First timer, what's the proper way to message for a session

[throwawayaccount1786]

I'm a little confused as to when to message. Tried messaging someone tonight for something tomorrow and they told me to just message them when I decide to be there. Should I be texting day of and just saying I want to show off? Doesn't seem to make sense. Should I be mentioning it's my first time doing this as well? Really want a fun time with an Asian gal to treat myself. Would gladly take suggestions for Tri-Cities or Surrey.

 

[Chacha]

I'm a little confused as to when to message. Tried messaging someone tonight for something tomorrow and they told me to just message them when I decide to be there. Should I be texting day of and just saying I want to show off? Doesn't seem to make sense. Should I be mentioning it's my first time doing this as well? Really want a fun time with an Asian gal to treat myself. Would gladly take suggestions for Tri-Cities or Surrey.

Totally depends on the lady. Many providers prefer advanced notice (at least a couple days ahead), some are first come, first served.
Also, depends on your availability. I have a limited time to see ladies, so I will message at least the day before to see what times they have available.