“Treat her well, guys”

[CantoPSElover]

I see this whole thread as being based on the OP's assumption that "treat her well" actually means "don't be fucking assholes". Whereas some of us and I certainly am one, who put "treat her well" at the end of a review, actually means, "treat her well". My assumption then is that by threating this lovely gal well, she will stay around and continue to be available. If not for the rest of you, for me since I had a good enough time with her I wrote a positive review.

But you know, haters are gonna hate, trolls are gonna troll, assholes are gonna be assholes and so on and so on ad nauseum.

Pretty mild topic to get all snarked up in. I mean if you want to see some real ugly shit, head over to the political threads. Man the trolls come out in droves over there, which gives my ignore button one heck of a workout.

Yeah good point. Thanks for reminding me. Got too involved over this conversation. Trolls gonna troll you are right.

I just cant understand the reasoning behind this thread. Its like people are looking to be offended by such a benign and harmless statement. Guess it says something about them for them to get this worked up over such a short well meaning sentence. Oh well, what u gonna do right?

You have a good one man.

 

[Sum.Sum]

Totally agree FreeG!! That comment has always irritated me. I like to think the majority of pooners are at the very least semi respectful and don’t need that comment repeated. For the assholes that are obviously out there that comment means nothing and makes no difference on how they treat women. So let’s give that comment a rest and just do the right fucking thing everytime.

It’s not a negative thing to say? Arguing against what he said is negative ! And yes there are 50/50 maybe 40/60 who message that are not meant to message to be nice. But even tho u say that don’t mean they are going to play nice. I mean they can inforce the assholes themselves too at least

 

[Stamkos]

It’s not a negative thing to say? Arguing against what he said is negative ! And yes there are 50/50 maybe 40/60 who message that are not meant to message to be nice. But even tho u say that don’t mean they are going to play nice. I mean they can inforce the assholes themselves too at least

 

[poonerboi]

Why are you limiting this statement to SP instead of anybody and everybody, with no distinction based on race/age/gender/profession/height/weight/... ?

Because ,there are alot of POS out there that seem to think that they can do WHATEVER THE FUCK they want if they are paying . I stayed briefly with an SP and let me tell you there are a shit ton of us that are beyond cruel to these gals. She also received countless hateful, degrading messages on the regular. I couldn't believe that total strangers would go out of there way to be so cruel. If she was not a sex worker, I highly doubt it would be a problem.

 

[masterblaster]

Because ,there are alot of POS out there that seem to think that they can do WHATEVER THE FUCK they want if they are paying . I stayed briefly with an SP and let me tell you there are a shit ton of us that are beyond cruel to these gals. She also received countless hateful, degrading messages on the regular. I couldn't believe that total strangers would go out of there way to be so cruel. If she was not a sex worker, I highly doubt it would be a problem.

Ya it will make it all better if some punter says treat her well.

 

[Stamkos]

Ya it will make it all better if some punter says treat her well.

Exactly my point mb, exactly my point.

 

[DrunkWhenSober]

this sounds like a "make something out of nothing" thread. People are reading way too deep into this.

 

[Mrmotorscooter]

I fully understand the logic of treat her well, there is nothing more horrifying than the next time you go and see the lady and she reports due to your review some asshole showed up and expected to be treated like a king. The negative experience towards her reflects badly on you for raising some idiots expectations, YMMV is definitely a factor in this biz. Some guys just have 0 respect towards a working girl and that’s a real shame!

 

[rlock]

So I’ve seen the above statement in reviews every now and then for like 10yrs now. It invariably comes at the end of a positive review and I’m assuming it’s always meant to plead to others to not be jerks so the companion will stick around and keep working.

i get the intent of it, I guess. But JFC,does anyone honestly think we should NOT be treating a companion well???

Some people do. What else can one do? Some people are just assholes.

Men, women, trans - I have encountered abusive, deceitful, and obnoxious assholes of all sorts throughout my life, the sort who are assholes in many different situations. A few might be those who act like assholes because they "just don't get it" socially speaking, and maybe need to calm the fuck down and wise up.

But more often it is people who just are assholes by choice, knowing full well that they are being assholes and are proud to inflict their asshole behaviour on others. It's not just in an SW context they appear - these sociopaths are everywhere.

So yeah, if I see "treat her well guys", that's not to say there's some whole other class of SW's where that's not the case. It's always the case !
It's just that with some companions (especially newer ones or those who project a sweet or shy disposition), if you're not an asshole, you can't help but get those protective feelings and want the assholes to stay away from them in particular.

 

[Larry123]

Some people do. What else can one do? Some people are just assholes.

Men, women, trans - I have encountered abusive, deceitful, and obnoxious assholes of all sorts throughout my life, the sort who are assholes in many different situations. A few might be those who act like assholes because they "just don't get it" socially speaking, and maybe need to calm the fuck down and wise up.

But more often it is people who just are assholes by choice, knowing full well that they are being assholes and are proud to inflict their asshole behaviour on others. It's not just in an SW context they appear - these sociopaths are everywhere.

So yeah, if I see "treat her well guys", that's not to say there's some whole other class of SW's where that's not the case. It's always the case !
It's just that with some companions (especially newer ones or those who project a sweet or shy disposition), if you're not an asshole, you can't help but get those protective feelings and want the assholes to stay away from them in particular.

How about signing off with "Assholes Stay Away!" 🙂
And I hope this won't start a new thread.

