SP names + number

[freakydeaky1]

sorry for a dumb question, new here and doing some research to find a cute asian lady who meets my desires.

trying to find korean yumi (korean) who is highly reviewed, but i think she's listed in on here but not sure she’s active. Can someone help a total noob? what are the 4 digits at the end, last 4 of phone number or some method of location online? I’ve Google searched and no luck.

leaning towards chloe, candy or bona at daynight. do they look like their photos, mostly at least? anyone feel strongly about one of these being best for a first timer who's a little nervous?

can anyone say if these below are legit?

https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...apanese_girls_in_vancouver_or_burnaby-5872460
https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...y_ara_playmate_from_busan_south_korea-6364178
http://honeybb.ca/product/lisa-中国🇨🇳莞式女王 (i love how the link says "lisa" but the ad says "rita") dead giveaway?
https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...couver/vancouver_new_young_asian_girl-5950230

Lastly - is there a way of knowing which SPs are working against their will, like as part of indentured servitude + organized crime? Not really down with supporting that shit, like at all.

 

[blakealridge]

It the last four digits if their phone number.
“hOw CaN i TeLl iF sOmEoNe iS bEiNg TrAfFiCkEd”
I swear if you cannot tell you shouldn’t be seeing SPs at all. Or maybe having sex at all. You need to learn about enthusiastic consent

 

[Rossland]

Charlee you rock

 

[freakydeaky1]

It the last four digits if their phone number.
“hOw CaN i TeLl iF sOmEoNe iS bEiNg TrAfFiCkEd”
I swear if you cannot tell you shouldn’t be seeing SPs at all. Or maybe having sex at all. You need to learn about enthusiastic consent

hmm. sorry if that was not ok to ask Charlee, but seems a little harsh. I mentioned have ZERO experience with this -- ie paying for services that seem to usually have what is allowed and not allowed defined prior to beginning, coupled with an expectation that i'm paying someone to have sex with me. My thinking (clearly ignorant) was that consent was implied as a result, else they wouldn't take my money or advertise as a sex worker.

I was very mindful of enthusiastic consent with my last partner as I wasn't entering into an agreement with an exchange of money every time we were intimate, but its a little different right?

Is it not possible that someone being forced against their will can "fake" enthusiastic consent?
If I see someone who's distracted or not feeling great that day and she seems to not be enjoying herself, should I assume that is a reflection of her consent or her situation or just her mood?

 

[blakealridge]

hmm. sorry if that was not ok to ask Charlee, but seems a little harsh. I mentioned have ZERO experience with this -- ie paying for services that seem to usually have what is allowed and not allowed defined prior to beginning, coupled with an expectation that i'm paying someone to have sex with me. My thinking (clearly ignorant) was that consent was implied as a result, else they wouldn't take my money or advertise as a sex worker.

I was very mindful of enthusiastic consent with my last partner as I wasn't entering into an agreement with an exchange of money every time we were intimate, but its a little different right?

Is it not possible that someone being forced against their will can "fake" enthusiastic consent?
If I see someone who's distracted or not feeling great that day and she seems to not be enjoying herself, should I assume that is a reflection of her consent or her situation or just her mood?

in any situation if someone is distracted and not feeling great you shouldn't be fucking them? regardless of whether you're paying them or not....?
honestly if you can't tell if someone is being trafficked or not you do not understand consent, trafficking, or women at all.
read the reviews here, find someone with good reviews, go with her. I'd recommend Indies or established agencies with good reputations. all the information you need is here.

 

[emacky]

So majority of ads members quote are off LL or Leo's (leolist). Usually you can go there, search for the girls name and see if the number matches up or search the last four digits.

I'm not gonna answer the question regarding consent. Everyone of them has a story and reason for going into the industry. Some good some bad. If you want some examples better to message more experience members privately.

 

[freakydeaky1]

in any situation if someone is distracted and not feeling great you shouldn't be fucking them? regardless of whether you're paying them or not....?
honestly if you can't tell if someone is being trafficked or not you do not understand consent, trafficking, or women at all.
read the reviews here, find someone with good reviews, go with her. I'd recommend Indies or established agencies with good reputations. all the information you need is here.

thanks Charlee - so i guess the takeaway here is :

if an SP seems like they are NOT enjoying themselves or seem like they DON'T want to be there, AND are NOT frequently consenting enthusiastically, that they are an unwilling participant and there against their will?

Sorry Charlee, i don't know shit about shit when it comes to this, but I have talked about consent at length with my last partner and became clearer about that after the initial me too movement, but honestly, I'm not sure what I did to deserve the responses I got from you for trying to do the right thing. I apologize if I triggered you with my question.

 

[freakydeaky1]

So majority of ads members quote are off LL or Leo's (leolist). Usually you can go there, search for the girls name and see if the number matches up or search the last four digits.

I'm not gonna answer the question regarding consent. Everyone of them has a story and reason for going into the industry. Some good some bad. If you want some examples better to message more experience members privately.

thanks so much for the helpful response....

