Noob question about GFE providers

[bobbobby]

Alright, I thought long and hard about how I wanted to frame this question, so bare with me while I set it up. I searched for an answer on this but I couldn't find a thread asking this question in a similar-enough way. Apologies if it's been asked before.

So I've seen a PSE provider, and some Chinese aunties, so the few pooning experiences I've had are basically: Show up -> Get to it -> leave.

Obviously with GFE, it's supposed to be more intimate and personal, which can depend on how you click with the SP, I understand that, but my noob question is basically this:

When you see a GFE provider for the first time, how do you prefer the encounter to go down? I loath talking about myself, I don't lead a particularly interesting life, so talking about myself makes me nervous - I guess the great GFE providers can handle these encounters and I'm just overthinking things, but was anyone else in this boat when they started? How do you just say "fuck it" and go for it? I'm thinking that a longer date could help with this, but I'm also hesitant to book 3 hours (for example) and not click with her at all.

Long story short:
Basically I'm into pooning because I hate dating, and I suck at it. I want to get better at reading body language, chatting with my date, etc., but I'm hesitant to pull the trigger on a GFE for the same reasons I hate dating ... help?

Edit: Also, when do you discuss extras? With the providers I've seen, it's a list with $ amounts for extras. With GFE I see that it's mostly YMMY, so like... what if I am looking for CIM or COF for example? I have no idea how/when to bring this up.

 

[Fiona]

Also it doesn’t all have to done at once , some of my best GFE clients started as massage clients as they were “new “ to the hobby and once they feel safe they let their freak flag fly 🥰 they just needed to feel there’s chemistry first , there’s nothing wrong with that .

DO NOT feel pressured to make conversation or not being interesting.
That’s our job 💋 good luck !

 

[cruefan]

Do your research before booking with a gfe provider.

Be careful to not book with an unfriendly provider with a major attitude problem that has no people skills.

 

[poopquiz]

Obviously with GFE, it's supposed to be more intimate and personal, which can depend on how you click with the SP

Yeah I think that’s important. I have seen some GFE providers I really click with, and some that I just don’t. Nothing against them, I just didn’t have as good of a time because we didn’t click, and I know it’s not because of them…sometimes too young, or just too different from me…and I have learned since then to pursue time with more “alternative” type women and closer to my age, vs the fancy luxury type companions (note: that’s not a comment on rate, they all may charge the same, but the “brand” is different).

So if it’s someone I would want to date IRL (sounds bad to say, but someone like my own wife, but without all the baggage of life/kids/relationship) then I think they will be a good GFE provider for me. Even among the women who posted above (Charlee, Electra & Fiona), I’m sure they are all great and they charge similar rates, but I know I’d probably click with Charlee the most based on her SP brand.

Which brings me to my final point (and what really addresses your question) these women are all really good at what they do! So I know they “click” with me because, you know, that’s their job. It’s not dating…it’s paying a professional to spend time with you and make you feel good. But if I know it’s the kind of person I would pursue IRL then I know it will be that much easier for me to take in what they are putting out there, you know?

 

[bobbobby]

Didn't really expect this type of response so fast! Thank you to everyone who replied.

Good to know my situation is more common than I thought, and really awesome to hear answers from women, I appreciate you all taking the time to reply

It’s not dating…it’s paying a professional to spend time with you and make you feel good. But if I know it’s the kind of person I would pursue IRL then I know it will be that much easier for me to take in what they are putting out there, you know?

Yeah I totally get it - but for some reason, my brain feels the need to do a good job, be impressive, etc., even though it's not an actual date. Not sure how but once I get over that mindset, I'm sure I'll find a great GFE provider and have a great time.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Didn't really expect this type of response so fast! Thank you to everyone who replied.

Good to know my situation is more common than I thought, and really awesome to hear answers from women, I appreciate you all taking the time to reply

Yeah I totally get it - but for some reason, my brain feels the need to do a good job, be impressive, etc., even though it's not an actual date. Not sure how but once I get over that mindset, I'm sure I'll find a great GFE provider and have a great time.

Well one of the things that makes any session great is if its a 2-way street. She makes me feel good and I just want to bite (in a good way) her all over, which makes her feel good, then I feel better and so and so on and the whole thing ends up in a froth of just feeling fucking great!

If you all know what I mean ...

 

[blakealridge]

Do your research before booking with a gfe provider.

Be careful to not book with an unfriendly provider with a major attitude problem that has no people skills.

Like me, this is me. I have a major attitude problem and no people skills. Definitely don’t book me.