Turning Your Back on a Session

[JackRyder]

I have never walked out on a provider, I have had some not-so-great dates but nothing awful.
You can't complain about the ride if you have never ridden, so I take my chances, and I usually Win!

 

[white Ninja]

I’ve learned my lesson the hard way , last time I didn’t and still regret it . Most of the time though now , my rational mind does kick in because I remember the regret afterwards. It also helps if you have a list of women or agencies you’ve used before , that you can call , and they will recognize you and try and get you in , if plan B turns to shit .

 

[John Aston]

WHAT!?!?!
Then there’s a bunch of yelling.
Nobody needs that drama so I left, never saw her again. She was a beautiful and well loved lady but needed better friends.

I might have watched the cat fight and then encourage some make-up sex!

 

[jgg]

She did leave town early so I can only guess it was a Toronto problem.

🤣🤣🤣Was it garbage bag day and late for a tee time?

 

[gianni lotus]

I’ve learned my lesson the hard way , last time I didn’t and still regret it . Most of the time though now , my rational mind does kick in because I remember the regret afterwards. It also helps if you have a list of women or agencies you’ve used before , that you can call , and they will recognize you and try and get you in , if plan B turns to shit .

I've been pretty lucky so far but recently I learned the hard way.

The pics she used were her, but before a significant weight gain. Her face was really nice but her figure had become like a piece of popcorn. Lumpy and bulgy and round. I felt super uncomfortable walking because I felt like she would know it was because she had gained weight and that I found that unappealing. I usually don't have a problem saying no but this was different. I went along with it because I had prebooked, drove for an hour and had some fun banter texting with her and I was horny of course. But mostly I went along with it because I felt really bad for her and didn't want to hurt her feelings by walking.

It turned out to be a disaster. I could not get hard because I was just not attracted to her. This contributed to a negative feedback loop of pressure and trying and failure. She tried hard but it was a terrible time. I regret every moment.

I have now learned the hard way. Next time I will walk for sure. Trying to make the most of it was not worth it.

I know that it hurts to be rejected but if you deceive a customer then you are bringing that hurt upon yourself. If this provider were more honest with her pics she would attract customers that like BBW's and are not likely to walk when they see her.

 

[jorge050000]

I have never tried walking yet but I totally agree with AMG-GTR. I need to learn to walk to not reinforce the unfair price or the

I recently read a post by AMG-GTR https://perb.cc/xenforo/threads/abby-k604-dont-understand-the-price.337098/post-2448681, recalling a regretful session to a SP. We’ve all had a few. That’s why we frequently use Perb.cc.

I like the poster’s concept that failure to walk away reinforces unjust high prices. Unfortunately, for me, I feel committed (and a bit too horny) once I step through and the door closes behind me.

Amid all the fake photos and scammers, is walking away a reasonable reaction to a misrepresented SP?

If you’ve walked, have there been other repercussions from the agency or SP?

I also wonder, how long do walkers ruminate, before heading back to the elevator? I feel a little uncomfortable kicking the tires before buying in.

I totally agree! This will also in time not only correct the pricing but IMO the habit of misrepresentation. What I do is pay for the minimum time, normally for 30 mins. to get off and for the provider to make a living.
After reading the reasoning of AMG-GTR, I will now practice walking away.

TBH, there were many times when I wanted to walk away but was always afraid to be blacklisted.

 

[SeekSteadyRegSP]

I recently read a post by AMG-GTR https://perb.cc/xenforo/threads/abby-k604-dont-understand-the-price.337098/post-2448681, recalling a regretful session to a SP. We’ve all had a few. That’s why we frequently use Perb.cc.

I like the poster’s concept that failure to walk away reinforces unjust high prices. Unfortunately, for me, I feel committed (and a bit too horny) once I step through and the door closes behind me.

Amid all the fake photos and scammers, is walking away a reasonable reaction to a misrepresented SP?

If you’ve walked, have there been other repercussions from the agency or SP?

I also wonder, how long do walkers ruminate, before heading back to the elevator? I feel a little uncomfortable kicking the tires before buying in.

While I have never "walked away" in the sense that you mean it, I still feel that if there was any clear representation in terms of bait & switch or price changes, I would abruptly leave.

The more time you spend researching and arranging your time together on Perb and the like, the less realistic it becomes that you'd have any cause to walk away.

 

[luvsdaty]

 

[bxyxz]

..thats my secret. Im always horny.

