What do you do when spending more than 1+ hour with an SP?

[Moonlightsonata]

I’m planning to see an SP that I really connect with, been great experiences every time. I asked her for multi hours (been a while since I’ve seen any SP since Covid).
She offered me a 2+ hour for a great rate, I trying to think of what to do during this time in between MSOG.
This is an morning/early afternoon, I was thinking maybe light drinks, some food, maybe watch some tv shows? Suggestions?

 

[CapnMaynards]

I always book 90 minute dates.

I like to spend a lot of time cuddling and talking, before and after.

 

[Relax10]

Bust a nut then bust out the dominoes.

 

[kelcaine]

I’m planning to see an SP that I really connect with, been great experiences every time. I asked her for multi hours (been a while since I’ve seen any SP since Covid).
She offered me a 2+ hour for a great rate, I trying to think of what to do during this time in between MSOG.
This is an morning/early afternoon, I was thinking maybe light drinks, some food, maybe watch some tv shows? Suggestions?

I had a client do a movie date with me, where they booked a couple of hours. We chose the movie together, and it was really a lot of fun. We watched the movie (sort of) and played around with each other, talked and had lots of laughs. It really was one of the most fun and unique experiences as an escort with a client… and I would totally be down to do it again if someone else wanted a movie date.

If you think you may want to try this, maybe see what your SP’s movie interests are, or just in general what they may like, and suggest a movie date. Bring some popcorn and maybe beverages, and have some fun! You may not see much of the movie… but it can be a really fun time… and a memorable experience for your SP.

 

[Relax10]

On a serious note, depending on your chemistry with the provider hanging out can be fun. I've booked providers from 30 mins to a week. But mostly 1-3 hours. Of course it's not sex every second. I do enjoy getting to know and having a connection with the provider. Many ladies who do this I've talked with can hold a conversation and have interesting hobbies. I've learned about some fun things from them. If your with an Indy chances are you'll be at a place where you can hang in the living room and watch tv with them. You can also take turns giving each other massages and washing each other. This is also a great time to find out if they have duo partners they may not advertise or if their down to have your whole work group unload all at once on her face.

One time a provider pulled out some Magic the Gathering cards and we played that for a bit. Another asked me to help her rearrange her condo. Once I also got to go on their buildings roof deck and we tanned on the chairs. Some value longer dates and some value the blow you load and go. Both have been fun and have their merits. Maybe message her and see what her boundaries are and options are so you bith can prepare in advance. One of these days I'll have to do a write up about #FMTY ins and outs. Be cognizent of their time. If you really get into a show or movie but run out of time, it happens and it's ok to not finish.

Have fun and enjoy the non sex moments.

 

[masterblaster]

Change the oil in her car.

 

[sensualsixty]

My dates have usually been just one hour, but I have been fortunate in that many have gone in to a spontaneous overtime - not necessarily sexual, except for cuddling sometimes - usually coffee or tea. Of course, this has been with independents. It has been a great opportunity to get to know some very nice people. Chatting with someone, and getting to know them better, can be a very pleasant way to pass time, whether on the clock or off. Even if on the clock, chatting helps you to get to know the real person - a bonus, I think.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Good thread here and from what I have read, really good comments/advice, all of which I agree.

To the OP, if you and this lovely woman are comfortable together, go for what I have learned may be the ultimate date.
Have great sex. I mean knee bending, toes curling, la petite monde sex then post coital cuddle. Pillow talk. Open up. Take off the armour and allow the scary V word to creep in. Vulnerability.
When you leave and both of you may not want to part, you will feel great and more than likely so will she.
Thing is this kind of thing can lead to another scary word, the R word as in relationship.

 

[justwannahavefun]

My favorite all time lady usually did 5,6 or even 7 hour get togethers. We didn't start there but worked our way to it and those were without a doubt the best times I have ever had. It was just like hanging out with a gf. We would watch movies, play cards, chat, order and eat food or whatever else we felt like. Not once did I leave her place thinking I had spent too much time there. I miss spending time with her a lot and truly wish she was still around.
I would recommend starting with a shorter time that you feel comfortable with and working your up.

