Senior Question

[rampart]

Now that I well into my 60's I have noticed I do not enjoy intercourse that much anymore. I totally love bbbj, daty, rimming, mutual masturbation, 69 and prostate massage. It just seems over the past couple of years find intercourse no matter what the positions very boring. I can have a woman bounce on my cock for 30 minutes which is great for them but horribly unsatisfying for me other than being emotionally satisfied that my sex partner is satisfied. I am in great shape, exercise regularly and have a healthy lifestyle.

Wondering if any other seniors here have run into the same?

 

[Jethro Bodine]

What you are experiencing is normal and it has to do with one's natural drop in your libido as you age.
Men are visual creatures when it comes to sexual stimulation. That's why things like porn or seeing women in sexy lingerie are always so appealing.
As your libido declines, you need more sensory stimulation in order to achieve arousal. In the case of most men that means more visual stimulation. The activities that still provide you with that arousal, still provide satisfaction, while activities that are lower down the list when it comes to visual stimulation, are less satisfactory. What we all find visually stimulating varies dramatically between individuals and that's why what arouses one 65 year old man, may not arouse another. It is not surprising that you continue to enjoy sexual activities that include a certain amount of visual stimulation such as watching a beautiful woman suck your cock or mutual masturbation
A close second for many men is touch. That's why a lot of guys, as they get older are just as satisfied with a nice relaxing Rub n' Tug as they would be with a FS session. Some enjoy it more.

These are all natural changes. Rather than being concerned about them, recognize, which ii sounds like you have, the ways in which you now enjoy the company of a woman and forge ahead accordingly.
To be honest, most women have trouble having a truly great orgasm from just intercourse. Those I've been with would rather we engage is some well executed DATY, 69, mutual masturbation and kissing rather than me just pounding on her pussy for 20 to 30 minutes.
Cheers
J

 

[mrbubbasmith]

Now that I well into my 60's I have noticed I do not enjoy intercourse that much anymore. I totally love bbbj, daty, rimming, mutual masturbation, 69 and prostate massage. It just seems over the past couple of years find intercourse no matter what the positions very boring. I can have a woman bounce on my cock for 30 minutes which is great for them but horribly unsatisfying for me other than being emotionally satisfied that my sex partner is satisfied. I am in great shape, exercise regularly and have a healthy lifestyle.

Wondering if any other seniors here have run into the same?

I have found the same thing and I am also in my early 60's

 

[TerrR]

What you are experiencing is normal and it has to do with one's natural drop in your libido as you age.
Men are visual creatures when it comes to sexual stimulation. That's why things like porn or seeing women in sexy lingerie are always so appealing.
As your libido declines, you need more sensory stimulation in order to achieve arousal. In the case of most men that means more visual stimulation. The activities that still provide you with that arousal, still provide satisfaction, while activities that are lower down the list when it comes to visual stimulation, are less satisfactory. What we all find visually stimulating varies dramatically between individuals and that's why what arouses one 65 year old man, may not arouse another. It is not surprising that you continue to enjoy sexual activities that include a certain amount of visual stimulation such as watching a beautiful woman suck your cock or mutual masturbation
A close second for many men is touch. That's why a lot of guys, as they get older are just as satisfied with a nice relaxing Rub n' Tug as they would be with a FS session. Some enjoy it more.

These are all natural changes. Rather than being concerned about them, recognize, which ii sounds like you have, the ways in which you now enjoy the company of a woman and forge ahead accordingly.
To be honest, most women have trouble having a truly great orgasm from just intercourse. Those I've been with would rather we engage is some well executed DATY, 69, mutual masturbation and kissing rather than me just pounding on her pussy for 20 to 30 minutes.
Cheers
J

This is a good reminder. Thanks

 

[happymoments]

Could also just need a test boost...

more T cells equates to the need to release and having the energy / vibes for it... but who knows, maybe you're just wired differently and that's totally normal as well ..

 

[steverino]

I also prefer and get more from non-full-service activity.

 

[take8easy]

I thought I was the only one!

 

[ExpCharlee]

Oh this explains why I love sleeping with older men so much. So much sensuality and exploration. Less rabbit-like coitus.

 

[luvsdaty]

I'm only 57 but I find actual intercoarse boring now. I really enjoy daty,dato and exploring every inch of a woman's body ,if she's into it. I also have a few fetishes that really turn me on,but pounding on an ass or pussy for half an hour is pretty boring to me now.

 

[westwoody]

Older=more experience=greater sample size

I don’t want some bullshitter bimbo,I want someone who can talk and act like a grownup. Who won’t embarrass me at my fave hangout. A lowkey good time. Lots of fun things to do with a beautiful lady besides pump n dump.

 

[Oldfart]

Now that I well into my 60's I have noticed I do not enjoy intercourse that much anymore. I totally love bbbj, daty, rimming, mutual masturbation, 69 and prostate massage. It just seems over the past couple of years find intercourse no matter what the positions very boring. I can have a woman bounce on my cock for 30 minutes which is great for them but horribly unsatisfying for me other than being emotionally satisfied that my sex partner is satisfied. I am in great shape, exercise regularly and have a healthy lifestyle.

Wondering if any other seniors here have run into the same?

