Do SPs ever look forward to DATY from a client?
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Very true 😝 being a “ho” does have many advantages, I find I get the best of a man behind closed doors , in his secret world . I was disappointed in marriage, sexless , dating ,bad sex
As a Ho I can create the experience I want & it seems to make my clients very happy , sexuality is a huge part of many of us , and there’s no job I’d rather do ☺
A big percent of ladies do not enjoy their sessions on a inner pleasuring level as much as men want to believe. Imagine all the men they see who book 15-30 min sessions where they try to do it all in record time. Hard to be fully turned on when its a how much can I cram into the booked session, fill my spank bank and get my moneys worth situation. Same thing can happen with hr sessions also. It ends up being allot of poking, prodding with little room for her bodies hormone thermometer to rise higher in heat. I know every lady is different but having a man switch sex positions constantly with speedy gonzales dining at the Y followed by prodding digits or whayever is not going to have much of a inner turn on reaction from most ladies. Their reactions might give you the feeling that you are pleasing them but in reality it could be a different story. If you truly want the best chance at pleasing a lady that you have booked try to stay away from smothering her hormones with an overload of everything and more. Sometimes less is more. Slow down time and focus on certain areas, positions, situations without trying to do everything in record time. If you get that female hormone rising flow right you will be on your way to experiencing a deeper level of enjoyment between both parties. I believe 1hr or more bookings are the best starting point. It sure is hard to truly please a lady if you are rushing through everything.
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I totally get what Fiona is saying. This is a fantasy relationship. Unless you book a session and want to carve out time to be taught how to please that particular lady, an SP is generally going to make you think that you’re doing a good/great job. It makes the client feel good, which is what most clients want at the end of the day.
For me, I love spending some time daty every session (I never book less than 90 min so there is time for connection/chatting and whatever else I want to do). I’ve never heard any complaints about my oral skills, but honestly, I could be completely incompetent and I would probably never hear otherwise unless I was causing pain. I just do the best I can, but every girl is different in what they like, and my repertoire is limited 😂
I don't think it is one style fits all and one should expect to vary what each lady likes/dislikes.
I do ask the lady to let me know if they want harder/softer, slower/faster...etc. as I am down there. Feedback during she session helps.
The reverse is also true, if I am at a point where I need it slower, or ??, I will let my partner know.
One lady did have to use her vibrator as I Icouldn't give her what she wanted, but others seem to have been receptive. Also have one who now requests I go down.
I do ask the lady to let me know if they want harder/softer, slower/faster...etc. as I am down there. Feedback during she session helps.
The reverse is also true, if I am at a point where I need it slower, or ??, I will let my partner know.
One lady did have to use her vibrator as I Icouldn't give her what she wanted, but others seem to have been receptive. Also have one who now requests I go down.
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I love this thread. Not trying to brag. But one of my fave's has, on at least several occasions said ... Oh hell I just got to do this right now. sit on my face and grind till she bucks and cums. But, to be honest I find it sometimes difficult with many I see. Some say I never.... Others, even though I ask for feedback, they never give it.
I just did. Love a cumming pussy in my face or on my face. Squirters are fun too.
More than one SP has told me, "whoah, you've got some skills." Maybe it's just flattery, but pretending for a moment it's not, here are my tips:
1. You have to be 110% into it. It's has to be what you're dying to do.
2. Related to #1 above: don't keep it a secret that you're dying to do it and enjoying it intensely! Groan and moan and grind your pelvis into the bed while eating her out (but be careful when moaning/groaning to NOT blow any air into her vagina).
3. Still related to #1 above: be fully committed. if you've booked 60 minutes, then accept (and love) that DATY might be the only thing that happens for 60 minutes. Don't chase her orgasm with a singular focus - that's no fun. If you're starting to worry about how long it's taking, she will sense that, and then it becomes miserable for everyone.
4. You should love how she tastes - both on the outside and the inside. A lot of people are self-conscious about their private parts tasting/smelling bad - your body language and enthusiasm should make it clear that everything tastes and smells amazing.
5. Personally, I always massage her nipples during DATY. I start gentle and then experiment with getting massaging her nipples a little harder, always trying to carefully perceive if she likes that or doesn't.
