For the ladies. The "s" word, your thoughts?

[memyselfandI]

Hello to the ladies, I would love to hear you opinions on something.

Came across a lady's ad who specified certain words she did not like, viewed them as degrading. The "w" word (which I don't like), the "c" word which I really don't like even to describe anatomy, and the "s" word "slut".

I confess over the last few years I've come to adore that word. It's fun to say during dirty talk. It took me a looooong time to get comfortable with it because I dislike how it's used as a pejorative out there by ignorant idiots. Honestly, sluts are my absolute favorite people, I adore sluts, and like I said it's a great word to use during pillow talk.

One of the first things I ask a lady during a session; I respectfully ask if I may refer to them as a slut. Most of them dont' mind, many of them even go along with it to my great pleasure.

Just wondering what you all think, how many of you hate it, how many of your embrace it, how many of you don't care.

Thanks in advance for any opinions you would care to share.

 

[Lady Vanessa]

For me, cursing becomes relative to the company and surrounding that I am in. My Miss Lady Vanessa role, is a Lady and unless she is comfortable with a regular, will emphasize some scenarios,
or situations with appropriate to the moment curse words. As am adult, I'm not offended by any. I may get on edge if it's directed maliciously.
Every day me.? Well, that Bish curses like expletives are punctuation and playfully directed endearingly to my close friends.

Funny tale from my past. I am a mother to 3 now adult children and I never swore, or spoke bad phrases to them, or in front of them. My then 14yr old daughter caught me as I was about to $@*#%, and
she said, Momma, it's okay to swear. We all hear worse and swear at school anyways. *smh*.....I still don't swear at them, but I do swear around them from time to time.

Anywho, you should choose your words wisely and asking for consent is always a good idea in this industry. I'm sure most FS sex workers wouldn't mind, but some may have PTSD, or past experiences which
could lead to a downhill and uncomfortable experience for both of you.

 

[wincity23]

 

[204fun]

I'd say you're already handling it in the best way possible by making sure to receive consent prior to the start of the session with your provider.

For those of us who love to be verbal in the bedroom and enjoy our partner being the same, there are different things that work for each of us and as long as that is covered ahead of time with the person we are with it should be all systems go.

 

[Bobert1969]

Still trying to figure out what the "W" word is.

 

[memyselfandI]

Still trying to figure out what the "W" word is.

"Whore" ugh, I don't like that word will not use it.

 

[PuntMeister]

I don’t think I have ever called an SP the S word, however, I have complimented their choice of attire periodically with S-derivatives. (No, that’s not a new type of investment option—lol). More like: “Mmmmm, that outfit looks so deliciosly slutty on you!”, or “Omg, luv your choices of sluttericious heels tonight babe”. I didn’t get bitch-slapped or dog-housed, so guess it was ok.

…On the flip side, Punt really likes it when a woman calls him a slut. There is a sexy truth to it so it’s a bit of a call out, but more so, the provocative dirty talk just gets my endorphones dirty dancing.

 

[memyselfandI]

...sluttericious...
endorphones dirty dancing.

You have a way with words lol!

 

[wincity23]

I absolutely love the C word lol. I use it as often as i can in company where it's safe to do so. Whore not so much, mostly in a joking matter during guy talk perhaps and not in relation to SP's. I have used slut or a derivative during bedroom talk in my civilian life-never with a SP. I haven't thought to use any of these words with SP's, though i'd say damn near anything they wanted if they asked.

 

[Chuckerbie]

I was told by a favourite provider once that only SWs can call each other a whore but I can call her a slut. As she also refers to herself as one.
Dirty talk is a turn on if the parties involved are into it.