😂😂😂

 

[bigballs55]

Early in my hobby life I got into a sketchy situation that turned ugly and I virtually had to run away. I Learned my lesson.

For me now I only visit well reviewed upper tier providers. Totally avoid anybody that exclusively only advertises on sites like LeoList, Ohmy, Escort Alligator, craigslist, or any number of sites that I deem as questionable. I also avoid ads that make reference to 15 min rates, car calls, available 24/7, party friendly and so on. These are all obvious red flags for me.

I can happily say I only get at worst an adequate experience, but never a walk away situation or a scam.

 

[AMG-GTR]

 

[angry anderson]

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[westwoody]

The belief that there will be a market "correction" is unrealistic

Guys have been predicting this since alt.sex bulletin board days. LOL 😂

 

[Noob888]

Guys have been predicting this since alt.sex bulletin board days. LOL 😂

And the housing bubble (correction) in Metro Vancouver. 😂

 

[SweetBree]

It’s a topic that’s of real interest to me.

No need to rehash the stolen pics problem. I’d guess that’s the major reason why many guys walk. I’ve done that twice.

I don’t Toftt often but do a lot of research before booking a new SP date especially from out of town.

I had a really bad attitude date that totally surprised me. She was a visiting SP whom I’ve never met and she had a somewhat limited but good rep back east. With not much online info available; I booked a two hour date. There was confirmation from another visiting SP I’d seen that advised she was good to go. I was excited to see her.

The late one was non communicative up until it was date time. At 10 min late point she texted saying she needed another half hour to which I replied nah doesn’t work for me. I said 40 min late can easily stretch to 60 or more min late and that won’t work for me. She relented and said ok come on up we can have a shower together and I agreed.

Once inside the door it got uncomfortable really quickly. She up front admitted it was a problem from back east and not me. I tried to say let’s get past all this stuff and continue our date??

Initially she said yes, let’s continue with our date and within 60 seconds she was full on rant again.

I didn’t say a word

I still had my coat on and waved bye bye with the envelope and put it back my coat and walked.

She did leave town early so I can only guess it was a Toronto problem.

That is a cute one BBB - imagining you waving the envelope and stepping slowly away.
I am curious to hear more stories of this. The thrill of the new is worth the... risk?
I wonder how many SPs have walked too.
I have not... finding the gents (and women) to always be impeccable - sometimes nervous but always sweet.

 

[rockinbods35]

I remember vividly one experience where I walked on a date.

This was many years ago, back when Craigslist was the go to. Yes, long ago. I booked with an agency I had used many times before. There was a Russian girl they had on their site that had a great ass, so I contacted the booking agent and made the appointment.

I had used them many times before, so was a regular. Anyways, i show up girl is as promised, hand over donation. Shower and after I get out of the shower and we are just getting started she starts make disparaging comments, lil offhand remarks and her vibe was off putting. Well I decided, nope. Got dressed. She called the booker who talked to me and asked what happened. I told her we weren’t clicking I wanted to leave, they gave me most of my money back.

Only time I ever walked out during a session because the SP had a terrible attitude. Shame i didnt pick up on that vibe before it started, but she did have a tight body and my dick was doing the thinking.

 

[sparks99]

I normally try and avoid confrontations. And because of that I have stayed in a couple situations where the door opened and my gut/heart/head I should walk anway and didn’t/couldn’t. I didn’t know how to get out as I feared causing a scene. And I’ll admit, one it works out and I had a positive experience.

That being said I have walked twice for misrepresentation. Both times were awkward as fuck. I felt bad for wasting her time and mine. But it was not what I was expecting/fantasying about and I felt it wasn’t going to be a positive experience, cause I had those previous situations where I stayed when my gut/head/heart told me to walk.

 

[John Aston]

It's why you don't book someone with no reviews or history. If you're going to go in and walk away, don't book with your regular number have a secondary Sim card or burner, or even an app. This way you can change your number. Also, have an escape plan and a back up plan. Most people don't pre-book cause who plans on being super horny on a specific day and time? So choose a central location where you may look up others sps if needed.

Theoretically, one of us has to TOFTT, in order for there to be at least one review. We all can’t sit and wait for the reviews to roll in.

 

[lukom]

Theoretically, one of us has to TOFTT, in order for there to be at least one review. We all can’t sit and wait for the reviews to roll in.

Yes that's a given, but that's also something new sex workers need to take into consideration. Be transparent on their services, and their restrictions, and do what they can to setup shop near somewhere accessible. Not the Holiday Inn in South Surrey for example lol