Stop Being Rough to Pierced Nipples!

[kelcaine]

I made a post about this last year, about not biting pierced nipples, and how I had this happen twice to mine where they got infected, but because this keep happening and not just with biting, I thought I would make another post reminding people that pierced nipples do not mean one likes rough play on them.

I have been off work a week now, because I wasn’t feeling well, and even though I was sure it was my environmental allergies I wanted to err on the side of caution and stay home. But I also decided to stay home because one of my nipples is infected again.

This time it was not as much biting, but being rough to them by grabbing and twisting them by a client where I am sure the nipple tissue inside around the bar of my piercing got tears in it. Then after that I told each client to be gentle with my piercings, one client decided to suck really hard on them. I had to tell them to stop 3 times as it hurt me, and then the next day one of my nipples was infected. Bacteria from ones mouth can cause an infection on any open wound or sore.

Aside from pierced nipples, everyone should be getting consent to be rough during sex with someone. Any kind of rough play should be discussed beforehand and during sexual activity. Do not assume it’s okay to be rough with someone else’s body. Paid or not, get consent always!

So here I am reminding people to please be gentle with nipple piercings: biting, pulling, grabbing, twisting, sucking hard etc… should all be asked to do on another persons nipples… pierced or not, but especially pierced nipples…and GET CONSENT.

 

[carvesg]

I made a post about this last year, about not biting pierced nipples, and how I had this happen twice to mine where they got infected, but because this keep happening and not just with biting, I thought I would make another post reminding people that pierced nipples do not mean one likes rough play on them.

I have been off work a week now, because I wasn’t feeling well, and even though I was sure it was my environmental allergies I wanted to err on the side of caution and stay home. But I also decided to stay home because one of my nipples is infected again.

This time it was not as much biting, but being rough to them by grabbing and twisting them by a client where I am sure the nipple tissue inside around the bar of my piercing got tears in it. Then after that I told each client to be gentle with my piercings, one client decided to suck really hard on them. I had to tell them to stop 3 times as it hurt me, and then the next day one of my nipples was infected. Bacteria from ones mouth can cause an infection on any open wound or sore.

Aside from pierced nipples, everyone should be getting consent to be rough during sex with someone. Any kind of rough play should be discussed beforehand and during sexual activity. Do not assume it’s okay to be rough with someone else’s body. Paid or not, get consent always!

So here I am reminding people to please be gentle with nipple piercings: biting, pulling, grabbing, twisting, sucking hard etc… should all be asked to do on another persons nipples… pierced or not, but especially pierced nipples…and GET CONSENT.

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Again !!!? Those idiots will pass on a bad strain of Streptococcal bacterias that could give you huge problems ...not just a regular infection. You must know already or been told by the doc .

Someone who needs to be warned three times should be on your black list by now.

Hope you get better soon

 

[kelcaine]

Again !!!? Those idiots will pass on a bad strain of Streptococcal bacterias that could give you huge problems ...not just a regular infection. You must know already or been told by the doc .

Someone who needs to be warned three times should be on your black list by now.

Hope you get better soon

Yes, there are some bacteria that can do a lot of damage, so I don’t want that to happen. This infection has been quite stubborn and I have been treating it for 2 weeks now.

This is so super frustrating, especially when I tell people to be gentle with them and they go ahead and be rough. So I thought I would make a post to include all rough play towards pierced nipples should be asked to do, and for people to not assume piercings means someone likes pain there.

 

[Ame123]

Exactly why my wife got rid of her stupid nipple piercing

 

[kelcaine]

Exactly why my wife got rid of her stupid nipple piercing

I’m VERY close to doing it. I love how they look, and my jewelry is quite expensive in them, but I love love love my nipples being played with, but not as much since being a provider as I worry someone is going to be rough and hurt them. I don’t want to worry about that.

 

[rubylabellexo]

Soooo frustrating. Even with unpierced nipples, I hate how quickly some people jump straight to pinching/sucking on them super hard. For fuck's sake, it's basic common sense to slowly build up intensity and check in on what the other person likes. I'm sorry you're dealing with this.

 

[kelcaine]

Soooo frustrating. Even with unpierced nipples, I hate how quickly some people jump straight to pinching/sucking on them super hard. For fuck's sake, it's basic common sense to slowly build up intensity and check in on what the other person likes. I'm sorry you're dealing with this.

