She’s an escort, she must not have a present father or father figure.
I know a lot of service providers that have amazing relationships with their fathers me included.
She was probably se*ually abused as a teen*ger.
Being a victim of S.A doesn’t mean you are going to become more sexually promiscuous or that you will turn to a career in the adult entertainment industry. However some of our peers have been victims of S.A and that is why you should never ask a provider you meet. If she wants to talk about it, she’ll do it.
They’re all on dr*gs, there’s no way they can do this job sober.
I’ve actually met more sober colleagues than in my “day job”. Being sober or limiting your substance/alcohol use while on the job is a good idea for many reasons.
I know they don’t actually find their clients attractive
We are not insensitive to good looks, charisma and a nice attitude. Some of my clients were very intimidating on our first meeting because of how good looking I thought they were.
She’s going to be single for as long as she does this job
Many sex workers are partnered up, engaged and even married. I will not lie, it makes dating a bit more complicated but not impossible. It might not be a situation you’d put yourself in but some men/women don’t see an issue with it.
She charges X/hour, that means she must make YY per year
This one is probably one of our favourite, we call it “client maths”. For some reasons, they always seem to assume that we are fully booked every day and don’t take days off.
She for sure doesn’t pay taxes
While a lot of providers don’t, we are required to do so and some of us have registered businesses or numbers to do so. Costly but at least we are not tax evading.
Pronouns “she” and “her” are used in this post to make reading easier.
I know a lot of service providers that have amazing relationships with their fathers me included.
She was probably se*ually abused as a teen*ger.
Being a victim of S.A doesn’t mean you are going to become more sexually promiscuous or that you will turn to a career in the adult entertainment industry. However some of our peers have been victims of S.A and that is why you should never ask a provider you meet. If she wants to talk about it, she’ll do it.
They’re all on dr*gs, there’s no way they can do this job sober.
I’ve actually met more sober colleagues than in my “day job”. Being sober or limiting your substance/alcohol use while on the job is a good idea for many reasons.
I know they don’t actually find their clients attractive
We are not insensitive to good looks, charisma and a nice attitude. Some of my clients were very intimidating on our first meeting because of how good looking I thought they were.
She’s going to be single for as long as she does this job
Many sex workers are partnered up, engaged and even married. I will not lie, it makes dating a bit more complicated but not impossible. It might not be a situation you’d put yourself in but some men/women don’t see an issue with it.
She charges X/hour, that means she must make YY per year
This one is probably one of our favourite, we call it “client maths”. For some reasons, they always seem to assume that we are fully booked every day and don’t take days off.
She for sure doesn’t pay taxes
While a lot of providers don’t, we are required to do so and some of us have registered businesses or numbers to do so. Costly but at least we are not tax evading.
Pronouns “she” and “her” are used in this post to make reading easier.
