For some it's an addiction like gambling. They expect a big high and when it's not what they expected feel a big let down because the money could be better spent.
It’s F*cking Expensive
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It is expensive, especially in Vancouver. Pooning is not a poor man's game. How can you get around it? Find other hobbies that are less expensive.
I agree with the addiction part. There were days when I would visit two providers, and sometimes three, and add phone sex into the day’s events once I returned home. I was chasing a high for sure, and it definitely got expensive. Regarding pooning, I ended up adding a daily withdrawal limit to my ATM card in order to cut myself off from cash. I still struggle with self control every now and then, but with age things don’t work as efficiently as they once did, so I don’t chase it as much as I had.
Agreed, either divorced and financially/emotionally hurt.
Or never married and can't get dates or a struggle, don't want to get burned etc., most won't admit it on this forum.
What is it to you what people are doing or why....are you some kind of savour.....?????
Are you loosing sleep over not knowing....
You savour pussy when doing daty, I think you mean saviour which makes little sense in this reply.
Not losing sleep, some members are in denial or have too much pride doing this hobby.
Btw, loosing is maybe applying lubricant, get your mind out of the gutter Lo-Ki.
The ATM needing a limit was why you felt you had an addiction issue and I don't want to question your experience.
However, if a husband has sex with his wife 2 to 3 times a day, 5-7 days a week is it an addiction?
Does the amount of daily sex desired make it an addiction or does the spending of money on the hobby beyond your means create the distinction?
I often think of Tiger Woods and the damage control he had to do after his wife caught him cheating. I never bought for a second it was an addiction for Tiger. He just seemed to like spreading his seed and had the means to afford the hobby.
If a member can afford the hobby and has a strong enough libido to handle 2-3 women a day sexually, I am unsure if it qualifies as an addiction. Sounds like a man who just enjoys lots of sex with beautiful women and can bankroll it.
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Addiction for sex is not defined as well as other forms of addiction (e.g. alcohol, drugs) but the commonality is "how often is the subject of addiction a detriment to your (day to day) life? and how severe are those detriments?"
So you are mostly correct, you could in theory have sex five times a day and have it not be considered an addiction, or even once a week and have it be considered an addiction. The Tiger example is a little disingenuous without knowing exactly how his habits affected his day to day life (i.e. relationship with wife and kids, his golf game, any business he does, etc.), but I think we're generally on the same page.
I don't know any Perb reviewers particularly well, but given some of the reviews I've seen, its very clear to me that their pooning experiences play a large role in their emotional wellbeing, and I do think money plays a role in that (getting back to the point of the thread).
What about the economics of it? Is it possible dating can be time consuming and an onerous ordeal for men? I suspect there is simply be a group of men whom have come to terms with this calculus and though capable of attaining a conventional relationship prefer the company of a large spectrum of providers.
Four different beautiful women per week, on an average 1000 dollar budget to keep it simple. Fifty-two thousand dollars spent result in roughly 200 incredible and stress free sexual escapades per year.
If not for two issues, the stigma and risk of STDs, this is Disneyland for men. We aren't all broken. Some of us just really like it for the math.
Interesting points. When I was single, and younger, my libido was pretty strong. I would spend the night with a fuck buddy, drop her off and pick up my girlfriend. Have sex with her at night and the following morning, then drop her off and pick up my ex for more sex. I was attracted to all three for different physical and sexual reasons.
Once married, to a completely different woman, the well kind of dried up. Not a lot of sex at all...so perhaps it’s not an addiction. I simply need a release. Sometimes multiple.
I suppose I used the term addiction because I’ve been known to spend more time seeking an orgasm or physical companionship than doing other things with my free time, and it seems that the more I get, the more I want — limited by my middle aged abilities, of course. In retrospect, given the lack of sex in my relationship, I may just be filling a void. But, yeah, I did have to put a daily limit on the card in an effort to keep things in check financially. Anyhow, enough of my rambling. Apologies for the rant, but thanks for allowing me to unload. Happy pooning.
