Getting ignored?

[Yes890001]

I'm from Toronto and I moved to Vancouver recently.

I've tried reaching out a few weeks back to book a couple of high-end SP's like Sasha Richards, Maye Kimura, Carmen Rae, and Celina Rai and I've gotten no answer after 2 weeks.

I think Maye might be on a holiday, but not sure if it's something I'm doing wrong? I've had no trouble booking in Toronto, I always follow instructions, I'm polite, never include explicit information, not getting back from SP's is something I'm not used to.

My emails, if there are no screening forms on their websites, are pretty straightforward: name and age (in my mid 30s), ethnicity, short intro, and time and date that I'd like to meet and any screening info they requested.

Been a few weeks and no answers from any of the ladies! I'm a bit lost

 

[justwannahavefun]

Anytime I have had this happen, I will usually send a follow up email. If I still get no response, I will try a different form of communicating with them letting them know I sent an email that may have gone to a spam folder. If they still don't respond, I won't bother them again.
They are usually grateful that I tried a different way as they didn't get the initial contact. The key is always give them the information they are asking for, acknowledge that you read their information and be polite.
Having said all that, there has still been a couple who never got back to me and I moved on.

 

[ddude1]

I would also add that having lived in both Vancouver and Toronto there are different “social norms” around sex work. Despite Vancouver being laid back or whatever, in my experience the industry here is much more underground and much less transparent, especially in Vancouver. I would also add that my experiences in Toronto have been more professional. I can’t quite put my finger on it, but despite the fact that I am also polite, gentle and objectively successful - and of course paying good money for services, it has often felt like I should be so “lucky” to have been “chosen”. IMO that already creates a weird dynamic. I’m probably going to get some backlash for this, but I never felt this way in Toronto. That said, Vancouver is one hell of a beautiful place. Welcome!

 

[AssAvenger]

My emails, if there are no screening forms on their websites, are pretty straightforward: name and age (in my mid 30s), ethnicity, short intro, and time and date that I'd like to meet and any screening info they requested.

What ethnicity are you (if you don't mind me asking)?

 

[milemiles]

Also just as a random data point I’m finding everyone is bad at email right now. And as my female friends keep reminding me, women need some extra care right now.

So yes gently follow up as suggested above. It’s probably not you.

Welcome to Van.

 

[Yes890001]

What ethnicity are you (if you don't mind me asking)?

East Asian

 

[pleasureprinciple]

Also just as a random data point I’m finding everyone is bad at email right now. And as my female friends keep reminding me, women need some extra care right now.

So yes gently follow up as suggested above. It’s probably not you.

Welcome to Van.

being without close female friends, would you be able to clarify the " extra care right now" part?
Thanks

 

[Yes890001]

being without close female friends, would you be able to clarify the " extra care right now" part?
Thanks

Probably the Roe v. Wade verdict + social medias going after SP's these days?

 

[SolidSnake]

Count yourself lucky. At least you didn't get cancelled on, ghosted, or receiving low-to-zero service for your time and hard-earned money.
https://perb.cc/xenforo/threads/roxy-at-rizas-0262-dont-do-it-👿.322433/

 

[ModSquad]

Did you offer any references you might have from Toronto SP? I’m pretty sure at least two of those ladies have toured back east. You might be lucky if someone can vouch for you. Or offer a P11 number.

 

[87112]

Start with Luxxe and Coco, these 2 will sure be fair and work with you to get started. They are not newbie snobs.

 

[PedroParamo]

If I remember correctly at least Carmen, Celina and Maye have been on vacation around that time. I guess just bad timing.

 

[Asian Fever]

You're welcome here..

https://asianfever.ch

Happy to give references.

 

[jamasianman]

You should try the 2274 group. Lots of reliable hot white women. You can then use them as a reference to see more.

 

[phukedup1]

If you're reaching out to independent girls, they tend to get swamped with messages (with a lot of junk messages too) so once their dance cards are full, they'll stop checking their messages. Reaching out to one of the reputable agencies should guarantee you a response at least since they'll have someone dedicated to checking and responding to messages.

 

[ExpCharlee]

I would also add that having lived in both Vancouver and Toronto there are different “social norms” around sex work. Despite Vancouver being laid back or whatever, in my experience the industry here is much more underground and much less transparent, especially in Vancouver. I would also add that my experiences in Toronto have been more professional. I can’t quite out my finger on it, but despite the fact that I am also polite, gentle and objectively successful - and of course paying good money for services, it has often felt like I should be so “lucky” to have been “chosen”. IMO that already creates a weird dynamic. I’m probably going to get some backlash for this, but I never felt this way in Toronto. That said, Vancouver is one hell of a beautiful place. Welcome!

TO is oversaturated with providers so it’s a buyer’s market. Vancouver is oversaturated with clients so it’s a seller’s market. That’s been my experience anyways 🤷🏼‍♀️

 

[ddude1]

TO is oversaturated with providers so it’s a buyer’s market. Vancouver is oversaturated with clients so it’s a seller’s market. That’s been my experience anyways 🤷🏼‍♀️

Can’t say I disagree with this Charlee

 

[MixedDude]

TO is oversaturated with providers so it’s a buyer’s market. Vancouver is oversaturated with clients so it’s a seller’s market. That’s been my experience anyways 🤷🏼‍♀️

Never been out that way (Toronto) but I can concur on the Vancouver analysis.

 

[RalphiEboy]

Bienvenue a Vancouver 🍁