Phone usage during session

[Ron Jeremy Jr.]

I'd like to get your guys opinion on phones during a session.It is obviously unprofessional for an SP to be texting or on her phone during a session with a client. But personally I also find it a turn off when she keeps the phone in the room, and the phone keeps buzzing and/or ringing during the session, even if she does not answer it. It's also not very discreet as recently I was going doggy with an SP and her phone was ringing and I could see the name and number on caller ID.

I've also seen SPs who will immediately start responding to texts the second we are finished having sex, while we are trying to talk, which is super disrespectful. Or they're texting on their phone as I walk in the door so they don't even say hi. Can these girls not keep their phone on silent or put in another room, and stay off of them for 30-60 minutes? I find this a huge turn off and very unprofessional. Some of the well reviewed ladies do this too.

My message to the ladies: put your phone away. I don't want to see or hear it the entire time we are together. If you need it in the room for safety reasons, put it somewhere I can't see it and keep it on silent.

 

[Uncled]

Call me a sick bastard, but I when I hear about this type of behaviour, I have a perverted fantasy of finishing on her face as she is texting. 😬

 

[Rex456]

It's a red flag, just like B&S. It's been said countless times on here before that we're not paying for services, but for a ladies time. Well my time, doesn't include her looking for the next appointment. The professional ladies, with the top reviews on here don't do this kind of shit.

 

[Ron Jeremy Jr.]

The professional ladies, with the top reviews on here don't do this kind of shit.

I won't name any names. But yes some do.

 

[Rex456]

I stand corrected then. For the most part, the ladies I've been with have been professional. The one time it happened for me, was with Jenna Rose (she did excuse herself/asked if it was ok), but I didn't see her again after that.

 

[Bigbutts3]

BIG turnoff! I’ve had it happen a bunch of times in the past and just completely ruins the vibe. I have no issue with them having it close for safety purposes but no reason to be on it the whole time or have the ringer up.

 

[zbl204]

I agree 110% with the original poster. Any and every bit of rapport and chemistry goes out the window with them keeping their phone onhand and in earshot.

 

[GeeBeeP]

Completely agree, big turn off. Perhaps its a generational thing, and younger people are used to it. Maybe its an addition to the real Girl Friend Experience of today and we're just getting a sense of a younger person's reality.

I have no problem with a text to a friend to say all is good if I'm meeting an SP for the first time, that's totally cool. After that I'm paying to be the centre of attention just as with any other professional. If my accountant or dentist was on the phone with someone else during the time I was paying for I'd be pissed. No difference here, the paying customer should be the focus of a professional companion.

 

[westwoody]

Women of quality respect your time and money and make an effort to retain you as a customer.
If hundreds of dollars an hour can't get their undivided attention they can fuck right off.
Playing with their phone instead of focussing on the customer tells you exactly how interested they are in their job.

 

[Hammermitchell]

Had this happen while in the reverse cowgirl and the phone was nonstop ringing beside me. Just to stop it, I picked it up and told the guy he was ruining my groove. She laughed, finished my session and that was that. Other than than, I haven't had to many girls do this to me.

 

[Ron Jeremy Jr.]

Just to stop it, I picked it up and told the guy he was ruining my groove.

This is legendary! Love it!

 

[Second2Go]

I’d invite him round. Nothing better than following another dude

 

[cruefan]

Women of quality respect your time and money and make an effort to retain you as a customer.
If hundreds of dollars an hour can't get their undivided attention they can fuck right off.
Playing with their phone instead of focussing on the customer tells you exactly how interested they are in their job.

Any provider that is on her phone within an appointment is not a good provider.

Her phone getting like 20 or more text notifications within the session is a total turn off too.

 

[Rex456]

I remember once hammering away doggie style on one girl who had her tv on , there was a commercial for pizza and I had limited time so I picked up MY phone and ordered my combo ... she didn’t seem to mind , if it got me a little more excited , all the better for her I think .pepperoni / mushroom / green pepper ... the best .

