I do not want to speak for all clients. It was my impression that independent providers wanted reliable clients. Meaning, repeat business is a good thing. But, rather than welcome you back with open arms, a provider can do things that discourage repeat business such as giving you times that are not good for your schedule, chronically upselling or striking an unfriendly tone that can spoil the moment. I do not know if they are aware they are doing this. I know this is work, but Is it unreasonable to expect a provider can approach every new meeting as if they were happy you returned?
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oh.... how to answer.
Lets start with - it is the SP choice.
And the SPs love the money, not you. You are getting only sex from them.
If you feel an SP is avoiding you, take a hint and move on....
This is an ongoing topic - you like the SP, she does not like you; but will take your money. Its kinda like the SP will have sex with you once, but not again....
Lets start with - it is the SP choice.
And the SPs love the money, not you. You are getting only sex from them.
If you feel an SP is avoiding you, take a hint and move on....
This is an ongoing topic - you like the SP, she does not like you; but will take your money. Its kinda like the SP will have sex with you once, but not again....
Probably a safe bet!
FIrst off, her schedule is her schedule. SOME may be willing to re-schedule the rest of their lives, but are you making it worth their while? Or only paying for 30 or 60min session? Were you pushing boundaries? Trying to infer/ask for 'deals'? Some introspection might be warranted.
If someone is looking forward to seeing you again (I mean, in ANY business, its definitely nicer to spend that work time with someone you enjoy being with, right?), it should be pretty obvious, tho some SW's will always be curt & business-like in their communications (again, they may have dozens or more to get thru). And of course, don't interpret enthusiastic responses for anything beyond that they're looking forward to working with you again.
Yes. It's a business transaction, you're not doing them any favours. For every one of you, there's tens of others willing to fill the void (pun intended)
If you don't like the level of excitement you're being reciprocated, then you too have the choice of spending your money elsewhere.
Seems fair to me.
Find someone new who appreciates your business ! Literally all of my regulars are always happy to see me and definitely show it . A couple are literally giddy when ever I show up .
Of course it’s always worth it to do some self reflection and make sure you are also a good client .
Either way though I’d move on , fresh start .
If the term plenty of fish in the seas ever had some truth to it , it definitely does w this hobby .
Of course it’s always worth it to do some self reflection and make sure you are also a good client .
Either way though I’d move on , fresh start .
If the term plenty of fish in the seas ever had some truth to it , it definitely does w this hobby .
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Thanks for your views. Still. . I choose not to look at it as a cold business transaction, like buying a car. I cannot enjoy the experience of buying a car.
Yes, I think you are correct. Maybe I should find a new friend. I will reflect on your comments and consider there is something I am not doing
Yes, I think you are correct. Maybe I should find a new friend. I will reflect on your comments and consider there is something I am not doing, or doing something wrong. At the beginning, it was great and wow. Perhaps that was unusual, and this experience is more of the norm. Thanks for your advice.
Some of us would rather find a provider or two and frequent them, rather than bouncing all over the place. Get to know them a bit. Enjoy their company. And have some fun. Maybe the question is "What does a client do when everything but the 'fun" comes to an end?
Not if it mean a renunciation cost for the lady. If you're booking an hour with her on rush hour (like right after work) and she knows she'll have to spend the full hour with you and by doing so she miss 2 or 3 quick appointment then seeing you is a terrible business decision.
As other have previously said, if you're seeking for something special and she doesn't seem on the same wavelength as you just move on, no big deal
Yup. I didn't know that an sp not liking you was a thing. Boy is it ever.
Put it this way: some girls you want to see again, some you don't. Same for SPs. (If they prefer longer or shorter sessions, they could easily say so on their ads or texts. Still don't expect anything besides the bare basics if you just go for BNG.)
And of course there're places like certain MPs where they don't care for return business and show it (or even say so.)
And of course there're places like certain MPs where they don't care for return business and show it (or even say so.)
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Are you serious with this comment? 😳
Edit to say - I mean, it's a sales job.....they probably like you as much as any Best Boy or Jugo Juice employee enjoys regulars lol
Not like you as in fucking hate you. In case you didn't get it. Which you obviously didn't.
Some checklists to being a good client
-Try and Book in the am of the same morning at least and not right before.
Book within her regular schedule don’t ask her to start early or stay late.
-Don’t cancel unless emergency
-Don’t be overly aggressive. Be respectful of her restrictions and boundaries
-Good hygiene. Brush your teeth . Shower same day . Cut fingernails. Trim pubes short. Shampoo hair . Shave your face.
-Don’t make her ask for the payment.
I’m sure others will have more to add.
Some relationships just run their course. Sometimes ends up being s blessing as the replacement life hand you is often better than the previous.
Of course if it keeps happening you know its time for a self check.
One hr is a reasonable booking. If not book longer or simply seek elsewhere.
If you want someone you vibe with more than is happening don’t force it.
Simply keep looking .
When the love is gone, move on .
I feel I click w all my regulars but there a couple I feel I vibe w just a little more. But I resist the temptation to see just them and see them often enough to keep the connection but not so much that the coolage effect sets in .
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Yes! That's it. Someone I vibe with. This is the key word. The list you outlined is very good. Thank you. Those are all the minimum for me. It's also important for both parties to be kind to one another.
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I heard there was an escort who had a loyalty card. Not going to lie, I found it brilliant.
Don’t know what you win once all the spaces are punched in
Don’t know what you win once all the spaces are punched in
Repeat clientele is surehandedly one of the highest compliments to my business. I care, respect and prioritize my regulars. I'm also upfront that my personal life is prioritized and
I cannot always accommodate your schedule, but do my best. Speaking of Loyalty Cards, I do provide this for my Nuru massage fans. If you get a star sticker to cover the word NURU,
you get 50% off your 5th visit!!
I cannot always accommodate your schedule, but do my best. Speaking of Loyalty Cards, I do provide this for my Nuru massage fans. If you get a star sticker to cover the word NURU,
you get 50% off your 5th visit!!
My new motto is
“Its not personal, it’s vibrational.”
if someone isn’t omitting the frequency you want to align with, don’t. There will always be many factors and circumstances going on with people we may not see or be aware of. If you care about the relationship with someone then communicate how you feel. Otherwise I wouldnt attach to much to it other than you just aren’t aligning with that person. Thats the beauty of life ✨❤
Whether its a person, place or thing when something isn’t aligning with you move on and find something that does. 🪄🪄
“Its not personal, it’s vibrational.”
if someone isn’t omitting the frequency you want to align with, don’t. There will always be many factors and circumstances going on with people we may not see or be aware of. If you care about the relationship with someone then communicate how you feel. Otherwise I wouldnt attach to much to it other than you just aren’t aligning with that person. Thats the beauty of life ✨❤
Whether its a person, place or thing when something isn’t aligning with you move on and find something that does. 🪄🪄