Another important factor for me is the condom. Wrapping my rascal instantly transforms him from Mister Happy to Mister Sleepy. Fortunately, I've located several very talented bishop-floggers with helping hands, etc.

 

[Uncled]

Another important factor for me is the condom. Wrapping my rascal instantly transforms him from Mister Happy to Mister Sleepy. Fortunately, I've located several very talented bishop-floggers with helping hands, etc.

Same here. I find that I lose a lot of sensation when fucking with a condom. I actually prefer a good bbbj or a skillful handjob.

Also, I hate to admit it, but I am getting lazy in my old age. I am happy to just lay back and let the woman do all the work.

 

[Wakeup]

If we could supply good condoms would help, was in Costa Rica and my date said “ you didn’t get those condoms here” made a difference for both of us i guess. Kimono for the most part.

 

[Dave in Phoenix]

At age 75 still enjoy women and fortunately, my interest has always been more sensual interactions beyond just raw sex including personalities and caring intimacy. Perhaps the only man in the world that has no interest in oral sex either way and just plain intercourse is boring. One of my favorite activities (mostly in Toronto) is nude-reverse massage since I enjoy exploring the body of a woman, not just in certain sexual areas.

 

[Noob888]

What you are experiencing is normal and it has to do with one's natural drop in your libido as you age.
Men are visual creatures when it comes to sexual stimulation. That's why things like porn or seeing women in sexy lingerie are always so appealing.
As your libido declines, you need more sensory stimulation in order to achieve arousal. In the case of most men that means more visual stimulation. The activities that still provide you with that arousal, still provide satisfaction, while activities that are lower down the list when it comes to visual stimulation, are less satisfactory. What we all find visually stimulating varies dramatically between individuals and that's why what arouses one 65 year old man, may not arouse another. It is not surprising that you continue to enjoy sexual activities that include a certain amount of visual stimulation such as watching a beautiful woman suck your cock or mutual masturbation
A close second for many men is touch. That's why a lot of guys, as they get older are just as satisfied with a nice relaxing Rub n' Tug as they would be with a FS session. Some enjoy it more.

These are all natural changes. Rather than being concerned about them, recognize, which ii sounds like you have, the ways in which you now enjoy the company of a woman and forge ahead accordingly.
To be honest, most women have trouble having a truly great orgasm from just intercourse. Those I've been with would rather we engage is some well executed DATY, 69, mutual masturbation and kissing rather than me just pounding on her pussy for 20 to 30 minutes.
Cheers
J

Hmm. I'm not a physician. Are any of you here doctors that are confident the OP's experiences a result of lower lido?

Well, my opinion is that his preferences have nothing to do with one's libido. It sounds to me his libido is just fine but what excites or stimulates him has changed. If that's the medical/clinical definition of low libido, then I learned something new today.

 

[luvsdaty]

Generally any mention of medical advice gets an all expense paid trip to perbatory and the thread being locked.

 

[carvesg]

SHHHH Guys ! There are kids around...Ooops " middle age guys " over hearing that stuff.... you wanna be scaring the bejesus out of us ?!?! 🤔😉😊

Funny how the human brain always find a way to satisfy its need and or self gratification.

 

[Hazel Mei]

If we could supply good condoms would help, was in Costa Rica and my date said “ you didn’t get those condoms here” made a difference for both of us i guess. Kimono for the most part.

Kimono condoms are the best!

 

[westwoody]

what excites or stimulates him has changed

The things that used to excite me have definitely changed. Not just in sex but every aspect of my life. Do anything enough and it becomes boring or routine.
I can get fucked anytime and the activity is so overdone it no longer excites me but a true courtesan stimulates on many other levels.

Two weeks ago I was on Hwy 1 on a long road trip and a really splendid lady called me out of the blue. We had a great chat for an hour and a half and I was on cloud nine for a few days. Still am.

 

[rampart]

What you are experiencing is normal and it has to do with one's natural drop in your libido as you age.
Men are visual creatures when it comes to sexual stimulation. That's why things like porn or seeing women in sexy lingerie are always so appealing.
As your libido declines, you need more sensory stimulation in order to achieve arousal. In the case of most men that means more visual stimulation. The activities that still provide you with that arousal, still provide satisfaction, while activities that are lower down the list when it comes to visual stimulation, are less satisfactory. What we all find visually stimulating varies dramatically between individuals and that's why what arouses one 65 year old man, may not arouse another. It is not surprising that you continue to enjoy sexual activities that include a certain amount of visual stimulation such as watching a beautiful woman suck your cock or mutual masturbation
A close second for many men is touch. That's why a lot of guys, as they get older are just as satisfied with a nice relaxing Rub n' Tug as they would be with a FS session. Some enjoy it more.

These are all natural changes. Rather than being concerned about them, recognize, which ii sounds like you have, the ways in which you now enjoy the company of a woman and forge ahead accordingly.
To be honest, most women have trouble having a truly great orgasm from just intercourse. Those I've been with would rather we engage is some well executed DATY, 69, mutual masturbation and kissing rather than me just pounding on her pussy for 20 to 30 minutes.
Cheers
J

Nothing wrong with the libido aka sex drive. Just find intercourse boring.