Happy Ending or Happy Beginning?

[Billiam]

R & T or T & R ?
When first partaking of this hobby many decades ago, typically I would tend to let the provider do her thing as far as starting with massage until the 'flip' leading to the finish. Unfortunately I
would often strain something or other during the finale and end up finished but feeling in need of another massage.
Nowadays, and granted with a much more familiar partner typically, I much prefer to get right to the foolah-boolah for the first half-hour and then to an eagerly anticipated final half of now
almost therapeutic muscle relaxation. This approach also eliminates any pressure that might arise in going up against the clock.
What about you guys?

 

[masterpoonhunter]

The last time I threw out something doing the wild thing was quite a few years ago on a 3rd date with this delectable gal I had met on POF. So for the most part I have learned what not to strain and when to back off whatever I happen to be doing. But to your point I am a real fan of having pop #1 in the first 20 minutes or so, then a nice relaxing massage in the middle of the session then pop #2 in the last 10-15 minutes if that is what I am in for. Or not and just get to it for the whole session.

 

[Debbie Italian]

R & T or T & R ?
When first partaking of this hobby many decades ago, typically I would tend to let the provider do her thing as far as starting with massage until the 'flip' leading to the finish. Unfortunately I
would often strain something or other during the finale and end up finished but feeling in need of another massage.
Nowadays, and granted with a much more familiar partner typically, I much prefer to get right to the foolah-boolah for the first half-hour and then to an eagerly anticipated final half of now
almost therapeutic muscle relaxation. This approach also eliminates any pressure that might arise in going up against the clock.
What about you guys?

Giving a massage is not part of GFE, i used to offer massages in my hour sessions, not anymore, after 15 yrs of massaging, i have arthritis and trigger finger, in all my fingers, many cortisone shots and two surgeries in my fingers, my specialist says, no more giving massages, thank goodnesss, I dont know why men think, they should get tbe whole package plus a massage, dont think they know how difficult it is on your hands, especially after many years of providing it.

 

[grizzly]

Giving a massage is not part of GFE, i used to offer massages in my hour sessions, not anymore, after 15 yrs of massaging, i have arthritis and trigger finger, in all my fingers, many cortisone shots and two surgeries in my fingers, my specialist says, no more giving massages, thank goodnesss, I dont know why men think, they should get tbe whole package plus a massage, dont think they know how difficult it is on your hands, especially after many years of providing it.

It doesn't matter what men think. You run your business how you see fit. If it hurts, don't do it.

 

[Buddyguy66]

I like lots of foreplay leading to making sure she's happy, then I'm happy to finish me. I've been offered a massage a few times after and gratefully accepted..but never asked, never expected.

 

[Number17]

I like lots of foreplay leading to making sure she's happy, then I'm happy to finish me. I've been offered a massage a few times after and gratefully accepted..but never asked, never expected.

Same here. I like to do long foreplay to get both of us in the mood before the main event. Afterwards, if there is any time left, we usually just cuddle and chat for a little bit. In case of a 2-hour appointment which we have some time to kill in between rounds, if I’m offered a massage, I’d take it but I’ve never asked. If I really want a massage, I go to an RMT for a deep tissue massage and then submit a health insurance claim.

 

[lookinfersum]

Giving a massage is not part of GFE, i used to offer massages in my hour sessions, not anymore, after 15 yrs of massaging, i have arthritis and trigger finger, in all my fingers, many cortisone shots and two surgeries in my fingers, my specialist says, no more giving massages, thank goodnesss, I dont know why men think, they should get tbe whole package plus a massage, dont think they know how difficult it is on your hands, especially after many years of providing it.

This is a great example of why you need training to give proper massage. Proper techniques are not only used for healing the patient but also to prevent chronic injury to the masseur. Being an RMT is a very physically demanding job. Even light non- therapeutic massage done improperly over an extended period of time is likely to cause chronic injury to the provider.

 

[Billiam]

Giving a massage is not part of GFE, i used to offer massages in my hour sessions, not anymore, after 15 yrs of massaging, i have arthritis and trigger finger, in all my fingers, many cortisone shots and two surgeries in my fingers, my specialist says, no more giving massages, thank goodnesss, I dont know why men think, they should get tbe whole package plus a massage, dont think they know how difficult it is on your hands, especially after many years of providing it.

This has nothing to do with this thread. Please post your own if you find it necessary.

 

[Lady Vanessa]

I'm digging this ideal Billiam. I shall now leave that as an option to whom I am giving a massage to and should even update my ads saying my massage sessions can be MSOG.
I do ask if the person is able to have a happy beginning and a happy ending during my Nuru massage encounter, because we begin with a soapy shower and it's often going
down in the shower and one may find it unstoppable to release and still wish to release during the massage portion. I just always assumed one would like the tease and build up towards the flip and happy ending.

 

[Billiam]

I'm digging this ideal Billiam. I shall now leave that as an option to whom I am giving a massage to and should even update my ads saying my massage sessions can be MSOG.
I do ask if the person is able to have a happy beginning and a happy ending during my Nuru massage encounter, because we begin with a soapy shower and it's often going
down in the shower and one may find it unstoppable to release and still wish to release during the massage portion. I just always assumed one would like the tease and build up towards the flip and happy ending.

An excellent point which I neglected in my OP - I always do hour sessions, and coming early opens up the possibility of coming more often (or at least trying to!).
And you, my dear, sound divine!

 

[masterpoonhunter]

I'm digging this ideal Billiam. I shall now leave that as an option to whom I am giving a massage to and should even update my ads saying my massage sessions can be MSOG.
I do ask if the person is able to have a happy beginning and a happy ending during my Nuru massage encounter, because we begin with a soapy shower and it's often going
down in the shower and one may find it unstoppable to release and still wish to release during the massage portion. I just always assumed one would like the tease and build up towards the flip and happy ending.

I got introduced to a 2x session quite a few years ago and look for this in every massage like appointment in which I partake. 1st early on, then relaxing massage and build up and 2nd near end of session. Do I ever sleep well those nights !!

 

[Debbie Italian]

This is a great example of why you need training to give proper massage. Proper techniques are not only used for healing the patient but also to prevent chronic injury to the masseur. Being an RMT is a very physically demanding job. Even light non- therapeutic massage done improperly over an extended period of time is likely to cause chronic injury to the provider.

I agree, proper training is good, but im not a masseur, im a service provider, there is a different section for a masseur for a reason

 

[Debbie Italian]

This has nothing to do with this thread. Please post your own if you find it necessary.

Your right, sorry i missed the R&T OR T&R quote, sorry about that

 

[Banged_Up]

Having found someone that does provide services exactly like this I can tell you how much I appreciate it.

 

[PuntMeister]

I’m totally down for some T&R, as long as the R skills are decent. So I would shop for this service in the massage section rather than the escort/gfe section of ad platforms. If the massage is just meh, then I want to get out of there and head to the pub right after the cleanup. But if the massage is yumm,, then I can totally dig relaxing into it as a planned part of the session. I love a nice scalp massage as a great way to wrap up the R-later portion.
Thanks OP; maybe we’ll see some T&R ads out soon!

 

[Big_Guy_Rye]

I'm more of a R&T guy.

Get me relaxed first, then surprise me with the finish. Tell me a story with yours hands, like "Oh wait, I was just here for a massage, and now you want to do THAT!?...Well,...okay.../tee-hee." (even though I came to the place FOR that reason, the illusion is nice to play out too).

Never had a situation where the T came before R, never really though about it. But for this topic, I can't see it being enjoyable, since you're walking into the place all tense to begin with, then getting more tense getting the T....