6. Really try to keep your senses and perceptions open to what's working and what's not.
7. Sometimes I find it hard to believe that my partner's moans and writhing is authentic - but I would NEVER let her know that. Once or twice in my experience I am pretty sure the moans and writhing was fake at first. Only for the moaning to gradually change such that 15 minutes later it seemed authentic. If I said, "oh, you don't need to fake", or "are you faking?" that would have immediately been a huge mood killer for both of us. If a partner wants to fake, that is their own decision, and I respect their body autonomy to fake if they want to!
1. You have to be 110% into it. It's has to be what you're dying to do.
2. Related to #1 above: don't keep it a secret that you're dying to do it and enjoying it intensely! Groan and moan and grind your pelvis into the bed while eating her out (but be careful when moaning/groaning to NOT blow any air into her vagina).
3. Still related to #1 above: be fully committed. if you've booked 60 minutes, then accept (and love) that DATY might be the only thing that happens for 60 minutes. Don't chase her orgasm with a singular focus - that's no fun. If you're starting to worry about how long it's taking, she will sense that, and then it becomes miserable for everyone.
4. You should love how she tastes - both on the outside and the inside. A lot of people are self-conscious about their private parts tasting/smelling bad - your body language and enthusiasm should make it clear that everything tastes and smells amazing.
5. Personally, I always massage her nipples during DATY. I start gentle and then experiment with getting massaging her nipples a little harder, always trying to carefully perceive if she likes that or doesn't.
6. Really try to keep your senses and perceptions open to what's working and what's not.
7. Sometimes I find it hard to believe that my partner's moans and writhing is authentic - but I would NEVER let her know that. Once or twice in my experience I am pretty sure the moans and writhing was fake at first. Only for the moaning to gradually change such that 15 minutes later it seemed authentic. If I said, "oh, you don't need to fake", or "are you faking?" that would have immediately been a huge mood killer for both of us. If a partner wants to fake, that is their own decision, and I respect their body autonomy to fake if they want to!
A guy once recently explained how he ate pussy to me and his technique made total sense to me and in fact worked. Sometimes guys will be doing so many things at once, eating pussy is about doing the same thing consistently. Not switching moves quickly and just keeping the same consistent flow if it’s working. In my experience I personally find most guys are too rough, especially when looking for a pse experience or too excited and you just lose sensation.
Also facial hair plays a big factor, when a guy has facial hair and it’s longer/bead its alot softer and not rubbing you raw but essentially a face should never be that close. A tongue is necessary- A whole face buried in there is overwhelming.
Also facial hair plays a big factor, when a guy has facial hair and it’s longer/bead its alot softer and not rubbing you raw but essentially a face should never be that close. A tongue is necessary- A whole face buried in there is overwhelming.
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7 Erogenous zones ...... But as Monica used to say 7 7 7 7 7 7 7 7 .....7.......7
I'm still searching that 7th spot 🤨 but determined to find it one day ....
I'm still searching that 7th spot 🤨 but determined to find it one day ....
Most bizarre and amazing experience I had was with an ex ,she loved French kissing my ears!! So after I got use to it I made damn sure that I kept my ears immaculately clean. It felt amazing. I even broke down and reciprocated and it drove her wild
I'm just ugly.
There can't be any other explanation what keeps happening.
I book longer sessions (60-90 minutes) and just want a BJ.
What happens in those sessions is that almost every SP decides at some point to climb onto my face. The most interesting example was the SP who was doing a great job on giving me the time of my life when suddenly she stood up on the bed, walked over to stand above my head and squatted down on my face and went to town.
So assuming from this convo that most SPs don't like DATY, then the only explanation left is that they think I'm ugly and the only thing handy to cover up my face is their pussy.
Fair enough. I'm not there to participate in a beauty pageant. You want to give me your pussy to play with I'm down for it.
There can't be any other explanation what keeps happening.
I book longer sessions (60-90 minutes) and just want a BJ.
What happens in those sessions is that almost every SP decides at some point to climb onto my face. The most interesting example was the SP who was doing a great job on giving me the time of my life when suddenly she stood up on the bed, walked over to stand above my head and squatted down on my face and went to town.
So assuming from this convo that most SPs don't like DATY, then the only explanation left is that they think I'm ugly and the only thing handy to cover up my face is their pussy.
Fair enough. I'm not there to participate in a beauty pageant. You want to give me your pussy to play with I'm down for it.
yes there are in fact guys that are either indifferent to bjs or just plain don’t like ‘em.
On the other hand we are all different I know one SP who loves a good stubble massage which just show the importance of good communication beforehand.
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