Seeking advice for a newbie

[BobbyWest99]

First timer to this hobby. Future plans to see a sp who has caught my attention.

My question- advice on my first encounter. Not on who, as I have that decided. But i was thinking a hour. Is that a long time for a visit? I dont want to rush, this is supposed to be a fantasy thing... but i also dont want to be sitting there think "now what"

Any big red flags to watch for? Her reviews have been excellent so far...

 

[BobbyWest99]

Pm if you dont want to say anything publicly

 

[Peter69Camaro]

An hour is a good time to relax and chat a bit to calm down the nerves before the main course and to wind down afterwards. If it's a well-reviewed lady who advertises here or is one of the top travelling ladies, being upfront with her that this is your first time will probably work in your favour as she will most likely want to make this special for you. At all times be honest and courteous and respect her boundaries as your fantasy is not necessarily her fantasy, and make sure that whatever you're looking for she's okay with it, before you get to her place. Some additional considerations: if you don't smoke and don't like the smell, ask if she smokes; no e-transfers; be showered or ask if you can shower at her place, be a nice guy. Am sure others will contribute some valuable tips. Read them, consider them, and then take a deep breath and enjoy your time.

 

[BobbyWest99]

An hour is a good time to relax and chat a bit to calm down the nerves before the main course and to wind down afterwards. If it's a well-reviewed lady who advertises here or is one of the top travelling ladies, being upfront with her that this is your first time will probably work in your favour as she will most likely want to make this special for you. At all times be honest and courteous and respect her boundaries as your fantasy is not necessarily her fantasy, and make sure that whatever you're looking for she's okay with it, before you get to her place. Some additional considerations: if you don't smoke and don't like the smell, ask if she smokes; no e-transfers; be showered or ask if you can shower at her place, be a nice guy. Am sure others will contribute some valuable tips. Read them, consider them, and then take a deep breath and enjoy your time.

Thanks man. Much appreciated!

 

[Loverboy78]

Thanks man. Much appreciated!

Definitely spend an hour. If it's a really good provider you'll be wishing you booked for longer. Don't be afraid to ask questions about the time you'll spend together. Make sure you both understand what you are hoping your time spent will look like. If she's vague or says something like "just come and I'll rock your world" that's a sign to look elsewhere.

 

[dr.feelgood1]

I have always scheduled an hour appointment and for me it never has been a mistake especially with a reputable lady. I totally agree with both members above. Read her whole ad and read the reviews completely and you should know what to expect. Knowing all that respect her boundaries and if you are fine with them before you meet your time will go by very well. Every provider I have seen will post all that on ad or initial text. Show up on time, just treat her well and things should go well. If you get to the stage of "now what" it is something that wasn't meant to be, that has happened to me, just move on.

 

[Grishnak]

It would be nice if you would name who you're about to see. "Excellent reviews so far" can be fake reviews. If we know where you're headed we can tell you what to expect from an hour with her.

 

[Loverboy78]

It would be nice if you would name who you're about to see. "Excellent reviews so far" can be fake reviews. If we know where you're headed we can tell you what to expect from an hour with her.

This is a very good point. We are here to help @BobbyWest99 There's nothing to be gained from keeping who it is a secret.

 

[HBxLTU]

Newbie here too, about to jump into the game
I'm also interested in who you're going with, as it seems like a good chunk of normal providers are out of town right now.

 

[Ron Jeremy Jr.]

Newbie here too, about to jump into the game
I'm also interested in who you're going with, as it seems like a good chunk of normal providers are out of town right now.

Whoever @BobbyWest99 likes may not be your type. It appears he's done his research and read the reviews to determine which SP works for him. That SP may or may not work for you. So my advice is to spend some time reading the reviews in the review section of this forum.

 

[HBxLTU]

Whoever @BobbyWest99 likes may not be your type. It appears he's done his research and read the reviews to determine which SP works for him. That SP may or may not work for you. So my advice is to spend some time reading the reviews in the review section of this forum.

I have, I'm just seeing if they're someone I haven't seen before. I have a list of about 5 SPs that I'd be willing to go with, but none of them have everything I'm looking for so I'd like to find all my options before I settle.

 

[Ron Jeremy Jr.]

I have, I'm just seeing if they're someone I haven't seen before. I have a list of about 5 SPs that I'd be willing to go with, but none of them have everything I'm looking for so I'd like to find all my options before I settle.

Fair enough. It appears OP might not be comfortable posting who he's planning on seeing. So maybe send him a PM as he suggested earlier in this thread.

 

[BobbyWest99]

Newbie here too, about to jump into the game
I'm also interested in who you're going with, as it seems like a good chunk of normal providers are out of town right now.

I would say do your research. Contact providers. Read reviews. I did mine.... worth the work.

 

[BobbyWest99]

Thanks for all the feedback. I am not providing who i am looking to see, but will share a review when i see her.

I did not start out with the intent of seeing any sp but was browsing LL. One sp caught my eye, and it began from there. Opened a dialogue. And plan to see her in the future.

My situation makes me not want to share details before. Plus nothing has happened yet again due to my situation.

IMHO I really think everyone should do their own research.... everybody preferences are different.
Imagine you are driving a minivan and are looking test drive something new. Now will that be an Fancy SUV? Badass Muscle Car? Truck? Souped-up Import?

Just because i am looking to ride a Muscle Car, doesnt mean that is what you are looking for. You might be a Hummer fan? LoL

And related to the "settle" comment... why? This is an adventure. I won't be settling for my experiences.

 

[Rex456]

Thanks for all the feedback. I am not providing who i am looking to see, but will share a review when i see her.

I did not start out with the intent of seeing any sp but was browsing LL. One sp caught my eye, and it began from there. Opened a dialogue. And plan to see her in the future.

You gave this away in your first post on the board.......lastweek. 🤣 Do you happen to be playing poker anytime soon? LOL.

All in jest. Hope you have fun with "whomever" you see! 😉 😉

 

[BobbyWest99]

Well.... i can't argue with that point.... although if you appear to be really bad at bluffing, people think that you cant be actually that bad at bluffing.