So, my last experience with a very beautiful lady was almost perfect except for one tiny thing; every time I was really getting intimate and ready to finish, I lost stiffness. I don’t know if it’s due to lack of experience, ED, or if I’m just not used to condoms. I had absolutely no problem getting hard and no problem finishing without a condom. What would you suggest?
Trouble staying hard with cover on
- Thread starter WMD0991
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Finish with a condomless hand job or bbbj if available
Looking forward to the replies as have the exact same problem. Same with CBJ. Can’t even get me hard.
So disappointing/embarrassing to have a beautiful woman in bed with you only to be unable to perform. And not porn/masturbation induced - gave that up for the most part a long time ago -
So disappointing/embarrassing to have a beautiful woman in bed with you only to be unable to perform. And not porn/masturbation induced - gave that up for the most part a long time ago -
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BollsDeep
A few things ...
One, this is why I often prefer massage service. It's all skin on skin.
Two, find a girl who understands she has to get you to full attention before slipping the rubber on. So many want to put it on straight outta the gate.
Three, don't let the stigma of sildenafil keep you from experiencing the full throttle of your youth.
One, this is why I often prefer massage service. It's all skin on skin.
Two, find a girl who understands she has to get you to full attention before slipping the rubber on. So many want to put it on straight outta the gate.
Three, don't let the stigma of sildenafil keep you from experiencing the full throttle of your youth.
If you’re under 30-35 it probably is all in your head or could be the size and fit of the condom. Over that age, talk to your doctor about cialis/viagra. It’s been a game changer for me. I don’t need to use it all the time, but with a condom taking away some sensation, the little boost from cialis helps a ton.
1) definitely try out different condom brands and see what feels the best.
2) I put the condom on myself - I know how to get it on how I like it, and it’s usually quicker.
3) lots of foreplay
4) use the pills if you need them. No shame. No one has to know except you.
1) definitely try out different condom brands and see what feels the best.
2) I put the condom on myself - I know how to get it on how I like it, and it’s usually quicker.
3) lots of foreplay
4) use the pills if you need them. No shame. No one has to know except you.
I had no idea about a couple of things on this topic until I did a bit of exploring.
Yes, the obvious is easy. A little blue pill can be a life changer. It works for me. It’s like going in knowing your beat up old Volkswagen is gonna run a decent quarter mile with the Porsche you’ve selected to take your money. I like being with women who wouldn’t normally give me a second glance, that can cause issues.
Shave or otherwise get rid of hair on your junk. Yea, it makes it look bigger, whatever. I’m average in that department and I don’t really care how big it looks. Can I make eyes roll back in the head? Occasionally.
Condoms pull at hair, make the fit uncomfortable and are generally a nuisance. I can get the condom on further making a nicer fit with no hair. Just like previous posters have said, there’s no shame in using V or C, try a bigger condom. You might think those are just for the guys on “monsters of cock” but I’ve discovered that they feel pretty nice. Same with the extra thin ones.
Also, try a cock ring. It’s fun and some girls find it’s fun too.
Lastly, have a glass of ice water beside the bed. If you feel yourself getting soft get her to put an ice cold finger up your ass. Works for me, I’m not a medical doctor but it’s sure fun.
Yes, the obvious is easy. A little blue pill can be a life changer. It works for me. It’s like going in knowing your beat up old Volkswagen is gonna run a decent quarter mile with the Porsche you’ve selected to take your money. I like being with women who wouldn’t normally give me a second glance, that can cause issues.
Shave or otherwise get rid of hair on your junk. Yea, it makes it look bigger, whatever. I’m average in that department and I don’t really care how big it looks. Can I make eyes roll back in the head? Occasionally.
Condoms pull at hair, make the fit uncomfortable and are generally a nuisance. I can get the condom on further making a nicer fit with no hair. Just like previous posters have said, there’s no shame in using V or C, try a bigger condom. You might think those are just for the guys on “monsters of cock” but I’ve discovered that they feel pretty nice. Same with the extra thin ones.
Also, try a cock ring. It’s fun and some girls find it’s fun too.
Lastly, have a glass of ice water beside the bed. If you feel yourself getting soft get her to put an ice cold finger up your ass. Works for me, I’m not a medical doctor but it’s sure fun.
Lol . Turrible, do you get to return the finger and get to stick a ice cold finer up their butt? Does this ever lead to Greek for you ? Do you prep your appointments with “ can I get a glass of cold water with ice? “ it does sound like fun with the ice though. Too bad V and C is still relatively expensive (or at least it used to be ) but I guess the cost of it is small compared to the price of an appointment. They sell that stuff otc in Mexico. Not sure if it’s the real thing or knock offs though. .
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BollsDeep
Expensive? About 12 bucks for a pill and half (or less) usually gets the job done. Six bucks provides great ROI.
The icy finger is a YMMV kinda thing. Depends on each individual lol. I myself kinda like it. But then I had a domme try figging on me. Figging is when you shape a piece of ginger like a dick and jam it up a guys ass. It burns and tingles for the curious minded. Quite exhilarating as is the cold finger.
I’m not sure about C. Only used it once. Horny af for 3 days. V works for me as long as I hydrate. Expensive? Prescription from a dr works out to about $6.50 per dose. That’s the cost of doing business as I see it. I like going in knowing that I will in fact be “going in” and not worried about it. It also seems to let me play in the msog category more frequently.
I decided to try “practicing” with a cover, just to get more used to it, and I think it’s helping. ?
I cannot take credit for either. Lovers with imagination get the credit there.
An old gf pulled the ice water trick on me one time, I liked it so I deploy it occasionally.
A domme had me trussed up one time and the ginger thing came up as a subject. Next thing I found myself saying sure why not, again. Next thing I know...
Why thank you M’lady, ya ain’t so bad yourself. Well actually I think you are, but in a good way.
I do try to aim to please.