 

[TenesseeTuxedo]

thanks Charlee - so i guess the takeaway here is :

if an SP seems like they are NOT enjoying themselves or seem like they DON'T want to be there, AND are NOT frequently consenting enthusiastically, that they are an unwilling participant and there against their will?

Sorry Charlee, i don't know shit about shit when it comes to this, but I have talked about consent at length with my last partner and became clearer about that after the initial me too movement, but honestly, I'm not sure what I did to deserve the responses I got from you for trying to do the right thing. I apologize if I triggered you with my question.

Don't worry you weren't out of line with your inquiry at all. The response that you got back however definitely was.

 

[blakealridge]

thanks Charlee - so i guess the takeaway here is :

if an SP seems like they are NOT enjoying themselves or seem like they DON'T want to be there, AND are NOT frequently consenting enthusiastically, that they are an unwilling participant and there against their will?

Sorry Charlee, i don't know shit about shit when it comes to this, but I have talked about consent at length with my last partner and became clearer about that after the initial me too movement, but honestly, I'm not sure what I did to deserve the responses I got from you for trying to do the right thing. I apologize if I triggered you with my question.

I'm not triggered, I'm just making a point. but yes, if someone isn't consenting enthusiastically, then they're an unwilling participant. they could be trafficked, they could be desperate. they could be having a bad day. don't ever sleep with someone who isn't consenting enthusiastically. I'm not sure why you'd even want to... that concerns me deeply.

 

[Liam 1]

It the last four digits if their phone number.
“hOw CaN i TeLl iF sOmEoNe iS bEiNg TrAfFiCkEd”
I swear if you cannot tell you shouldn’t be seeing SPs at all. Or maybe having sex at all. You need to learn about enthusiastic consent

Rude and inappropriate.

 

[Maybee]

Korean Yumi toured here in Vancouver and I believe she has already left. Out of the Daynight options I would go with Chloe as the pictures are exactly what you get and she is well reviewed. Bona is also ok, more service oriented, also a nice lady but the pics are inaccurate. To maximize your chances with Chloe I suggest you call in the morning to Daynight and be prepared to answer her questions if it's your first time with them.

 

[freakydeaky1]

I'm not triggered, I'm just making a point. but yes, if someone isn't consenting enthusiastically, then they're an unwilling participant. they could be trafficked, they could be desperate. they could be having a bad day. don't ever sleep with someone who isn't consenting enthusiastically. I'm not sure why you'd even want to... that concerns me deeply.

copy that. I def don't want to be with anyone who doesn't want to be there. that's what i'm hoping to avoid (in advance). not sure how you got the impression that I did want that, but it 100% is not what i'm after.

 

[blakealridge]

copy that. I def don't want to be with anyone who doesn't want to be there. that's what i'm hoping to avoid (in advance). not sure how you got the impression that I did want that, but it 100% is not what i'm after.

I was more surprised/disturbed that you didn’t think you’d be able to tell :/

 

[freakydeaky1]

I was more surprised/disturbed that you didn’t think you’d be able to tell :/

I think I would, but I’m sometimes overly sensitive to “apparent” tension and discomfort of others and am a little worried about misreading the situation in the moment, having never done this before, and having read reviews about SPs who seemed unenthusiastic to more seasoned reviewers.

 

[blakealridge]

I think I would, but I’m sometimes overly sensitive to “apparent” tension and discomfort of others and am a little worried about misreading the situation in the moment, having never done this before, and having read reviews about SPs who seemed unenthusiastic to more seasoned reviewers.

Fair enough. Probably best to go with an indie with solid reviews for your first time!

 

[pleasureprinciple]

Open question to Mods:
Does this style of response conform with the guidelines prominently and properly explained in the sticky post at the top of each section?
I think we were all new once, and asked questions that we did not know at the time.
Sorry to say I feel that a new person received a dressing down that was not in keeping with the spirit of the board.

 

[finglong6]

sorry for a dumb question, new here and doing some research to find a cute asian lady who meets my desires.

trying to find korean yumi (korean) who is highly reviewed, but i think she's listed in on here but not sure she’s active. Can someone help a total noob? what are the 4 digits at the end, last 4 of phone number or some method of location online? I’ve Google searched and no luck.

leaning towards chloe, candy or bona at daynight. do they look like their photos, mostly at least? anyone feel strongly about one of these being best for a first timer who's a little nervous?

can anyone say if these below are legit?

https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...apanese_girls_in_vancouver_or_burnaby-5872460
https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...y_ara_playmate_from_busan_south_korea-6364178
http://honeybb.ca/product/lisa-中国🇨🇳莞式女王 (i love how the link says "lisa" but the ad says "rita") dead giveaway?
https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...couver/vancouver_new_young_asian_girl-5950230

Lastly - is there a way of knowing which SPs are working against their will, like as part of indentured servitude + organized crime? Not really down with supporting that shit, like at all.

Welcome to Perb comrade!

 

[localguy]

Rude and inappropriate.

Can't agree more. Completely over the top and so uneccessary.