 

[Harsh]

With my aATF I always book 90 mts or more. Coffee with baking that what she love. We would start with talking about thing happened since last visit and family. Slowly kissing necking end up in bedroom. FinishEating and second round end with shower and good bye kiss.
i remember every visit they so enjoyable!

 

[luvsdaty]

 

[Pgup]

I had a client do a movie date with me, where they booked a couple of hours. We chose the movie together, and it was really a lot of fun. We watched the movie (sort of) and played around with each other, talked and had lots of laughs. It really was one of the most fun and unique experiences as an escort with a client… and I would totally be down to do it again if someone else wanted a movie date.

If you think you may want to try this, maybe see what your SP’s movie interests are, or just in general what they may like, and suggest a movie date. Bring some popcorn and maybe beverages, and have some fun! You may not see much of the movie… but it can be a really fun time… and a memorable experience for your SP.

Sorry, curious. So, is sex or a part of it possible during the theatre experience, eapecially when it is discrete in an almost empty theatre? Any risk?

Asking for a friend!

 

[ExpCharlee]

talk, cuddle, make out, have a snack, go out for dinner… like whatever you’d do with a girlfriend.

 

[CapnMaynards]

I had a client do a movie date with me, where they booked a couple of hours. We chose the movie together, and it was really a lot of fun. We watched the movie (sort of) and played around with each other, talked and had lots of laughs. It really was one of the most fun and unique experiences as an escort with a client… and I would totally be down to do it again if someone else wanted a movie date.

If you think you may want to try this, maybe see what your SP’s movie interests are, or just in general what they may like, and suggest a movie date. Bring some popcorn and maybe beverages, and have some fun! You may not see much of the movie… but it can be a really fun time… and a memorable experience for your SP.

This sounds amazing.

 

[nscamper]

I really prefer 90min or 2hr since I can't stand being rushed. In reality I could get everything done in 30 - 45 minutes and that would be fine if all I wanted was a release, but I really enjoy chatting and making that connection.

The other thing I like about longer appointments is you don't have to worry about getting right down to it. Take this multi-hour opportunity to bring a beverage (check to see if/what she drinks) before hand and have a great conversation.

Personally, I loooove the whole making out part of the visit, so this gives you a good opportunity to extend that part prior to getting down to business and in between msog.

 

[GeeBeeP]

I really prefer 90min or 2hr since I can't stand being rushed. In reality I could get everything done in 30 - 45 minutes and that would be fine if all I wanted was a release, but I really enjoy chatting and making that connection.

The other thing I like about longer appointments is you don't have to worry about getting right down to it. Take this multi-hour opportunity to bring a beverage (check to see if/what she drinks) before hand and have a great conversation.

Personally, I loooove the whole making out part of the visit, so this gives you a good opportunity to extend that part prior to getting down to business and in between msog.

Totally agree. The OP says that you seems to connect with the SP, then enjoy the opportunity to take your time with the making out and all the fun that can happen before you make it to the bedroom. Not feeling rushed is the greatest luxury of an extended session. Pillow talk between rounds is a great time to relax, and she'll have you ready for subsequent rounds. You can also take the opportunity for some experimentation, make use of other furniture and whatever mirrors are in the place. She may have some ideas you've never thought of, or never had the time to explore.
Have fun!!

 

[JacquesM]

Get down on one knee and propose. I even do that with bng.

 

[cruefan]

Depends on the provider and quality of the connection /chemistry.

Lots of conversation , lots of foreplay and great sex.

 

[Mr. J]

Simple enough to answer. Most of the ladies I see know me well enough (and I, them), so we can talk and talk about just about anything (before and after round one). In rare cases, a little wine to go with the conversation. Then there's the seductive leadup (foreplay) for round two. In short, never a dull moment.

 

[Bridge]

Take everything at a nice slow, sensuous pace and shower together.