I feel like you really hit the nail on the head with this one. Even right down to the point about how some "high end" providers could just provide the illusion that they are high end to clientele but behind the scenes they're not. Although it border line felt like you described a sugar baby in essence lol. Personally I've always been skeptical about high end providers. In my head, what's stopping them from actually pushing 60 dicks a week and doing back to back bookings? Most of it we can only take their word for it, and personally I don't care for that, but I do care about my hard earned dollars. I will preface all of this by saying I haven't been with a true high-end SP before, by the Bobert definition, so I got no weight behind any of my words compared to someone like you. (You're a legend perb member mate)I've wrestled with what "high end" means to me and how to express it here. My instinctual reaction is based on the financial outlay but then I realize it has more to do with what should be the expectation in relation to such. "High end" is not only a more substantial monetary investment but it would be with a woman that is obviously meticulous about her self care, has her own standards for whom she'll see, and is low volume (as stated by others). I exclude any of our ladies at the familiar shops including Xiao, AF, Daynight, Yumiko,K604, etc. I've frequented all of the known names except AF for many many years and very frequently. In these shops, I've met some women that could be considered high end if they were not subjecting themselves to quantity over quality but they still are able to create the illusion that quantity is not a part of their day. Such ladies are Soda, Song, Black Rose and a few others of late, and in the past I would think Stella of K604, Magen of LFL and a few others could have been in the same category, more or less, had they opted to be independent and stick around for the long term.
So in summary, I consider high end to be:
1. Picky in their clientele,
2. Taking exceptional care of themselves. I'm talking about more than simply washing in all the nooks in crannies. There is a difference when you are with a woman whose lifestyle off the clock is dedicated to self care and improvement. I was with a woman yesterday that is a little above average shop pricing, sees only select clientele (she doesn't even advertise any more), and was so well manicured as a human that I could not stop marvelling at her perfection. She's dedicated to exercise, eating healthy and everything you'd expect in someone that has other priorities than making as much money as possible in as little time as possible before returning home elsewhere on the planet.
3. Relatively few dates in a week as opposed to ten or more in a day (give or take).
So in the end, price isn't really a factor but it is usually an indicator of such providers. The caveat is that we all know this isn't always the case, which is why reviews are so important by established members. I recall one "high end" provider that charges nearly 1000 bucks for an hour of her time, and what I see on her Insta shows me she's anything but high end. She smokes, has ink that isn't the most tasteful (personal opinion) and isn't exceptionally talented at applying makeup. In other words, her fee belies her presentation.
The three points I presented could be shared by any provider that is charging 200 an hour, not just 500 or more. It all comes down to attitude and presentation and none of the Asian dens provide this because, how could they when some are pushing sixty dicks a week or more on their ladies?
I've been wanting to bite the bullet on a high end provider one day though for the bucket list. I've had my eyes on the VME talent for a while but just never pulled the trigger since DT is a bit of a trek for me. Need to know what the mind-blowing experience is like for my self. Some of the bests I've been with are probably "average" to others, like Mia Malika (I miss her), Mercy, Bonita, and one from the bunz club that I can't remember now. Although to me they were all top fucking notch. Maybe I'm just ignorantly in bliss with a lower bar.








