WTF?

[Cock Throppled]

Despite Covid, insane gas prices, and ever-increasing prices for everything from food to rents, business must be very good for the ladies, because I have never encountered so many SP's that don't bother to respond to respectful, polite texts. Not even requesting information, but just an introduction will often be ignored. My business education always stressed being polite, and acknowledging a potential client because you never know how valuable that contact might turn out to be.

Maybe business sense isn't a priority for some providers. Is this a growing thing, or am I just having a string of bad luck picking slackers?

 

[WandErection]

This is a recession-proof business. Penises beat brains every single time.

 

[Kikoolol]

You're there "introducing yourself" while the folks that get an answer and get too see her are there introducing themselves, asking for a specific date, providing screening information and sending a deposit. See the difference, it's not "maybe one day".

 

[Bizzaynass]

Despite Covid, insane gas prices, and ever-increasing prices for everything from food to rents, business must be very good for the ladies, because I have never encountered so many SP's that don't bother to respond to respectful, polite texts. Not even requesting information, but just an introduction will often be ignored. My business education always stressed being polite, and acknowledging a potential client because you never know how valuable that contact might turn out to be.

Maybe business sense isn't a priority for some providers. Is this a growing thing, or am I just having a string of bad luck picking slackers?

Maybe they know who you are on Perb?

 

[happymoments]

You're there "introducing yourself" while the folks that get an answer and get too see her are there introducing themselves, asking for a specific date, providing screening information and sending a deposit. See the difference, it's not "maybe one day".

yeah basically to expand on your point, when they mean "serious inquiries only" they basically prefer to leave the "maybe connection buildup" to after the time slot is booked and are there on the clock.

to simply put, get to the point and booking confirmed within 2-3 message exchanges,

and finally, sometimes we need to be patient and understanding as they may have personal life issues / pets. I had one where she contacted me back a week or 2 later to apologize about it and provided an updated availability if anything would sync between us. I appreciated the effort she made

 

[Fiona]

You're there "introducing yourself" while the folks that get an answer and get too see her are there introducing themselves, asking for a specific date, providing screening information and sending a deposit. See the difference, it's not "maybe one day".

I have to agree , if I get a bunch of texts all at once , I go right for the direct , day & time guys , men who truly respect my time , know when & what , one’s who don’t have it draw out for days , nothing worse then the guy who never stops asking a million questions , I stop responding .
If you continually ask for same day appointments I stop responding.

And a “formal introduction “ without a booking is not as appreciated as you might think , we’re busy individuals. Taking time to find the actual bookings through all the chit chat can be very time consuming.

I find it funny most men don’t realize we keep history of our conversations with all of you and can quickly see how many times you’ve “ introduced yourself “ without booking.😝
It’s not a dating sight , it’s a business.

there’s websites & review boards for so much of our info.
it is a fairly busy time now that life is really gone back to normal , only the really reputable ladies managed to survive the past 2 years of upset & client flow change . so you could say we’re pretty particular who we entertain .

Hopefully things work out for you but keep it simple 💋

 

[MissingOne]

I learned the hard way early in my business career offering services that strangers who just want to chat will waste my time, and most often are really looking for free advice. Sorry, but I sell advice. The people I will pay attention to are the ones who identify a project and say they're interested in getting me involved to do task X. At that point I'm willing to spend some time on a discussion to see if it will work out to the benefit of both of us.

I suppose it would be different if I had the capacity to expand my business indefinitely, but I'm a one-man show and I only have so many hours in a day. I think that any independent SP faces the same situation.

 

[westwoody]

I only have so many hours in a day. I think that any independent SP faces the same situation.

Some ladies can get hundreds of emails in a single day, nobody has enough time to deal with that!
So they prioritise: is this a reliable customer who will definitely book? Is it someone with a specific request like Friday around 4pm for two hours? Or is it a vague inquiry from an unknown caller?

 

[Cock Throppled]

I have to agree , if I get a bunch of texts all at once , I go right for the direct , day & time guys , men who truly respect my time , know when & what , one’s who don’t have it draw out for days , nothing worse then the guy who never stops asking a million questions , I stop responding .
If you continually ask for same day appointments I stop responding.

And a “formal introduction “ without a booking is not as appreciated as you might think , we’re busy individuals. Taking time to find the actual bookings through all the chit chat can be very time consuming.

I find it funny most men don’t realize we keep history of our conversations with all of you and can quickly see how many times you’ve “ introduced yourself “ without booking.😝
It’s not a dating sight , it’s a business.

there’s websites & review boards for so much of our info.
it is a fairly busy time now that life is really gone back to normal , only the really reputable ladies managed to survive the past 2 years of upset & client flow change . so you could say we’re pretty particular who we entertain .