Yes, I fully agree with you. This can happen with people even with nipples that are not pierced. I’ve noticed since I got my nipples pierced in 2019 more people that I’ve been intimate with being very rough with them. And the thing is with my pierced nipples if someone is rough with them and they get a tear inside and then bacteria inside of them an infection can happen and I’ve had it happen now a few times and it’s really painful and uncomfortable

Overall when it comes to being sexually intimate with someone if you want to do anything that can be considered rough play any kind of way you should be asking for consent for that. Whether you’re paying or not, people need to be respectful of one another’s bodies.

 

[WandErection]

Nipples are to be treated gently. Pierced or otherwise. Be kind to the nipple. Cherish the nipple.

 

[luvsdaty]

I fondly remember one popular Victoria sp that really got off on having her nipples handled roughly. I won't mention names as she's been retired for a long time now. The first few times I saw her ,it felt really weird being that rough with them but she sure enjoyed it.

 

[WandErection]

I fondly remember one popular Victoria sp that really got off on having her nipples handled roughly. I won't mention names as she's been retired for a long time now. The first few times I saw her ,it felt really weird being that rough with them but she sure enjoyed it.

Fair enough.. But the ones who do will ask for it I assume most nipple owners will prefer TLC.

 

[kelcaine]

I fondly remember one popular Victoria sp that really got off on having her nipples handled roughly. I won't mention names as she's been retired for a long time now. The first few times I saw her ,it felt really weird being that rough with them but she sure enjoyed it.

Yes some people do enjoy rough nipple play, but usually people who like this will tell others they do. Most people should know better than to right away be rough with someone’s nipples, and understand different people like different things.

I have clients who love their nipples being pinched, twisted and bitten. Some really like it rough. But this should always be communicated, and never assumed okay. That is why any form of rough play should be communicated and done with consent.

 

[80watts]

I have always wondered what one of those electric shock devices would do to a pierced nipple.....the ones that you can adjust with a potentiometer.

Meanwhile in other parts of the world, the doomsday clock advanced another 5 seconds....

 

[carvesg]

I have always wondered what one of those electric shock devices would do to a pierced nipple.....the ones that you can adjust with a potentiometer.

Meanwhile in other parts of the world, the doomsday clock advanced another 5 seconds....

Could you clarify ?

 

[kelcaine]

I have always wondered what one of those electric shock devices would do to a pierced nipple.....the ones that you can adjust with a potentiometer.

Meanwhile in other parts of the world, the doomsday clock advanced another 5 seconds....

Oh no, this could be so dangerous to where someone could get some serious burns. I have experienced electric shock play in my personal life, the ones made for sex, and with metal this could be so dangerous, for anyone with metal piercings.

Metals conduct electricity because the electrons inside the metal are relatively free to move. So when electricity is passed through metals, electrons carry electricity and spread it all over the metal. The mobility of electrons is the reason why metals conduct electricity.

If a piece of metal is touched against an electrolytic material, the metal will spontaneously become charged. It could cause an electric burn. The devices for sex play are usually pretty low levels, and you can change the intensity, but putting them on a metal piercing should not be done.

I am no medical professional but logically this would not be a good idea.

 

[kelcaine]

Could you clarify ?

For the first part I think he means devices like this… not sure on the second paragraph, for a doomsday theory, possibly?

https://www.pinkcherry.ca/collectio...im/products/electroerotic-neon-wand-in-purple

 

[MRGREEN]

As far as nipple play pieced or not........good communication and letting my partner lead has always worked well for me. And each visit can be different so I don't assume what happened the last time is still kosher the next time.

Peace
MG

 

[Mr. J]

I've only seen one lady with nipple piercings and she was direct about when to slow down (before and during). In the long run, served to better the encounter for both of us.

 

[UhOh]

If I know beforehand I won’t book an SP with pierced nipples. I don’t care for the look, more of a turnoff than anything positive.

 

[luvsdaty]

On a different note, anyone seen the video of the puppy on its mama's nipple and just treating it like a chew toy 😅🤣😂

 

[kelcaine]

If you don't like your pierced nipples being bit or sucked on, twisted, pulled and grabbed, then why not just say so at the start of the session, would that work... meanwhile, in other parts of the world, the doomsday clock advanced another 5 seconds...

I should not have to tell people to be gentle with my nipples or any part of my body. It should be common sense and courtesy to not initiate rough sex play unless you ask if it’s okay. I have in my restrictions no pain play, as well. No client should physically hurt a provider during a session, unless it’s mutually agreed upon.