 

[sybian]

Lines like these are mindless platitudes that George Carlin called soft conversation. His bit on it is well worth a watch on Youtube. when I am reading that, my brain honestly just skips over that stuff and is scanning for meaningful information. It's harmless and useless at the same time.it's a way to sign off, or it's an attempt to make the review more conversation or it's designed to make the lady feel better about the review, scoring points subconsciously or otherwise. Even when I am being ripped off, I have never treated the lady less than well, it is just more difficult and forced.

George Carlin said thousands of things that you can live by….the man missed his calling as a Philosopher.

 

[rlock]

How about signing off with "Assholes Stay Away!" 🙂
And I hope this won't start a new thread.

Not a bad idea in theory, considering that's the real uncensored version of the message, but would someone who is an asshole listen to that and actually stay away? Not likely.

Maybe instead , when we review a sweet and gentle girl, we should sign off with "if you cross this girl, she will skin you alive with a bread knife, and use your tongue to paint her boat".

 

[westwoody]

Does paying an escort an amount/hour give a man the right to treat her with disrepect, all because he paid for her time. The answer is NO.

Everyone will say no.
But you can go to almost any retail store and see some asshole treating low paid staff like shit.
Imagine how these assholes act when nobody can see them.

 

[JackRyder]

Why would it bother anyone with a clear conscience?

I was in a restaurant with a lady who turned her phone off. She missed a few texts from a guy who started off really nice, full of compliments. When she didn’t answer right away be sent more, ending with really disturbingly threatening texts. All in the space of maybe 45 minutes.
Then he posted here that she’s a bitch who doesn’t answer her phone.

I have seen the same happen to a Lady friend. some of these men go from "Nice guy" to Psycho in under 5 -10 mins.
She literally said it was one of her screening methods to weed out the entitled men.

 

[80watts]

Everyone will say no.
But you can go to almost any retail store and see some asshole treating low paid staff like shit.
Imagine how these assholes act when nobody can see them.

Good points.
But I have snapped at some low paying employees because:
1. I'm looking intently at the shelf comparing products; Yes I am reading and comparing products and prices etc.
2. They approach me from behind;
3. Its a store where employees have to ask customers if they need help. Murphy's Law applies here: If you need help, there is no one around; and if you don't need help, they sneak up on you (going down 3 aisle, you get asked 5 times if you need help);
4. They interrupt my train of thought; which pisses me off;
5. I'm getting much better, in not telling them to fuck off; I'm learning to politely say no and say thank you'; and start turning away... (hint this is body language saying conversation is finished)
6. Then they have to have the last word by saying something fucken stupid like "If you need help, just ask" or "you know where to find me";
7. And that is when I verbally fucken take their head off.....
8. Most of these employees are fucken clueless; can't tell how to leave a customer alone or read body language, and really don't pay attention to a customers that are looking all over the place for a customer representative in order to get help.

In any conversation, eye contact is important. Approach from the front or side. Don't jump in from behind. If my back is turned to you, don't talk yet. Approach from front or side.

Back to Mr Murphy....

 

[Asian Fever]

So I’ve seen the above statement in reviews every now and then for like 10yrs now. It invariably comes at the end of a positive review and I’m assuming it’s always meant to plead to others to not be jerks so the companion will stick around and keep working.

i get the intent of it, I guess. But JFC,does anyone honestly think we should NOT be treating a companion well???

In this business, you often get guys who are not exactly top of the food chain in the lady division. Assholes and douchebags are common, and so is a robust blacklist cultivated like a fine wine... that being said, a lot of totally normal and great guys too.

 

[westwoody]

some of these men go from "Nice guy" to Psycho in under 5 -10 mins.

Yeah the tone change was creepy.
First text was “you’re so gorgeous” and he would love to meet.
Five texts later “you fat ugly bitch I didn’t want to see you anyway”

 

[cruefan]

So I’ve seen the above statement in reviews every now and then for like 10yrs now. It invariably comes at the end of a positive review and I’m assuming it’s always meant to plead to others to not be jerks so the companion will stick around and keep working.

i get the intent of it, I guess. But JFC,does anyone honestly think we should NOT be treating a companion well???

It is basically just a nice way of saying please don't ruin it for everyone else.

Treat her well and keep her coming back so that we may see her again.

 

[SkinnyJohn]

It is basically just a nice way of saying please don't ruin it for everyone else.

Too many nice girls that leave the business cuz of some entitled A-Hole. You nailed it.

 

[Stamkos]

Good points.
But I have snapped at some low paying employees because:
1. I'm looking intently at the shelf comparing products; Yes I am reading and comparing products and prices etc.
2. They approach me from behind;
3. Its a store where employees have to ask customers if they need help. Murphy's Law applies here: If you need help, there is no one around; and if you don't need help, they sneak up on you (going down 3 aisle, you get asked 5 times if you need help);
4. They interrupt my train of thought; which pisses me off;
5. I'm getting much better, in not telling them to fuck off; I'm learning to politely say no and say thank you'; and start turning away... (hint this is body language saying conversation is finished)
6. Then they have to have the last word by saying something fucken stupid like "If you need help, just ask" or "you know where to find me";
7. And that is when I verbally fucken take their head off.....
8. Most of these employees are fucken clueless; can't tell how to leave a customer alone or read body language, and really don't pay attention to a customers that are looking all over the place for a customer representative in order to get help.

In any conversation, eye contact is important. Approach from the front or side. Don't jump in from behind. If my back is turned to you, don't talk yet. Approach from front or side.

Back to Mr Murphy....

Exactly westwoodys point….”some asshole treating low paid staff like shit”……I hope you’re just trolling, if not, get over yourself man!!!