Good evening gents,
Something has come to my attention recently. I am an early 30s, well mannered gent with all due consideration to hygiene, presentation etc., however I am increasingly encountering handlers either ignoring my texts or becoming intermittently cold or unresponsive despite a previous good rapport and with repeat bookings. I recently had to cancel an appointment the morning of due to symptoms of a cold, and wanted to do the right thing and get covid tested, so I came clean and offered to compensate for this same-day cancellation. What I wonder is why I neither get an acknowledgment of my apology nor an answer to my offer of compensation. I’ve lived in both Montréal and Toronto and have had preferred status at a couple agencies there. In fact, the whole concept of sex work seems to be less taboo, and more customer service driven, which might explain my different experience there. But here, from time to time, I find myself feeling either rejected or “ghosted” despite obvious cause. I get that this is a business and is only as successful as it is profitable for both handlers and SPs, however why not try to build solid relationships with repeat customers? Am I alone in this? I am not soft of ego or unaware of the concept of supply and demand, but Vancouver just seems a little “different” than other places. Not an attack on anyone in particular, but an observation. Hopefully this can generate some healthy discussion. If others are preferred customers and have been more successful, feel free to share your recommendations on how to improve my standing in this community!
DD
Something has come to my attention recently. I am an early 30s, well mannered gent with all due consideration to hygiene, presentation etc., however I am increasingly encountering handlers either ignoring my texts or becoming intermittently cold or unresponsive despite a previous good rapport and with repeat bookings. I recently had to cancel an appointment the morning of due to symptoms of a cold, and wanted to do the right thing and get covid tested, so I came clean and offered to compensate for this same-day cancellation. What I wonder is why I neither get an acknowledgment of my apology nor an answer to my offer of compensation. I’ve lived in both Montréal and Toronto and have had preferred status at a couple agencies there. In fact, the whole concept of sex work seems to be less taboo, and more customer service driven, which might explain my different experience there. But here, from time to time, I find myself feeling either rejected or “ghosted” despite obvious cause. I get that this is a business and is only as successful as it is profitable for both handlers and SPs, however why not try to build solid relationships with repeat customers? Am I alone in this? I am not soft of ego or unaware of the concept of supply and demand, but Vancouver just seems a little “different” than other places. Not an attack on anyone in particular, but an observation. Hopefully this can generate some healthy discussion. If others are preferred customers and have been more successful, feel free to share your recommendations on how to improve my standing in this community!
DD