Hopefully things work out for you but keep it simple 💋

You, and others are making a lot of assumptions.
First -- I text those that state in their ads they want text.
Second - An introduction can also include a request for time.
Third - How do you think one text will become "a million questions", or I may have previously contacted the provider?
Fourth - Waiting for a reply doesn't mean I haven't gone elsewhere.
Fifth - Would you rather a phone call, and have someone ask "a million questions?" Text seems less likely to waste your time, when you can respond at liesure.
Sixth - I may be giving relevant information in my initial text, such as age, race, infirmities, medical information, etc, that might determine if the SP will see me at all. How is that not an important consideration?
Seventh - The loss isn't mine, because my money will go to those that operate like professionals, and not responding at all, even to say, "Too busy", is not professional, or conscious of a potential customer's time.

 

[Cock Throppled]

Maybe they know who you are on Perb?

Why would any SP care?

But if they'd respond, they might find out I never haggle, never bail, show up on time; groomed and very clean, never push boundaries, am polite and respectful, don’t waste or try to extend time, am well-spoken and informed, personable, always bring a gift and tip well.

 

[Fiona]

Why would any SP care?

But if they'd respond, they might find out I never haggle, never bail, show up on time; groomed and very clean, never push boundaries, am polite and respectful, don’t waste or try to extend time, am well-spoken and informed, personable, always bring a gift and tip well.

Sadly I’ll take a “non-perber” over someone from this micro-universe any day , not sure what happens to guys who live in here but it’s not good 😑

 

[Fiona]

You, and others are making a lot of assumptions.
First -- I text those that state in their ads they want text.
Second - An introduction can also include a request for time.
Third - How do you think one text will become "a million questions", or I may have previously contacted the provider?
Fourth - Waiting for a reply doesn't mean I haven't gone elsewhere.
Fifth - Would you rather a phone call, and have someone ask "a million questions?" Text seems less likely to waste your time, when you can respond at liesure.
Sixth - I may be giving relevant information in my initial text, such as age, race, infirmities, medical information, etc, that might determine if the SP will see me at all. How is that not an important consideration?
Seventh - The loss isn't mine, because my money will go to those that operate like professionals, and not responding at all, even to say, "Too busy", is not professional, or conscious of a potential customer's time.

Doesn’t seem to be working for you tho ? Give your date & time & wait for the lady to ask you questions, we don’t need your medical information upon booking 🫥.

 

[Ickypootang]

Doesn’t seem to be working for you tho ? Give your date & time & wait for the lady to ask you questions, we don’t need your medical information upon booking 🫥.

Maybe he's voluntarily telling you that he has a physical disability beforehand to make sure you're still ok with seeing him. Or maybe he has a skin condition he wants you to be aware of so he doesn't waste time coming there to have you turn him away once you see it. Seems like he's being pretty considerate and more like your attitude needs an adjustment.

 

[Fiona]

Maybe he's voluntarily telling you that he has a physical disability beforehand to make sure you're still ok with seeing him. Or maybe he has a skin condition he wants you to be aware of so he doesn't waste time coming there to have you turn him away once you see it. Seems like he's being pretty considerate and more like your attitude needs an adjustment.

Wow , some of you will just never get it .. carry on ..

 

[VinD]

So Fiona would rather meet a non perb person over someone on here . Yet , she is on here as well . I know where I am not spending my money .

 

[Ickypootang]

So Fiona would rather meet a non perb person over someone on here . Yet , she is on here as well . I know where I am not spending my money .

Right? What's the point of advertising on perb if you don't like nor want to see clients from perb? Strange.

Wow , some of you will just never get it .. carry on ..

Please, enlighten us.

 

[Fiona]

So Fiona would rather meet a non perb person over someone on here . Yet , she is on here as well . I know where I am not spending my money .

There are hundreds , probably thousands of amazing men who never make a peep or need to share every detail of there lives in the hobby ,they use this place for reference, not a soap box , not you 15-20 who post daily.
those are my guys 🥰

 

[Fiona]

With all due respect ...What`s that word im looking for .. Starts with an H ..

So then why do you advertise for our company here if you despise us so ??

That attitude shines strong with this one .. Probably why i never went back for a repeat visit ..
Cheers

The amount you spoke of other ladies & personal knowledge would never want me to see you again .weird , I have a dm from you just months ago inquiring on a visit lol . Funny how that goes .

 

[masterblaster]

There are hundreds , probably thousands of amazing men who never make a peep or need to share every detail of there lives in the hobby ,they use this place for reference, not a soap box , not you 15-20 who post daily.
those are my guys 🥰

It’s not actually a hobby.

 

[VinD]

Omg . What a waste of time . This person is NOT worth it . Move on all .