Looking for a chill gfe

[Bigfanclub]

Hello friends, I’ve been seeing a few providers here and there..
just finding myself a little tired of the regular routine‘s of a typical experience.
Curious If y’all could guide me to a provider with some girlfriend flare!

 

[neema.neema]

use a sugar baby site for this kind of stuff. or a dating app.
dont book with an escort and be surprised when the routine is that of an escort.

 

[rebelwithsomecause]

Hello friends, I’ve been seeing a few providers here and there..
just finding myself a little tired of the regular routine‘s of a typical experience.
Curious If y’all could guide me to a provider with some girlfriend flare!

I would like to approach this a little different - do you know what your main one or two love languages are? Based on that, it could help you figure out what you're really looking for. Your statement is broad and it's hard to tell what constitutes a solid girlfriend for you or what gf flair means. A solid partner looks so different for everyone and nobody is wrong in what they want.

If you like physical touch, I'd go with a lady who is known for good massage, who likes lots of touching and cuddling.
If you like words of affirmation, choose a lady known for her dirty talk skills and emotional intelligence.
If you like quality time, choose a lady who offers experiential packages, like a dinner date at a restaurant or a provider who offers extended visits like 6 hours to overnight. Also a lady known for eye contact during intercourse.
If you like acts of service, choose a lady who is known for consistent service and includes extras as one base package rate.
And of course if you like gifts, choose a lady known for going the extra mile (one provider Emily Woods comes to mind here, as I constantly see her baking goodies on Twitter for her regulars. Good regulars will get rewarded!) or a lady who likes to surprise you with fun outfits or enjoys dressing up for appointments (not all providers do)
If it helps, also ask yourself what do I feel like I'm really missing from my life and current connections that i would be wanting in a girlfriend experience?

 

[Bigfanclub]

I would like to approach this a little different - do you know what your main one or two love languages are? Based on that, it could help you figure out what you're really looking for. Your statement is broad and it's hard to tell what constitutes a solid girlfriend for you or what gf flair means. A solid partner looks so different for everyone and nobody is wrong in what they want.

If you like physical touch, I'd go with a lady who is known for good massage, who likes lots of touching and cuddling.
If you like words of affirmation, choose a lady known for her dirty talk skills and emotional intelligence.
If you like quality time, choose a lady who offers experiential packages, like a dinner date at a restaurant or a provider who offers extended visits like 6 hours to overnight. Also a lady known for eye contact during intercourse.
If you like acts of service, choose a lady who is known for consistent service and includes extras as one base package rate.
And of course if you like gifts, choose a lady known for going the extra mile (one provider Emily Woods comes to mind here, as I constantly see her baking goodies on Twitter for her regulars. Good regulars will get rewarded!) or a lady who likes to surprise you with fun outfits or enjoys dressing up for appointments (not all providers do)
If it helps, also ask yourself what do I feel like I'm really missing from my life and current connections that i would be wanting in a girlfriend experience?

Thanks! That really helps out a lot. I’ve never been good at actuallly trying to understand what I actually enjoy, its quite complicated when you start diving into it.

 

[Sophia Fae YVR]

Hello friends, I’ve been seeing a few providers here and there..
just finding myself a little tired of the regular routine‘s of a typical experience.
Curious If y’all could guide me to a provider with some girlfriend flare!

I’ve received feedback more than a few times that spending time with me is like hanging out with an old friend. But I’m curious, for you, have you found someone you enjoy and visited them more than once or twice? Building rapport with a provider you enjoy will go a very long way 💗

 

[rebelwithsomecause]

Thanks! That really helps out a lot. I’ve never been good at actuallly trying to understand what I actually enjoy, its quite complicated when you start diving into it.

Self awareness and critical self investigation are helpful processes/practices. It can be intimidating to start your healing process but it helps so much with figuring out what truly makes you feel happy and safe. I recommend the following online quizzes which have helped me become a lot more self aware and able to be a better man. Some ask you to answer the questions as relevant to if you are in a partnership currently- for those ones I either imagine what I would do in that situation or try to think of a past example it has previously happened. Trust me this will help a lot. At first info might feel overwhelming but slowly you'll start seeing how the information resonates in your life.

Love languages (describes how we best feel and give love, we generally have 2 more prominent ones out of 5 total options, and sometimes our giving languages are different than our receiving ones)
https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language

Attachment style (comes from how our formative years were spent with our attachment figure/s, and affects how we see our romantic partner's behaviour)
https://www.attachmentproject.com/attachment-style-quiz/

Relationship style/value groups (my result was Blue) (Google "relationship values" and images of lists will pop up with dozens of possible options of what could be a relationship value, essentially its a core value that needs to be present for you to feel fulfilled in a relationship).
https://bestmarriages.ca/blogs-resources/relationship-counselling-quiz/

 

[Anya Addams]

Self awareness and critical self investigation are helpful processes/practices. It can be intimidating to start your healing process but it helps so much with figuring out what truly makes you feel happy and safe. I recommend the following online quizzes which have helped me become a lot more self aware and able to be a better man. Some ask you to answer the questions as relevant to if you are in a partnership currently- for those ones I either imagine what I would do in that situation or try to think of a past example it has previously happened. Trust me this will help a lot. At first info might feel overwhelming but slowly you'll start seeing how the information resonates in your life.

Love languages (describes how we best feel and give love, we generally have 2 more prominent ones out of 5 total options, and sometimes our giving languages are different than our receiving ones)
https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language

Attachment style (comes from how our formative years were spent with our attachment figure/s, and affects how we see our romantic partner's behaviour)
https://www.attachmentproject.com/attachment-style-quiz/

Relationship style/value groups (my result was Blue) (Google "relationship values" and images of lists will pop up with dozens of possible options of what could be a relationship value, essentially its a core value that needs to be present for you to feel fulfilled in a relationship).
https://bestmarriages.ca/blogs-resources/relationship-counselling-quiz/

This is the most attractive thing I’ve ever seen posted on perb. Bravo rebel, bravo! 🙌🏻💕

 

[ExpCharlee]

Hey! I pride myself on my emotional intelligence and communication skills. I really enjoy being in someone’s world for a bit. I have dinner date and coffee date options for a more girlfriendy experience
www.experiencecharlee.com