Is it cheating when it is a sexless marriage?
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Absolutely that's cheating. How do you think your left hand will feel if she finds out your penis has been messing around with that right hand floozy next door? Think with your bigger head buddy!
Is it cheating when it is a sexless marriage?
I dunno. Is it cheating when the fridge is empty and you order a pizza?
I dunno. Is it cheating when the fridge is empty and you order a pizza?
Is it cheating if there's no kissing, no cunnilingus, no hand-to-breasts, or genital touching and all female-to-male oral and genital contact is through a condom?
Asking for a friend.
Asking for a friend.
It just means it's about time for you to take your lazy ass to the store and buy some groceries.
I thought this was the PERB lounge, not the PC lounge.
On the topic of objectification, If you think his comment is offensive, you don't want to know the details of how a man's brain processes visual stimuli when looking at women. ?
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Cheating is cheating, no matter what. Still promises made and broken. A lie is a lie. I speak as a man who cheated his way through two marriages. Definitely not judging. Never cheated at all, through my last marriage and try to be totally honest and forthright now. Just a slow learner, I guess. I find honesty works for me and it has become a point of personal honour, but I prefer not to force my morals on other people and do not expect reciprocation, people tend to lie, more than they tell the truth. It's just human nature. I think it is one of the first communication skills we learn.
I wonder if this is the sacred part of the marriage that religion touts? Does cheating lower your self honour? Is honour, Pride?
What is cheating? By thought, word or deed?
Sure men have hormones, but men can controll their impulses. Cheating is a manner of choice, not biology. Ever been turned down by a woman, that was the woman making a choice. So that proves that woman can control thier impulses too. Its all about choice.
Also its not just successful men who choose to cheat.
As for CB, she reminds me of a line in a Loverboy's song "Live Bait".
Little girl, don't you hesitate, 'cause you're usin' live bait
Senorita, solitaire, you got a certain kind of savoir-faire
'Cause you're notorious (notorious), everything you want, everything you need
'Cause you're notorious (notorious), everything mother's nightmare
Every schoolboy's dream
What is cheating? By thought, word or deed?
Sure men have hormones, but men can controll their impulses. Cheating is a manner of choice, not biology. Ever been turned down by a woman, that was the woman making a choice. So that proves that woman can control thier impulses too. Its all about choice.
Also its not just successful men who choose to cheat.
As for CB, she reminds me of a line in a Loverboy's song "Live Bait".
Little girl, don't you hesitate, 'cause you're usin' live bait
Senorita, solitaire, you got a certain kind of savoir-faire
'Cause you're notorious (notorious), everything you want, everything you need
'Cause you're notorious (notorious), everything mother's nightmare
Every schoolboy's dream
There's an old saying, if you need to keep it a secret from your SO,wife ,it's cheating.
I mean, the definition of cheating is doing something intimate with another person without your partner’s consent so how is this thread still going? Lol
I mean, polygamy is not the same as polyamory.
I have made lifelong commitments to people and I intend to see them through. I love them deeply. ??♀ my love is not a finite resource; not for friends, and not for lovers.
BUT IM HONEST ABOUT IT WITH EVERYONE
SO IM NOT A CHEATER lol
My opinion....end the marriage. Life is short...you got to live everyday to the max. Sit her down tomorrow and be honest....you're out.
Really though? What if every single other aspect of the marriage is awesome? Just because monogamy is insisted upon as the norm, does that mean we should let it dictate that we ruin an entire marriage?
cheating isn’t ethical, but I don’t think ending a marriage just cuz you wanna get your rocks off necessarily is either.
Been watching this one for a bit- thought I’d chime in.
If you told your extended family what you were doing would they call it cheating or something else?
Seems to me we all use a ton of rationale to figure out how to do this dance. Single, attached or other.
I would suggest that most people imply a form of monogamy in relationships. So it would seem logical that unless you discuss and agree to something different your commitment to monogamy is expected.
I think for most men they don’t want to have a moral lesson when seeing a provider because they know what they are doing is wrong. I see no reason why a provider should not have an opinion on fidelity whether that opinion should be expressed with clients is another question altogether.
That’s up to her business service model.
tldnr: It’s cheating, infidelity, whatever you want to call it.
If you told your extended family what you were doing would they call it cheating or something else?
Seems to me we all use a ton of rationale to figure out how to do this dance. Single, attached or other.
I would suggest that most people imply a form of monogamy in relationships. So it would seem logical that unless you discuss and agree to something different your commitment to monogamy is expected.
I think for most men they don’t want to have a moral lesson when seeing a provider because they know what they are doing is wrong. I see no reason why a provider should not have an opinion on fidelity whether that opinion should be expressed with clients is another question altogether.
That’s up to her business service model.
tldnr: It’s cheating, infidelity, whatever you want to call it.
