S/O going through phone

[Sheen]

Just speaking with my friend who had been arguing with his significant other all weekend after he wouldn't let her go through his phone. Anyway he relented and let her go through his phone and then she got more upset regarding meme, jokes, and conversations that had nothing to do with her.

Talk about a headache.

Has anyone let their S/O (when or if in a relationship) go through

 

[apl16]

Just speaking with my friend who had been arguing with his significant other all weekend after he wouldn't let her go through his phone. Anyway he relented and let her go through his phone and then she got more upset regarding meme, jokes, and conversations that had nothing to do with her.

Talk about a headache.

Has anyone let their S/O (when or if in a relationship) go through

Absolutely not!

I have a good friend with a wife that insists on access to his phone and it's a real in the ass!

 

[happymoments]

My ex's did... they never found anything... because I was into a boring regime of life back then...

saw a tweet today and thought it was pretty funny / dark... i'm sure many of the guys here know the feeling

https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1583865966093475841

Anyhow, Get a 2nd phone phone / sim. It's not difficult to get prepaid setup on any carrier. Not only that, but in case you lose your phone, yo can track it down using your spare LOL

 

[luvsdaty]

How hard is it to clean out your phone on occasion?

 

[masterpoonhunter]

How hard is it to clean out your phone on occasion?

No shit
I keep my pooning contact list in a plain sight file in Notes, just that it has business stuff then a lot of empty lines then contacts. zero chance anyone finding that.
Spicy texts are deleted regularly as are emails, phone records, takes seconds.
Hell and I'm not even in a relationship!
If some gal pal wants to see my phone, have at it. What she'll find is so boring she'll never want to do that again.

 

[zippy45]

Just curious, but tit for tat? if she wants to look through your phone say sure, now lets see yours

 

[westwoody]

If your s/o HAS to go through your phone it’s time to GTFO! This is about control and manipulation, it’s nothing to do with pooning.

Next she will be controlling who you can be friends with, where you can go, it’s a slippery slope you’re on.

 

[luvsdaty]

If your s/o HAS to go through your phone it’s time to GTFO! This is about control and manipulation, it’s nothing to do with pooning.

Next she will be controlling who you can be friends with, where you can go, it’s a slippery slope you’re on.

Yeah if there's no trust,then I'd rather be single.

 

[Sheen]

Yeah he doesn't even poon or cheat. Just didnt want the convos with his friends read.

 

[To-lick]

IMO that’s either major insecurity/trauma issues from a previous relationship or she’s controlling.

not something I’d put up with ever. Hope your friend figures it all out.

 

[vanperb]

Thieves always buy safes.
Thugs always look over their shoulders.
Cheaters always accuse their SO of cheating.

It's projection. It's always projection.
I'd tell your friend to think about lawyering up.

 

[ExpCharlee]

I’d break up with someone if they asked me to do this. Privacy, respect, and trust are all important parts of a relationship to me.

 

[RalphiEboy]

Just speaking with my friend who had been arguing with his significant other all weekend after he wouldn't let her go through his phone. Anyway he relented and let her go through his phone and then she got more upset regarding meme, jokes, and conversations that had nothing to do with her.

Talk about a headache.

Has anyone let their S/O (when or if in a relationship) go through

NEVER

 

[ExpCharlee]

Tbh why stay w your partner if you don’t like them 😂 like if you don’t trust them, and then don’t like their sense of humour or the way they talk w their friends and stuff why are you even dating them? She should leave.

like even if I was on her side, worst case this dude was acting suspicious and she wanted to see his phone and she found a bunch of misogynistic memes and jokes or something and he’s an asshole. Just leave babe!

 

[manni]

Turn her into a UO Unsignificant Other 😂

 

[steverino]

I told my S/O at the time she would need to access perb to understand the abbreviations.

 

[upadpad2]

We all need our space

 

[akio]

Just speaking with my friend who had been arguing with his significant other all weekend after he wouldn't let her go through his phone. Anyway he relented and let her go through his phone and then she got more upset regarding meme, jokes, and conversations that had nothing to do with her.

Talk about a headache.

Has anyone let their S/O (when or if in a relationship) go through

LOL this is actually a funny one for me. My recent ex went through my phone without me knowing and saw past conversations with SPs. I've never seen an SP while in a relationship or even dating, but it was funny because it obviously bothered her but she wouldn't say because it meant admitting that she watched my unlock code and used it while I was sleeping. Then it came out during the breakup... but that happened for a lot of other reasons. As it turns out, she had BPD and was cheating on me the entire time. Thankfully we weren't together long.

 

[vanperb]

LOL this is actually a funny one for me. My recent ex went through my phone without me knowing and saw past conversations with SPs. I've never seen an SP while in a relationship or even dating, but it was funny because it obviously bothered her but she wouldn't say because it meant admitting that she watched my unlock code and used it while I was sleeping. Then it came out during the breakup... but that happened for a lot of other reasons. As it turns out, she had BPD and was cheating on me the entire time. Thankfully we weren't together long.

Projection. It's always projection.

 

[Boyscout00]

Just speaking with my friend who had been arguing with his significant other all weekend after he wouldn't let her go through his phone. Anyway he relented and let her go through his phone and then she got more upset regarding meme, jokes, and conversations that had nothing to do with her.

Talk about a headache.

Has anyone let their S/O (when or if in a relationship) go through

If I don’t trust someone so much that I want to go through their phone, I break up with them. My S/O knows I see providers. We don’t hide things.