Kinda interesting,more so to tweens and teens who tend to take things to heart. I like being nice and kind,not just to women but anyone in my very small circle. Especially my nieces and nephews. I gave caring what people thought of me up a long time ago,good or bad.
Wtf is a "simp"?
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isn't that called a stalker or a pest? maybe we're so sick of men not understanding what "no" means we're like "okay fine then but you have to do xyz for me" and then they do it. is that really so bad? lol
Yeah...just what a girl needs to brighten up her day, talking to a Judge and filing that annoying Restraining Order.
yeah personally I'd rather an annoying guy who won't leave me alone send me money and serve Me, rather than all that legal malarkey.
An obsessive delusion and pursuit of a woman without accepting rejection or not understanding what "no" means is absolutely a stalker.
The simp usually is misled and once a woman starts asking him to do "xyz" is why he becomes a simp. He should know better and have enough dignity to walk away from her and move on to the next.
right so a simp is ACTUALLY a pest who won't leave a woman alone, and she basically has no choice but to engage because the legal system gives absolutely 0 fucks about us. But incels *USE* the word simp to mean a guy who is nice to women. Gotcha.
If "No means No" (and I whole-heartedly agree with that),...then why do you (proverbial, hypothetical, royal, every-woman "you") keep leading him on?...knowing full well, you're not going to reciprocate, but you'll be glad to take his money or other gifts, and give him reason to keep coming back to shower you with material affections?
A "simp" isn't a stalker, just a sad pathetic man too clueless to sift through a female's mixed signals, but will continue to go out of his way to pay your bills on the sliver of an off-chance that you'll reward him with affection from that of a proper 'girlfriend'.
....now if you told him directly, "not a chance in hell will you ever get me..."...and he still keeps coming back, then yeah, the simp is a stalker and/or pest, fair enough....just don't take his gifts or money, block his calls, call the cops.
...but if you are still taking the money and gifts,....then where does his "stalking" end, and your "personal responsibility" begin?
Ahhh nahhh I don't think simps are creepy stalkers there is a pretty significant difference.
A stalker stalks the girl, in which scenario the girl is the victim because she doesn't want to engage with the stalker.
A simp is a simp when, this guy willingly sacrifices his time, effort to make the girl happy. AND the girl IS happy. However, the girl does not reciprocate. She doesn't appreciate what the simp has done for her. HOWEVER, she does not directly reject the affection from the simp either, she enjoys what the simp gives her, but does not appreciate or reciprocate. That's why simps are considered nice guys, but it is pretty pathetic to be a simp.
Do you remember earlier there was a guy in the lounge who spoke about his life with his wife? This member said he takes good care of her, pay bills, feed his wife, but his wife won't even say "thank you", and she doesn't want to get intimate with him, and that's why he is seeing escorts to fulfill his sexual desires?
What this man is doing for his wife, taking care of her, despite the fact that she doesn't reciprocate, YET she doesn't want to divorce him either, which forces him to see escorts. That is the behaviour of simping. This perb member is a simp.
It all comes down to this: as Charlee said it herself, that she won't mind an annoying guy sending her money and serve her. BUT does Charlee want to reciprocate the guy who does send her money and serve her? If the answer is no, yet Charlee doesn't tell the guy, instead, she keeps the guy around because she enjoys the money and service this guy offers without giving anything in return, then this guy is a simp. Charlee, if you said simp equals a stalker, do you consider an annoying guy who sends you money and serves you to be a stalker? Most likely no. You like having a guy doing those things for you, and that makes him a simp instead of a stalker who you don't want to keep around.
Now that I think about it, seeing escorts is not simping, because we are actually getting something in return for our money. But in civic relationships there are suckers who are kept on the hook by a girl and he is providing not receiving. These guys are the simps.
In my example of Charlee and the simp who spoils her, Charlee is a civilian, not an escort. A simp is different from a client, because a simp does not get anything from the girl he approaches, but we clients get to have sex after we spend our money.
Before @CharleeBeckett argues, why doesn't the girl in such scenarios just reject the guy if she isn't interested? Well, like Charlee said she won't mind an annoying guy spoiling her, it is in every woman's nature to want to be spoiled. If a sucker doesn't understand that and he won't quit, then he is a simp.
Now that I think about it, seeing escorts is not simping, because we are actually getting something in return for our money. But in civic relationships there are suckers who are kept on the hook by a girl and he is providing not receiving. These guys are the simps.
In my example of Charlee and the simp who spoils her, Charlee is a civilian, not an escort. A simp is different from a client, because a simp does not get anything from the girl he approaches, but we clients get to have sex after we spend our money.
Before @CharleeBeckett argues, why doesn't the girl in such scenarios just reject the guy if she isn't interested? Well, like Charlee said she won't mind an annoying guy spoiling her, it is in every woman's nature to want to be spoiled. If a sucker doesn't understand that and he won't quit, then he is a simp.
Well said.
A consensual transactional relationship with a SP is not in the same realm of what a simp does with his money, life and free time.
I find it hilarious that some women have a visceral hate of the word "simp" while having no clue what it actually means. they think men will stop being nice/generous to women if they're shamed and called simps, which can't be further from the truth!
it's usually men I see calling other men pussies, never heard a woman call a man a simp unless she's a domme and they like it *shrug*
Women don't call men a simp. Simps are suckers for women and they don't realize it themselves. We men call each other simp, but from my experiences it's in a jokingly manner, as in hey brother wake up you are simping and wasting your time on her!
Simp is not a compliment. Being called a simp means other people around you notice that you are putting in effort for nothing, it's basically another word for sucker but specifically for the behaviour of upholding women to an extreme extent and receiving nothing in return.
Obviously women won't call guys who are being nice to them simps, otherwise how do they keep the simps around? Lol
This is 100% what a simp actually is.
One of the saddest things I seen online was when a women posted the man's name in her phone as " Free Food".
smfh
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