If only Mr. Bones was still around. That would have made the story even better.

 

[MrEd]

If only Mr. Bones was still around. That would have made the story even better.

Late at night - early morning at parties we used to just say or ask “Fours?” to see if people wanted to order pizza.

 

[Ron Jeremy Jr.]

Hey there. Can you pm me their names. I would love to avoid them too. Thanks.

Sorry just seeing this now. Are you still interested in names?

 

[Dryad]

If i'm engaged with ANYONE in any way and they pickup a phone and look at it. It's rude. Hard line. To be doing it with a client while you're in an intimate setting is 100 times worse. It's disrespectful, unprofessional, uncaring, and rude. Professionally-wise it's destroying any chance a provider might have with a return client and kills a providers reputation. It simply doesn't make sense. Once in a blue moon I've been told "Hey I'm expecting an important phone call so I have my phone on." And was told this up front. That's 100% cool. Life happens. Otherwise it's not okay. Not at all. I turn off my phone. A provider can do the same.

 

[Jethro Bodine]

Very rude behaviour but they do it becasue you pussies let them get away with it.
Just like you all let them get away with bait and switch ads or refusing to provide previously agreed upon services.
Back in the day when I was more active and would see ladies for the first time I had a couple of experiences where I hadn't even got my jacket off and they were standing there replying to a text instead of greeting and engaging with me. Both times it was touring ladies. One was Niki Valhalla and i can't recall the other. Both times I simply turned around and left. When they texted me to see what was going on I simply told them that it was rude and unprofessional. For what I was paying them, I should be their sole focus from the moment I walk in the door until I leave. I obviously wasn't so I left.
From then on I would tell ladies that they were to turn their phone off when I arrive just like I turn mine off. Just like i would tell them that if they were a bait and switch or didn't deliver on previously agreed on services, i would leave. Some may think this rude but after over 20 years in this hobby, I became very particular. Early on in my career I feel for all the same things as all of you. I just decided one day that enough was enough. I work hard for my money and while it may seem selfish, when I'm paying more an hour for pussy, than I pay a lawyer or accountant, I expect their undivided attention. If a lady doesn't respect me enough to put her phone away or be honest with her advertising then too fucking bad. I'm walking.
There are so many wonderful, professional ladies out there. Don't give the disrespectful, unprofessional ones your hard earned cash.
Cheers
J

 

[Ron Jeremy Jr.]

Very rude behaviour but they do it becasue you pussies let them get away with it.
Just like you all let them get away with bait and switch ads or refusing to provide previously agreed upon services.
Back in the day when I was more active and would see ladies for the first time I had a couple of experiences where I hadn't even got my jacket off and they were standing there replying to a text instead of greeting and engaging with me. Both times it was touring ladies. One was Niki Valhalla and i can't recall the other. Both times I simply turned around and left. When they texted me to see what was going on I simply told them that it was rude and unprofessional. For what I was paying them, I should be their sole focus from the moment I walk in the door until I leave. I obviously wasn't so I left.
From then on I would tell ladies that they were to turn their phone off when I arrive just like I turn mine off. Just like i would tell them that if they were a bait and switch or didn't deliver on previously agreed on services, i would leave. Some may think this rude but after over 20 years in this hobby, I became very particular. Early on in my career I feel for all the same things as all of you. I just decided one day that enough was enough. I work hard for my money and while it may seem selfish, when I'm paying more an hour for pussy, than I pay a lawyer or accountant, I expect their undivided attention. If a lady doesn't respect me enough to put her phone away or be honest with her advertising then too fucking bad. I'm walking.
There are so many wonderful, professional ladies out there. Don't give the disrespectful, unprofessional ones your hard earned cash.
Cheers
J

The issue I'm finding is some of the well reviewed local ladies, who advertise here have this issue with their texting/phone addiction during sessions. I think some guys just accept it as normal.

 

[westwoody]

Bad actors have no incentive to change if there is no cost to their behaviour.
If they are on the phone when you walk in you need to turn around and walk out. Unless you have no self respect.