Seeing providers as an Asian male

[lemonteaaa]

Hi everyone,
This is actually my first ever post on perb as I’ve mainly used this site as a resource for reviews. I’ve seen a handful of Asian providers and I want to try a non-Asian provider. I noticed a lot of these girls on Tryst are gorgeous high end Caucasian ladies who have a certain criteria with their clientele. But in a way I’m intimidated by them because they are so gorgeous and feel like they wouldn’t like serving me.
I’m a 30 year old introverted Asian male, looks wise I’d say I’m average with a slight dad bod. I’ve never been with a non-Asian even as a girlfriend, just wanted to get your feedback to my fellow Asian pooners how your experience was seeing a non-Asian provider. Were they the same type of service as an independent Asian one for example? Or better?
Thank you!

 

[undecided]

As long as the cash you're giving is the same as to the Asians...they will not have a problem with you.

 

[happymoments]

Just be respectful, and you'll be fine, however In terms of services available, it maybe less due to restrictions depending on the previous asian providers you've seen. ie. if you're used to getting RIMMING or CIM or COF etc etc...

Nonetheless, they'll still be able ot service you well. In fact what you may lose in terms of physical service, you may gain via chemistry and communication / connection which makes the experience more intimate, a true GFE, not just go in to do the deed.

I'd take this opportunity to relive how you wanted to be the best version of yourself when you went out dating... and you'll have a fantastic time with them

 

[someasianguy]

I'm in the same category as you and I've seen multiple non-asian providers and never had an issue.

I'd even say I've had a better time with them then asian providers but it's a YMMV kind of thing

If you want recommendations, I'd suggest Betty Black or Charlee Beckett.

 

[vanperb]

Just wanted to say that you'll see that it's easier to build a connection with the providers when not in a "micro" or "massage" environment. The sex is less routine based. As always, don't build expectations based on what you see in porn, but still have a good time.

Utimately, it's still about the money, but be respectful and polite and you'll do better than 89% of the people that reach out to them regardless of age or race.

 

[happymoments]

LOL also, not to pop the dream bubble, if they look like this, or you catch feelings, just remember that's their role in the time you paid for... They're great magician's after all

 

[Rollingstar]

Have you thought that they would want to see Asian clients? Just like everywhere in the world where girls want Asian guys to step up…

 

[ExpCharlee]

A huge percentage of my clients fit your description. I used to think I wasn’t attracted to Asian men (whoops, racist) until I watched this video and deprogrammed myself by watching a bunch of asian films in my 20s:

come see me! we’ll have a great time

 

[KeepingItReal]

LOL also, not to pop the dream bubble, if they look like this, or you catch feelings, just remember that's their role in the time you paid for... They're great magician's after all

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I wish I could meet a girl that looks like this!

 

[burnabyguy5]

I think your overthinking this. Service providers, sex workers, massage providers, prostitutes or what ever you want to label these women are looking for a pay day. They do this job for money. If the client is pleasant, clean, polite and on time with no drama and better yet becomes a regular paying customer then this is what they want. They are not looking for a relationship, the "big O" or any other fantasy that many of the guys on here speak of. They just want to do thier job, get on with life and figure out the next day, month or year like the rest of us.

 

[dchoye]

If you are prompt, polite , hygiene, and older dude with generous funds and not a big dick (figuratively and literally) I don’t think it matters what ethnicity you are to SPs.
My experience is that some white SPs are a bit envious that Asian clients prefer to take their business to Asian SPs and not to them

 

[NicoleMarlee]

My clientele is 90% Asian and East Indian…by choice. I espeically love Desi clients. I hope all would feel welcome to see me

 

[kelcaine]

Hi everyone,
This is actually my first ever post on perb as I’ve mainly used this site as a resource for reviews. I’ve seen a handful of Asian providers and I want to try a non-Asian provider. I noticed a lot of these girls on Tryst are gorgeous high end Caucasian ladies who have a certain criteria with their clientele. But in a way I’m intimidated by them because they are so gorgeous and feel like they wouldn’t like serving me.
I’m a 30 year old introverted Asian male, looks wise I’d say I’m average with a slight dad bod. I’ve never been with a non-Asian even as a girlfriend, just wanted to get your feedback to my fellow Asian pooners how your experience was seeing a non-Asian provider. Were they the same type of service as an independent Asian one for example? Or better?
Thank you!

As a provider, I would say a large majority of my clients are of Asian ethnicity (India, China, Japan, Korea etc). Also in my personal life I have dated Asian men and women. I have dated people of Asian background since my teen years, so it’s never ever been an issue for me. I find many Asian men very attractive! I’m sure there’s many other providers that are also Caucasian who feel the same way.

Most of us providers mainly care about how we are treated by our clients, where we are treated respectfully, and for clients to have good hygiene. I’m sure you will be able to find someone you find attractive and maybe vibe with too where you can have a really amazing session. Wishing you the best of luck in finding that lucky lady!

Also welcome to PERB!

 

[Mishababy]

Most of my clients are Asian!

 

[Lady Companion]

When you see independent ladies, you have the benefit of communicating directly with them and ensuring that there is chemistry, or at least that you are capable of having a conversation and looking forward to some mutual fun.

it’s impossible to generalize what an experience would be like because there are too many variables.

However, I would encourage you to reach out to a few ladies to pique your interest, and see if you feel more comfortable.

This is supposed to be a fun and exciting activity that alleviate stress. So initiate communication and see who you feel is going to be a good match for you.

 

[Mr.Plum]

Hello beautiful people!
First time posting here on Perb. Been lurking on and off for about a year trying to learn as much as I can and navigate this world of companionship. I'm similar to lemonteaaa, but a little over a decade older. Hoping to have my first experience soon.
I hope this isn't hijacking a thread in any way. I'm 5'7" and while there are many gorgeous providers shorter than that, there are also many that have caught my eye that are 5'8" - 5'10". Is height an issue at all?

 

[golferjohn]

Is height an issue at all?

I think you just made it one

 

[Mr.Plum]

I think you just made it one

Touché!

 

[burnabyguy5]

Napoleon was 5'5", I don't think he was worried about tall women.
I'm 5'8" when a woman is on her knees sucking your cock, she isn't all that tall.

 

[ExpCharlee]

Hello beautiful people!
First time posting here on Perb. Been lurking on and off for about a year trying to learn as much as I can and navigate this world of companionship. I'm similar to lemonteaaa, but a little over a decade older. Hoping to have my first experience soon.
I hope this isn't hijacking a thread in any way. I'm 5'7" and while there are many gorgeous providers shorter than that, there are also many that have caught my eye that are 5'8" - 5'10". Is height an issue at all?

I’m almost 5’11” and it’s pretty rare a client is taller than me tbh. I’ve also dated several men in my personal life who are shorter. I LOVE my short kings!