cost isn't something that would sway my decision making.

I love this, I feel like starting at the incall or hotel makes it more authentic.

Overnight
Why two separate rooms?

 

[LC18]

What is a good duration for a dinner date?
4hr packages seem more common where you have 2hr for dinner and 2hr fun time. But as I stated above if you have separate rates you get the flexibility to add more social or fun hours if needed.

I used to do 5 hours but recently changed it to 4 hours. So you’re saying 4 is better?

 

[blakealridge]

I used to do 5 hours but recently changed it to 4 hours. So you’re saying 4 is better?

5 is always awkward in my experience. I usually split longer dates into 2 hour sections and then nothing feels rushed or drags.

 

[LC18]

5 is always awkward in my experience. I usually split longer dates into 2 hour sections and then nothing feels rushed or drags.

Thank you, I’m happy I asked

 

[204fun]

I love this, I feel like starting at the incall or hotel makes it more authentic.

Overnight
Why two separate rooms?

Each person having their own little home base can be a bit more comfortable and allow for some privacy for dealing with "personal matters" that might come up over a 12-14 hour period.

Also I'm not a cuddler and frankly sleep better alone so I don't mind the idea of us each having our own space to retire to when we get to the point where it's time to sleep. It can also be quite fun to have the lady slip into your room in the morning and wake you up with some special attention.

 

[stressless123]

I used to do 5 hours but recently changed it to 4 hours. So you’re saying 4 is better?

If you are offering it as a package, I feel like 4hr is good as time is split half between dinner and bedroom. Just easier and clearer expectations out of that.

5hrs might need better definition as in is the split (social/play) 2.5/2.5 or 3/2 or 2/3?

 

[Bizzaynass]

I've had several dinner dates with my regular, we almost always go out for dinner for a couple of hours first before going back to her place for fun. We don't really keep track of the hours but it's usually in the 4-5 hour range.

 

[Number17]

When I have a dinner date, it has always been intimate time both before and after dinner. It's more fun that way.
If I can't have both, I would prefer doing it before the dinner. Having a big belly after a big meal makes me feel less sexy

 

[LC18]

Having a big belly after a big meal makes me feel less sexy

That’s my thought, I always eat less than I would normally do because I don’t want to feel like a kinball

 

[LC18]

But tbh my best “dinner date” was sex in the car pre-dinner and a lot of under the table mutual pleasure at the restaurant.

That sounds like a fun dinner date